NoToPile:
So sorry OP

So she gets around 30k as pocket money every month, and you pay all the bills buy everything needed and pay fees and school stuffs.That should be okay for her manage for personal effects I think, people earn 30k as salary nau.

That aside I see a lot of"I" "I" "I" in your statements its not all about you bro, You also mentioned the primary duties which you say is baby sitting, cooking your dinner during the week and both dinner and lunch during weekends, its quite a lot of work not as easy as it looks.

Not giving her her pocket money as a form of punishment translates to you not taking up your responsibility as a husband , you are meant to provide for her and take care of her and that should not change because of a misunderstanding especially since she has no source of income yet, where do u expect her to get money from if you seize her allawee.

Its better you communicate (not confront) to her let her know you were not happy with the extra she added on it, ask if she needed some extra stuffs at that time, ask why she did it was the 30k not enough for her that month?
Its not easy being in a position of being totally drpendednt and not having any money of your own, you need to see from her own view point too. She may have had extra need (you didn't mention she has inflated stuffs for you before ) and didn't want ti tell you about it since you already think she's not satisfied with the 17.2%





I don't know if its just me but I found the repetition of 17.2% in your narration quite amusing. OP no vex oo lool. How did you come to the conclusion that its 17.2% she's entitled too loool.

skypeme:


My marriage will not crash IJN, I repeat that you bro

Atk1nson:

Not yet, why?

Cutehector:
It will correct her senses! Pls go ahead..u have my support!

Cutehector:
It will correct her senses! Pls go ahead..u have my support!

Billyonaire:


It is a wake up call. If I pity him and castigate his wife, he will be empowered to be comfortable in his capacity, What I did with that message is to wake him up. Private jet was manufactured for human being. Unfortunately for himself, he is a human being. People on this forum should dream big, am not interested in those who wait for sky daddy to give them daily chin chin, sorry bread. There is no sky daddy.

Dyt:


Madam good wife
You don't have to be mad over my matter
Stop taking it personal ehn
The owner never complained
Wetin come be your stress

kaima1984:
Am not mad over ur crazy matter n will never be,taking ur matter personal makes me a mad woman n guess wat sweet,it doesn't worth it,learn t be truthful dats all

Dyt:


I had to go back to read what warranted a reply from you

So you dey mad on top another person wahala?
Na your type dey blame your crashed marriage on people

Go and tend to your husband
And content to be the good wife that you are

Trust me
If you come with another handle of your marital woes
I would know it you

Have a nice afternoon

Dyt:


I had to go back to read what warranted a reply from you

So you dey mad on top another person wahala?
Na your type dey blame your crashed marriage on people

Go and tend to your husband
And content to be the good wife that you are

Trust me
If you come with another handle of your marital woes
I would know it you

Have a nice afternoon

kaima1984:
Am trying so hard t save ur marriage from heating d rock BC of lies,Na ur type dey blame busy witches&wizards in ur villa for a failed marriage,have urself a fabulous day too,in Jennifer's voice byeeeee

Dyt:


How many times has he maltreated you this year ?

kaima1984:
Nil dear,am his diamond

Dyt:


Awwwww
Sweet

But I wouldn't expect to read otherwise
Tonto did better than you
Muchecheche

Mrs diamond

lartty:
Sorry bro u are @fault. There is no friendship rlshp btw the 2 of u. strictly husband nd wife palava. God knws i dnt pray to ventur into dak kind of rlshp. What is d big deal in inflating d price of d hospital bills or change of mood? U av stricted ur wife frm avin a frndshp rlshp wth u, dats y she's findin it dificlt to ask u fr mny cuz she actualy knw u are tryn since she depends on u. Best way to tackle this is jst for u to joke with it "baby u knw dat i dnt lik d fact dat u inflated d hsptl bills, u knw hw much i trust u. Jst leme knw if u nid anytin.. Thats am ur man, to care fr ur needs nd i dnt really lik u being rude to me.. U knw hw much i respct nd value u..next time u do dat i wil make sure i enter ur nose fr 1 wk, u would av to beg bfr comin out" both of u wil smile at this nd a reasnable wuman wil apologise at this. Kiss her forehead nd make d moment memorable. Case closed... Two wrongs cannot make a right!

lartty:
Sorry bro u are @fault. There is no friendship rlshp btw the 2 of u. strictly husband nd wife palava. God knws i dnt pray to ventur into dak kind of rlshp. What is d big deal in inflating d price of d hospital bills or change of mood? U av stricted ur wife frm avin a frndshp rlshp wth u, dats y she's findin it dificlt to ask u fr mny cuz she actualy knw u are tryn since she depends on u. Best way to tackle this is jst for u to joke with it "baby u knw dat i dnt lik d fact dat u inflated d hsptl bills, u knw hw much i trust u. Jst leme knw if u nid anytin.. Thats am ur man, to care fr ur needs nd i dnt really lik u being rude to me.. U knw hw much i respct nd value u..next time u do dat i wil make sure i enter ur nose fr 1 wk, u would av to beg bfr comin out" both of u wil smile at this nd a reasnable wuman wil apologise at this. Kiss her forehead nd make d moment memorable. Case closed... Two wrongs cannot make a right!

ebonflexy:


What is this one talking?
This is how you know them.

So tell me what the wrong is from the guy who is already financially pressed?

One can actually see the viscous selfishness oozing from this littlr bitch's fingers.

"I want money so I will lie and cheat my husband to get it and I will be right. I don't care if the cheating cats us to be late on the rent. That's his problem"

This is the mentality you are heralding. Listen, fukc you and I pity the maga who marries you unless you change.

mctowel01:

You don't appear intelligent when you type with this kind of crappy shorthand. You loose nothing spelling out clearly

ebonflexy:


What is this one talking?
This is how you know them.

So tell me what the wrong is from the guy who is already financially pressed?

One can actually see the viscous selfishness oozing from this littlr bitch's fingers.

"I want money so I will lie and cheat my husband to get it and I will be right. I don't care if the cheating cats us to be late on the rent. That's his problem"

This is the mentality you are heralding. Listen, fukc you and I pity the maga who marries you unless you change.

skypeme:


She isn't cheating on me and my marriage will not break IJN

purple3091:
whar is the age difference between you too?

lartty:
Sorry bro u are @fault. There is no friendship rlshp btw the 2 of u. strictly husband nd wife palava. God knws i dnt pray to ventur into dak kind of rlshp. What is d big deal in inflating d price of d hospital bills or change of mood? U av stricted ur wife frm avin a frndshp rlshp wth u, dats y she's findin it dificlt[/color][color=#000099] to ask u fr mny cuz she actualy knw u are tryn since she depends on u. Best way to tackle this is jst for u to joke with it "baby u knw dat i dnt lik d fact dat u inflated d hsptl bills, u knw hw much i trust u. Jst leme knw if u nid anytin.. Thats am ur man, to care fr ur needs nd i dnt really lik u being rude to me.. U knw hw much i respct nd value u..next time u do dat i wil make sure i enter ur nose fr 1 wk, u would av to beg bfr comin out" both of u wil smile at this nd a reasnable wuman wil apologise at this. Kiss her forehead nd make d moment memorable. Case closed... Two wrongs cannot make a right!

skypeme:



Thank you , actually posted a nice write up and I am making use of it at the moment, but only that you must have had F9 in English Language due to how you spell and type, pls type well next time, u av got a good sense , butvu lack the sense to write and type well
Thank you