I want to know the reason why most ladies don't ask a guy to know about him on social media. I have come across hundreds of ladies on different social media but they still act the same way. You can only see the guy asking questions about her but most will not even ask how are you.

Please be mature, no insults or senseless answers.

Hope you've gotten your voters card ready instead of asking us this jamb question this early morning

the thing don pain am!!!

Proffeluczy1:
I want to know the reason why most ladies don't ask a guy to know about him on social media. I have come across hundreds of ladies on different social media but they still act the same way. You can only see the guy asking questions about her but most will not even ask how are you.

Please be mature, no insults or senseless answers.

You are the one doing the wooing so it's expected you do most of the talking/chatting. They only start responding once they start picking an interest in you

Not all ladies are socially inept. Perhaps it boils down to their level of interest. No interest. No care how your day went.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hope you've gotten your voters card ready instead of asking us this jamb question this early morning

Snap your own and send...Everyone be forming PVC

if a girl likes u, she'll ask. although some girls always want u to make d first move b4 u start seeing her as desperate. nor 4get say sense dey pain some Niger guys

dude the only chick that does that are the ones who doesn't have an interest in you yet..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hope you've gotten your voters card ready instead of asking us this jamb question this early morning

hahaha. I got you?

efesodje:


You are the one doing the wooing so it's expected you do most of the talking/chatting. They only start responding once they start picking an interest in you

Do you mean that you have never experienced such thing before?

Proffeluczy1:


Do you mean that you have never experienced such thing before?

Any guy that tells you he has never experienced such is a liar.

Chatting a girl online comes down to 2 key things: your pick up lines and the visual aspect (your photo)

Your profile photo is key. On the internet your looks determine 50% of your seduction success. Get a good profile photo (use a professional photographer preferably).

Now lets talk about your wooing skills. I hope you don't talk too much and in the process bore the girl to death?

At the very least, you want to convey the following:

-you have experience with other women
-you have options
-you are confident
-you have self-control
-the interaction isn’t just about trying to sleep with her

I will finish this after work. Kinda busy now. Cheers

efesodje:


Any guy that tells you he has never experienced such is a liar.

Chatting a girl online comes down to 2 key things: your pick up lines and the visual aspect (your photo)

Your profile photo is key. On the internet your looks determine 50% of your seduction success. Get a good profile photo (use a professional photographer preferably).

Now lets talk about your wooing skills. I hope you don't talk too much and in the process bore the girl to death?

At the very least, you want to convey the following:

-you have experience with other women
-you have options
-you are confident
-you have self-control
-the interaction isn’t just about trying to sleep with her

I will finish this after work. Kinda busy now. Cheers

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efesodje:


Any guy that tells you he has never experienced such is a liar.

Chatting a girl online comes down to 2 key things: your pick up lines and the visual aspect (your photo)

Your profile photo is key. On the internet your looks determine 50% of your seduction success. Get a good profile photo (use a professional photographer preferably).

Now lets talk about your wooing skills. I hope you don't talk too much and in the process bore the girl to death?

At the very least, you want to convey the following:

-you have experience with other women
-you have options
-you are confident
-you have self-control
-the interaction isn’t just about trying to sleep with her

I will finish this after work. Kinda busy now. Cheers

OK still waiting to learn more

donstan18:

Snap your own and send...Everyone be forming PVC

To what end kwanu

Proffeluczy1:


OK still waiting to learn more

Ok bro here it goes:

1.Don't say the first thing that jumps into your head. So . . . forget just saying "hi." This is what 90% of guys do. Make an effort to stand out.

2.Don't say anything like "You are beautiful." Women hear compliments like that all the time. Girls don't listen to that stuff, so stop saying it.

3.Stop trying to be cool or cocky. Being arrogant is a turnoff for women. Use words that make you seem a little vulnerable like "sorry" and "awkward" and "probably." Online dating is dangerous these days for ladies in Nigeria, so don’t make them scared, so being less threatening will increase your chances of making it into a face to face meeting.

4.Tease. Online conversations are perfect for light-hearted teasing. You can really get to know her when you meet her in person.

5.Be outgoing and positive. No one likes someone who's negative all the time. People are attracted to happiness. Don’t say negative things like I hate Buhari, I hate my job etc-nobody wants to hear that shit.

6.Relax if she doesn't respond. It's okay. You're not going to get her to say YES every time you hit the ball. Relax. Don't chase her. There are lots of more women out there.

7.Be enthusiastic about getting to know her. Ask her questions about herself, but leave the heavy getting-to-know-you stuff for in person.

8.Use good grammar. Not all these rubbish childish slangs we use in facebook, blackberry chats etc. The only exceptions are things like "lol" and "hahaha."

