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I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 5:34am On Mar 19, 2017 |
There's this girl I love and we've been very good friends for sometime now. I consider her to be a nice, sweet loving girl. She loves me so much! But the problem is that she is from a broken home and I'm sure my family members might not accept her based on the popular belief of children from broken homes. There's always this belief about children from broken homes. We are very good together and I know it will be difficult convincing my family members about her. Should I hope that they might even like her like that? |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by searchng4love: 5:40am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:Why use her background not of her making against her? True it may affect her now and then.... But making her realise she may be traumatized due to the challenges associated with growing up in a broken home will certainly be of help. Seek out a marriage counselor preferably an elderly woman.... Not a man. Conversely the episode often make the victims determined that their own children never experience such. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 5:45am On Mar 19, 2017 |
searchng4love:That's true. When she talks about how she wants her family to look like, she's always so passionate about it. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by searchng4love: 5:46am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:You sound immature. My statement needs no further discuss. Provided you're a serious minded individual. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 5:56am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot: Nigerians and their stùpid beliefs. What about kids from stable homes who end up cheating and cant keep their marriages? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:00am On Mar 19, 2017 |
searchng4love:There's nothing immature about this. Our culture demands consent from our families and if they don't support you, it becomes a problem. I need family support. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by searchng4love: 6:03am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:Whatever rocks your boat. You have slept with her countless times and had her commit series of abortions.... So you come here Nicodemusly for reasons justifying your intent of dumping her! I understand. I can see through you. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Zeedarh(f): 6:03am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Be specific.
Who wants to marry her? You or 'your family' Leave her and goan marry trouble that your family would accept. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:06am On Mar 19, 2017 |
The problem is with your family and not the girl. Your family sounds judgemental and I wouldn't want to join such a family. I wish her the best of luck and may she find people who will love, respect and accept her. As for you and your family, I really don't care. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by dikeigbo2(m): 6:07am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Man,be man enough and decide on what you want....forget about that statements that she is from a bla..bla..is it a fault of her's?..certainly No..take her and make her a model you so desired..thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by luminouz(m): 6:08am On Mar 19, 2017 |
searchng4love:Sighs* another soothsayer! |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by squarelead(m): 6:09am On Mar 19, 2017 |
But why all this beliefs about broken home children.... Who tell you say Godly home pikin go build a Godly home. Just seeks God's face to choose for you. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:11am On Mar 19, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:I tire oo |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by luminouz(m): 6:13am On Mar 19, 2017 |
LeView1:Y comment if u don't give a fvck? |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:13am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Zeedarh:nobody gets married alone without family 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:17am On Mar 19, 2017 |
LeView1:you are really taking it personal, are you from a broken home? Or are you telling me your family doesn't have reservations in issues. I need matured comments not a hate filled one like yours Cheers |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:17am On Mar 19, 2017 |
luminouz:help me ask am oo |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:19am On Mar 19, 2017 |
dikeigbo2:thank you bro |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:21am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot: My comment is hateful but you and your family judging the girl based on something she had no control of is what? Loving? I don't advice children on adult matters so go brush your teeth and get ready for church. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Zeedarh(f): 6:23am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:You're right. You're the one marrying the girl, you should be able to make your family see reasons why they should 'accept' her. I don't even understand when being from a broken home became a crime. Remember that the devil you know is better than the angel you do not know. This is a marriage talk - know that whatever decision you make now affects you forever. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:23am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Is that the reason why you don't want her? its not her fault that she is from a broken home. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:24am On Mar 19, 2017 |
searchng4love:You can't possibly say this to me because you don't know about our relationship! |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:26am On Mar 19, 2017 |
ToriBlue:It's not about me not wanting her, it's the family acceptance. Why do we talk as if one gets married alone without family? |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by searchng4love: 6:26am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:Sorry I hit a raw nerve |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:29am On Mar 19, 2017 |
LeView1:My dear, my family hasn't rejected her because I haven't even introduced her to them. Nobody is judging anybody. I only asked a question based on the beliefs that is being held about children from broken homes. You sound bitter. Is everything alright? |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Zeedarh(f): 6:29am On Mar 19, 2017 |
searchng4love:Guy.... C'mon. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:31am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot:Its left for you to convince your family that she is good despite coming from a broken home. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:34am On Mar 19, 2017 |
ToriBlue:That's the uphill task I'm faced with. How do I start, because one question that will surely pop up will be, are both parents staying together? People are just talking as if we don't need our families support. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Nobody: 6:38am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sirhot: . |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by 2kurupt(m): 6:39am On Mar 19, 2017 |
OP so who told you that you come from a perfect family yourself? You actually sound like one who is looking for an exit strategy out of the relationship |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by sirhot(m): 6:41am On Mar 19, 2017 |
2kurupt:There's a difference between separated parents and parents staying together. You don't know anything about the love we share. It's not a matter of being perfect or not. Use of English is a big issue here. |
Re: I Want Her But Her Family Background Is A Problem by Justeenaleo(f): 6:44am On Mar 19, 2017 |
What exactly is the belief about "children from a broken home?" |
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