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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Alphamale2017(m): 10:05pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
DLondonboiy:rubbish. Women are not logical beings . They are emotional beings. What the husband will say wont make sense to her. Na those useless romantic talk from the idiot she dey fine. Women take decision by feeling nt by reasoning. 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:God knows I won't do that to my husband and hope to meet someone we have same values. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by fpeter(f): 10:06pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
This matter na waya. Most men neglect their wives immediately after marriage. They forget that a woman needs TLC then once she starts getting attention outside you begin to cry foul. The solution is simple, have a heart to heart conversation with her. Bring back the romance. Initiate outings, visit her at work and take her out to lunch. Go see movies with her...take her out. Revive your love life. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by ethankareem(m): 10:07pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Obviously oga she is cheating................. Put magu 4 her body. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by jakandeola(m): 10:08pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Samadict:thurnda wan fire u der u chimpazee |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by mario383: 10:08pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
gsainttrinity:All these advice you dey givam so, you still remember Gender Equality so. Some women, especially the jet age women will say you are oppressing her. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tonio2wo: 10:09pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Kobicove: So he should wait till its too late abi? |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
kimbra:i feel so happy hearing this from u dear... I hate cheating with passion, I can't stand a lady who cheats on me while I love with my whole heart.. But come ooo, what does this wicked side if urs look like? Hope u won't starve me intentionally of the kini when I ask for it |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Duru009(m): 10:11pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
The earliar u nail it the better..... It's very obvious she is cheating.. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by fumstar(f): 10:13pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Op, all u need is get a couple tracker installed on your phone n on hers too. you can check all her texts, whatsapp messages, calls, her location, Facebook etc. Just anything she does on her phone. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
SorftWerk:Lmao, people tend to take others for a ride mostly when you act cool. That's when I unleash the other side of me. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tonio2wo: 10:15pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
jakandeola: Illiterate! Lmfao |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tuzle(m): 10:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Maychang:why the insult in only made is opinion. can some not make his opinion in peace again must u abuse him to pass ur message 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Alphamale2017(m): 10:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Amarabae:the guy just dey do like woman. Very annoying |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Samadict(f): 10:22pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
jakandeola:Na play I still dey follow you play but you don dey cry. If I come beat you like you beat woman, wetin you go do? Guy carry your yeye go sleep. You go meet woman wey go dish you wetin you sabi give woman. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tonio2wo: 10:22pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Joy1706: So buying her a phone is showing love? Fish brain! 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Howmon: 10:28pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Let me help you OP. It's called whatscan Pro. It's an android app, download and thank me later. Don't rush it, gather overwhelming evidence and don't do anything irrational. Dem plenty like her, we will keep exposing them. Run a DNA for ur kids when u are sure she's cheating. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Speedyconnect13: 10:32pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
bsonenterprise: My man, most hoes arent loyal, if u like buy them i phone 6. another may propose to buy them i phone 7 and they fall. Even if you are a local govt chairman and provides everthing, a hoe may cheat with a governor. So i think its luck basically. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by TheGreatIYANU: 10:33pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone: OP, your Wife is not cheating. YOUR WIFE HAS CHEATED! The singular fact that she DELETES her message threads for you not to see is enough evidence. However, I know your kind. You are soft, meek and humble. You may be smart but your mien shows your wife the opposite and that is why she can go the distance of sexting with her boss and telling you primeval, stupidly childish lies. Another thing with your type of person is, despite all the sensible advice that has been given on this thread from Married folks, you will still be inept. You will do nothing to stop this menace until it is finally too late. If however you want to prove me wrong, here is what you should do - 1. MAN UP and tell your wife to her face that she has been cheating. Tell her about the missing WhatsApp texts and other evidences you have discovered. Tell her you know for a fact that she has feelings for her boss. At this point she will want to interject with tantrums or further excuses (LIES) for the evidence you've seen. BLOCK IT! Do not allow her interject you. It is further sign of weakness. 2. Next find a way (there are many) of hooking your wife's WhatsApp account to your own phone. That way you can monitor her chats (at least for a while). This would do two things - a. Cancel all your suspicions of her cheating ways or b. Confirm them. This surveilance should last just one month. If she is still sexting with him or making plans for some adulterous rendezvous, you will surely see it in this one month. 3. If (WHEN) you get this evidence, it is time to confront your wife with it. Bring the snapshots to the bedroom and show her everything. Don't give her 5 seconds to think up more lies before your next move - Threaten her to confess EVERYTHING or you will divorce her tonight! By this time, she may be shedding crocodile tears. Don't fall for this my guy. - Threaten, huff and puff, rain down fire and brimstone until she confesses. If you do it well, SHE WILL. 4. Tell her to give you her phone and give you all the evidence you have of their amoral affair. Collect her phones, EVERYTHING you can lay your hands on. By this time, you have PROOF. 