9.Talk about her specific interests that you read in her profile, and tell her that you saw it there. Say something like, "You have good taste in music! I love Alicia Keys too." Or you can tease her about her tastes too, like "Alicia Keys, really?"

10.Learn from your mistakes! Notice what works and what doesn't, and who's responding to what you're putting out there and improve on that.

11.Remember that the ultimate goal of this is to meet up with a lady in person. Don't keep the messaging going on for too long before asking for a number or to meet up. That said, don't push for it too soon either. The longer you're messaging each other, the longer you'll be messaging each other. Unless you went online to get a pen pal, that can get old really fast. Be bold! Ask to see her in person.

12.Keep it short. Long messages are hard to respond to.

13.Make her feel something! Make her laugh, surprise her, or tease her. An emotional response is a good start to a conversation.

14.Have fun!

Listen to the words of Master Yoda below. Smooth riders are not made in a day, it takes time and lots of rejection before you get perfect.

XhosaNostra:
Not all ladies are socially inept. Perhaps it boils down to their level of interest. No interest. No care how your day went.

gbam!!

efesodje:


Ok bro here it goes:

1.Don't say the first thing that jumps into your head. So . . . forget just saying "hi." This is what 90% of guys do. Make an effort to stand out.

2.Don't say anything like "You are beautiful." Women hear compliments like that all the time. Girls don't listen to that stuff, so stop saying it.

3.Stop trying to be cool or cocky. Being arrogant is a turnoff for women. Use words that make you seem a little vulnerable like "sorry" and "awkward" and "probably." Online dating is dangerous these days for ladies in Nigeria, so don’t make them scared, so being less threatening will increase your chances of making it into a face to face meeting.

4.Tease. Online conversations are perfect for light-hearted teasing. You can really get to know her when you meet her in person.

5.Be outgoing and positive. No one likes someone who's negative all the time. People are attracted to happiness. Don’t say negative things like I hate Buhari, I hate my job etc-nobody wants to hear that shit.

6.Relax if she doesn't respond. It's okay. You're not going to get her to say YES every time you hit the ball. Relax. Don't chase her. There are lots of more women out there.

7.Be enthusiastic about getting to know her. Ask her questions about herself, but leave the heavy getting-to-know-you stuff for in person.

8.Use good grammar. Not all these rubbish childish slangs we use in facebook, blackberry chats etc. The only exceptions are things like "lol" and "hahaha."

9.Talk about her specific interests that you read in her profile, and tell her that you saw it there. Say something like, "You have good taste in music! I love Alicia Keys too." Or you can tease her about her tastes too, like "Alicia Keys, really?"

10.Learn from your mistakes! Notice what works and what doesn't, and who's responding to what you're putting out there and improve on that.

11.Remember that the ultimate goal of this is to meet up with a lady in person. Don't keep the messaging going on for too long before asking for a number or to meet up. That said, don't push for it too soon either. The longer you're messaging each other, the longer you'll be messaging each other. Unless you went online to get a pen pal, that can get old really fast. Be bold! Ask to see her in person.

12.Keep it short. Long messages are hard to respond to.

13.Make her feel something! Make her laugh, surprise her, or tease her. An emotional response is a good start to a conversation.

14.Have fun!

Listen to the words of Master Yoda below. Smooth riders are not made in a day, it takes time and lots of rejection before you get perfect.

on point

I think it's the manner in which some guys chat. It doesn't progress naturally to a back-and-forth cpnvo.

lefulefu:
on point

Thanks boss

How does that increase the volume of ur bank alert? Leave the fish brains o jare.

efesodje:


Ok bro here it goes:

1.Don't say the first thing that jumps into your head. So . . . forget just saying "hi." This is what 90% of guys do. Make an effort to stand out.

2.Don't say anything like "You are beautiful." Women hear compliments like that all the time. Girls don't listen to that stuff, so stop saying it.

3.Stop trying to be cool or cocky. Being arrogant is a turnoff for women. Use words that make you seem a little vulnerable like "sorry" and "awkward" and "probably." Online dating is dangerous these days for ladies in Nigeria, so don’t make them scared, so being less threatening will increase your chances of making it into a face to face meeting.

4.Tease. Online conversations are perfect for light-hearted teasing. You can really get to know her when you meet her in person.

5.Be outgoing and positive. No one likes someone who's negative all the time. People are attracted to happiness. Don’t say negative things like I hate Buhari, I hate my job etc-nobody wants to hear that shit.

6.Relax if she doesn't respond. It's okay. You're not going to get her to say YES every time you hit the ball. Relax. Don't chase her. There are lots of more women out there.

7.Be enthusiastic about getting to know her. Ask her questions about herself, but leave the heavy getting-to-know-you stuff for in person.

