Fellow nairalanders, there is this girl who started living with a neighbour of mine like 2 months ago,the girl and I mostly pump into each other a lot but whenever I see her I do lose my courage of talking to her and whenever I talk to her I can't look at her face directly unlike talking to other girls,because of that I secretly stare at her face of which she has caught me a lot but never said anything... sometimes I do visit the neighbour she is staying with for no reason just to see her face.. whenever she smiles,her smile melt my heart a lot,not to talk of her beautiful face and other sexy part....Recently I noticed she also secretly stare at me(already thinking maybe she feels the same way abt me) but the problem is we both haven't been talking well and she is leaving in two weeks time
Dear NL,1.Can I say am in love with this girl?

2.if am really in love with this girl,should I start avoiding her or I should say my mind because I still think am young to be have these feelings

NOTE.I am still a TEENAGER... No ABUSIVE comments pls

It melts ur heart? Why? Is ur heart made of butter?



U are physically attracted to her..it's not really LOVE but who knows?

HELP!!



WE DONT GIVE A Bleep

My advice to you is that whenever u see that lady tell her that u don't want to see her again and if u still keep seeing her slap her. Thank me later

Teenager?


Infatuation

How old are u ? And the young girl , how old is she ? We can take it up from there

call her and say ur mind she can kill u,she may have the same in mind,looking at u without confidence,o boy say ur mind and relax

Alphamale2017:
How old are u ? And the young girl , how old is she ? We can take it up from there

Am 18 and the girl should be around that

CriticMaestro:
that's called crush, and dont worry it fades away, just get pass ur jamb and gain admission to a university, it will all be history...love at 18?? hahahahaah u fvcking kidding right?

And what's so wrong about 18? Probably you don't know, but, 18YOs get married, just because in this generation everyone's fornicating and getting married in their late thirties doesn't make the right way wrong. Some decades back 16,17,18 were all married

mayprince:


Am 18 and the girl should be around that

18 is okay to start. I will advise u to go for her. Talk to her with a smile dancing around ur face. Dont be overly serious. . Tell her how u feel about her. Do it as soon as possible so within the next 2 weeks u will have more time to furthet woo her before she leaves. And she will also have enough time to brood over it. I want u to experience at least 1 heart break before u turn 21. It will ginger and motivate u to hustle more and want to make it early in life,

Tadeknkeepcalm:

And what's so wrong about 18? Probably you don't know, but, 18YOs get married, just because in this generation everyone's fornicating and getting married in their late thirties doesn't make the right way wrong. Some decades back 16,17,18 were all married

some decades ago the world was a different place, we aint living in the past, this is the future and yes some 19 years old get married today, but is that type of family u want to raise? almajiris??

Alphamale2017:
18 is okay to start.... I want u to experience at least 1 heart break before u turn 21. It will ginger and motivate u to hustle more and want to make it early in life,

Wickkked!

Alphamale2017:
18 is okay to start. I will advise u to go for her. Talk to her with a smile dancing around ur face. Dont be overly serious. . Tell her how u feel about her. Do it as soon as possible so within the next 2 weeks u will have more time to furthet woo her before she leaves. And she will also have enough time to brood over it. I want u to experience at least 1 heart break before u turn 21. It will ginger and motivate u to hustle more and want to make it early in life,

hmmm....OK
but what if she decides not to break my heart because i think she feels the same abt me

sphinix:
Wickkked!

lol its the truth. I really want him to start dating. When one guy in the university use his fathers car to collect the girl from him and the 6k feeding allowance his parents send to him to manage while on campus is not even enough to take her out. After his rivals use their dads car to win the girl , my nigga will not know when he will buy a laptop and start to hustle. Even when his mates are asleep, he will still be awake. You do not really know how far and fast you can run until you are challenged. they will bring out the best in him

Take your time bro. Slowly but steadily build a very cosy and friendly relationship with her so much you dont feel shy around her no more. Along the line, if there is gonna be anything, you'll know and it will not be a one-sided flow of emotions...

mayprince:


hmmm....OK
but what if she decides not to break my heart because i think she feels the same abt me

pray she isnt the type who is easily distracted or place too much emphasis on material things. Even if she choose not to break ur heart, there is a little possibility you will still want to make it quick becos u do not want to lose her since she is a nice, its not a one way traffic. either way sha, heart break will motivate u better than this later option u just mentioned

Frolic:
Take your time bro. Slowly but steadily build a very cosy and friendly relationship with her so much you dont feel shy around her no more. Along the line, if there is gonna be anything, you'll know and it will not be a one-sided flow of emotions...

the girl is a visitor as he said earlier, he only has 2 weeks left

Alphamale2017:
the girl is a visitor as he said earlier, he only has 2 weeks left

It's the 21st century and making friends and getting to catch up with them daily even if they are thousands of miles away is a very good friend to reality, welcome aboard. I'm your guide frolic

Frolic:
It's the 21st century and making friends and getting to catch up with them daily even if they are thousands of miles away is a very good friend to reality, welcome aboard. I'm your guide frolic

my pleasure , i just followed u, do well to follow back . Oh i am not gay. I mean follow me on nairaland .

Cc zarzar

Alphamale2017:
my pleasure , i just followed u, do well to follow back . Oh i am not gay. I mean follow me on nairaland .

Lol, Okay.

Alphamale2017:
Cc zarzar

My feelings about relationship matters at the moment is better explained below

ZarZar:


My feelings about relationship matters at the moment is better explained below

Lmaooo. Why na ? Who broke ur heart ? Tell me. I will have him tied to a stake and tortured

Alphamale2017:
Lmaooo. Why na ? Who broke ur heart ? Tell me. I will have him tied to a stake and tortured

I'm good

ZarZar:


I'm good

okay then, u just saved one truckload of blood from been spilled . i was expecting ur follow back yesternight , i didnt get to see it before i slept off

Alphamale2017:
okay then, u just saved one truckload of blood from been spilled . i was expecting ur follow back yesternight , i didnt get to see it before i slept off

Follow back? On what?

ZarZar:

Follow back? On what?

i just followed u

Alphamale2017:
i just followed u

Me too

ZarZar:

Me too

nice

Alphamale2017:
18 is okay to start. I will advise u to go for her. Talk to her with a smile dancing around ur face. Dont be overly serious. . Tell her how u feel about her. Do it as soon as possible so within the next 2 weeks u will have more time to furthet woo her before she leaves. And she will also have enough time to brood over it. I want u to experience at least 1 heart break before u turn 21. It will ginger and motivate u to hustle more and want to make it early in life,

Nice one my nigga! Remind me to buy you a house in Maitama when I blow.

ikp120 on da beat.