5. TIME FOR THE BOSS: Next working day, get 3 policemen (if you got friends in the Army, the better). Go to her office and threaten to arrest or arrest him if you may. (In Nigeria, Adultery is an Arrestable Offence.) Make sure he is publicly disgraced in that office and if possible get someone to record the event. 6. When the brouhaha is settled, go back home and decide if you want to divorce your wife. God and the Law would approve of any of your decisions. PS: Your wife may promise to never do it again, but history tells me even in the city, a Leopard can never change its spots. (Let the Wise understand) PSS: For those saying he is not satisfying his wife enough or giving her enough attention, please understand this - the OP never mentioned that his wife complained any of such to him. From his narrative, they enjoy a cordial relationship, but for the recent skirmishes. PSSS: For Married Couples or Intending Couples, please note this - If your husband or wife defaults in a significant aspect of your relationship, please learn to TALK ABOUT IT! If they don't change, ADD PRAYERS. Keep Talking to him/her on the bed and to God on your knees. The change you seek will surely come. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Barzinime(m): 10:36pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Take her on a date & ask her things she might not be getting from you.....probably attention or u caring....if she doesn't change then she a natural cheat...you jez didn't gt 2 c dat part b4 u got married 2 her |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by megama: 10:41pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:. Bro take heart no need painting words, she is already cheating, but never mind. Stop her the work, if it won't affect the financial stability of the house. Change the sim card. Give her a new phone. But mind if your not a real MAN don't try this. Cos your out for better or the worst. Be careful to know what you can stand first. Before any action. If not manage life. When you want to remember the heartbreak drink beer |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by dokiOloye(m): 10:42pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
I now understand what Rick Ross and co mean when they call som1 "pusssy nigger". Woman wey U go drive comot from ya house,carry 2 other baby at d same time,U dey here de talk "I love my wife", yada yada yada |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Alphamale2017(m): 10:43pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
cybriz82:all those call her and sit her down talk na trash. Women are not logical beings. They are emotional beings |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Alphamale2017(m): 10:45pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
suremossty:wow, abeg tell that guy to teach me too. I couldnt find his comment to qoute |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by chigoziri2403(m): 10:47pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Nma27:nothing going on? yet she deletes their conversation |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Chryo: 10:48pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
YOU DO NOT WANT TO FIND OUT! ... JUST PRAY FOR YOUR MARRIAGE |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Umartemmy: 10:50pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
[color=#770077][/color] ikechkwuegone: Hope you.trusted your wife Don't destroy your happy home With what you are not such of Pls try to show your wife love n care Try to ask her that is ma advice |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
jakandeola: Don't mind the yeye girl. That's how an ex gave me an STD after I was being faithful and loving the girl like kilode...as i showed her the result, she was acting indifferent and saying what I don't know. For the first time in my life..I laid hands on a girl...the slap just reset her brain...she started confessing. That was the day I stopped listening to all this emotional blackmail from women about not hitting women.I felt bad about hitting her, i had a culture of a very strong strain of E coli in my house...(a friends mcb project about genetic alteration of microbes), i for just dip my cd inside and give her one last bleep.I still had a 100% good heart number. When I was going for treatment...I also tested for HIV (thank God it came out negative). There was this pretty lady 20 years old , who came with her fiance.....dude was outsyd...deeper life kinda dude, she tested positive and was trying to coerce the councelkor not to tell her fiancé, and instead give her a result that says she is negative... see wickedness. Since that day I just kept the good side of myself away from women...even preggy ones...I just swore to myself that to hell with society... I'm a good sincere person, reserved and mind my business kinda dude and I got the specs...I know that...but if any man or woman wants to destroy me because they feel they can get away with it...I must scar them for life, especially if its someone close that I trusted, male or female... I've stabbed two persons ever since. If as a lady u must taste outsyd..do d right thing and separate from me first...I myt get emotional..but I'll be fine...no come make me regret my kindness to you... Na evil u go dey see from that day henceforth. |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Mrks4770(m): 10:54pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Nma27: Really Please, if u get married, would u be cool with another man calling u "baby, dear etc" in the face of ur husband (re-adjust d question if u re a guy)? Is that even ethical behavior for a company? If all her conducts are pure, y does she wipe her conversation with her boss? Y hasn't she reprimanded her boss over the fact that she's married? Y the stuttering when questioned over her conversations? My man, I'm sorry, but like someone said, she is cheating, even if she may not have followed tru with physical actions, her mind and spirit are already there... And her body will naturally meet up! Now is the best time to act... Gather a few evidences and facts and sort this issue out... Remember AGGRESSION IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST WAY OUT... Someone mentioned a deep conversation over an outing date.... That's mature! But my worry for u sir is this; even if u stop this, wat are the chances dat she won't get on with another guy/man even in a different place of work You need to help her work on her self worth /decency /standards /principles, so she can be a gud wife! Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tifany89(m): 11:03pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Diplomaticbeing:Wow guy, is ur name Solomon? These r wise words 1 Like |
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by ipobarecriminals: 11:07pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
KingsleyCEO:Picking her from work/droppin her nor go Work.She even havE the gut to tell her husband that d Whatsapp chat is a mistake.She always deleted her Whatsapp message.She and her Oga will always find way to do their their thing in coded way.FEAR WOMAN |
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