8.Use good grammar. Not all these rubbish childish slangs we use in facebook, blackberry chats etc. The only exceptions are things like "lol" and "hahaha."

9.Talk about her specific interests that you read in her profile, and tell her that you saw it there. Say something like, "You have good taste in music! I love Alicia Keys too." Or you can tease her about her tastes too, like "Alicia Keys, really?"

10.Learn from your mistakes! Notice what works and what doesn't, and who's responding to what you're putting out there and improve on that.

11.Remember that the ultimate goal of this is to meet up with a lady in person. Don't keep the messaging going on for too long before asking for a number or to meet up. That said, don't push for it too soon either. The longer you're messaging each other, the longer you'll be messaging each other. Unless you went online to get a pen pal, that can get old really fast. Be bold! Ask to see her in person.

12.Keep it short. Long messages are hard to respond to.

13.Make her feel something! Make her laugh, surprise her, or tease her. An emotional response is a good start to a conversation.

14.Have fun!

Listen to the words of Master Yoda below. Smooth riders are not made in a day, it takes time and lots of rejection before you get perfect.

After following the steps and he gets 'kk' as reply, my guy go be like

Darkseid:

After following the steps and he gets 'kk' as reply, my guy go be like

The struggle continues then

XhosaNostra:
Not all ladies are socially inept. Perhaps it boils down to their level of interest. No interest. No care how your day went.

mehn you should be a counsellor

Proffeluczy1:
I want to know the reason why most ladies don't ask a guy to know about him on social media. I have come across hundreds of ladies on different social media but they still act the same way. You can only see the guy asking questions about her but most will not even ask how are you.

Please be mature, no insults or senseless answers.

Maybe you are not handsome plus those you're meeting online don't find you attractive enough.

Mhizausta:
I think it's the manner in which some guys chat. It doesn't progress naturally to a back-and-forth cpnvo.

think so too

bobokeshington:


mehn you should be a counsellor

I missed my calling
I actually want to study psychology.

XhosaNostra:


I missed my calling
I actually want to study psychology.

I knew it... Honestly you'd be awesome at counseling people... But it's never late! you can still achieve it!!

bobokeshington:


I knew it... Honestly you'd be awesome at counseling people... But it's never late! you can still achieve it!!

True that. Thank you. God willing, it'll happen.

XhosaNostra:


I missed my calling
I actually want to study psychology.

I knew it.... Honestly you'd be awesome at counseling.... But it's never late! You could still achieve it!!

efesodje:


Ok bro here it goes:

1.Don't say the first thing that jumps into your head. So . . . forget just saying "hi." This is what 90% of guys do. Make an effort to stand out.

2.Don't say anything like "You are beautiful." Women hear compliments like that all the time. Girls don't listen to that stuff, so stop saying it.

3.Stop trying to be cool or cocky. Being arrogant is a turnoff for women. Use words that make you seem a little vulnerable like "sorry" and "awkward" and "probably." Online dating is dangerous these days for ladies in Nigeria, so don’t make them scared, so being less threatening will increase your chances of making it into a face to face meeting.

4.Tease. Online conversations are perfect for light-hearted teasing. You can really get to know her when you meet her in person.

5.Be outgoing and positive. No one likes someone who's negative all the time. People are attracted to happiness. Don’t say negative things like I hate Buhari, I hate my job etc-nobody wants to hear that shit.

6.Relax if she doesn't respond. It's okay. You're not going to get her to say YES every time you hit the ball. Relax. Don't chase her. There are lots of more women out there.

7.Be enthusiastic about getting to know her. Ask her questions about herself, but leave the heavy getting-to-know-you stuff for in person.

8.Use good grammar. Not all these rubbish childish slangs we use in facebook, blackberry chats etc. The only exceptions are things like "lol" and "hahaha."

9.Talk about her specific interests that you read in her profile, and tell her that you saw it there. Say something like, "You have good taste in music! I love Alicia Keys too." Or you can tease her about her tastes too, like "Alicia Keys, really?"

10.Learn from your mistakes! Notice what works and what doesn't, and who's responding to what you're putting out there and improve on that.

11.Remember that the ultimate goal of this is to meet up with a lady in person. Don't keep the messaging going on for too long before asking for a number or to meet up. That said, don't push for it too soon either. The longer you're messaging each other, the longer you'll be messaging each other. Unless you went online to get a pen pal, that can get old really fast. Be bold! Ask to see her in person.

12.Keep it short. Long messages are hard to respond to.

13.Make her feel something! Make her laugh, surprise her, or tease her. An emotional response is a good start to a conversation.

14.Have fun!

Listen to the words of Master Yoda below. Smooth riders are not made in a day, it takes time and lots of rejection before you get perfect.

nice one sir. Thank you very much.