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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by 7footre(m): 5:48pm On Apr 01, 2017

Please who has that God pls take back this idiot meme... now would be a good time to bring it up

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 01, 2017

hmm weh done ma

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 01, 2017

I prefer a gentle man who's soft in words and actions..

What do I need a bully and authoritative man for.?

Hell no!
The op is something else

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:19pm On Apr 01, 2017

Benita27:
I guess you fiancée too like being beaten, while you mete her exact dose to her?.

no she Doesn't like it bt a little smacking during steamy sex is good for anybody

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Mcslize: 6:22pm On Apr 01, 2017

pinkp , I don't think I buy this your idea. While it is obviously ideal for a man to act romantic and sexy, that shouldn't been done through violence.

A typical example is when a man keeps on beating his partner on a daily basis to the extent that the woman couldn't bear the daily basis assaults from the man and have no other choice than to end the relationship. It happens every day. Most marriages are being dissolved due to outright violence from the man towards the woman. Most times, the man will turn the woman to a punching bag and in some cases the woman's eyes would get swollen to the extent of not being able to step out of the house due to ending up feeling embarrassed by neighbours' questionings of how she ended up sustaining such horrible injuries on her face.

I bet not every lady can withstand a heavy blow from a man. In the process of beating you, don't you think you may end up sustaining injuries? What if he ends up using a sharp object on you instead of bare hands ? That you can't tell. That would be extremely terrible, wouldn't it?

My point is, there are other more interesting ways a man could act dominant than you could ever think of but definitely not through beating of one's partner. As a man, I believe I can control a woman with my mere mouth alone without resorting to violence.

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 01, 2017

HandsomeJude:
no she Doesn't like it bt a little smacking during steamy sex is good for anybody

That's not what the op meant. She's talking of a man who beats her black and blue.

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Divay22(f): 6:27pm On Apr 01, 2017

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 6:36pm On Apr 01, 2017

Benita27:
That's not what the op meant. She's talking of a man who beats her black and blue.

oh like aggressive expression of emotions , once in awhile , its usually sweet to do it na

But not with my babe oooo , i go find woman wen like am practice

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by mayorski01(m): 6:56pm On Apr 01, 2017

OP obviously just finished reading 50 shades of grey.
Something tells me you get high on bin physically abused, you know it and you lying to yourself by saying it shows love or affection. I would assume you had some issues growing up which has helped to fill this dark fantasy. The truth tho is no guy who truly loves you would hurt you or stand seeing you hurt, especially not physically.. it goes against everything love stands for.
You are a rational thinking human being why would i wanna hurt you to pass a message. If you lucky enough to find the kind of abusive relationship you want, get out of it as quick as you can.
Pain and rough treatment produce endorphins, and endorphins produce euphoria. These things also
increase the intensity of the overall experience. So just see your preference for machosim as a kinda drug or weed, the pleasure is only temporary, dont go mistaking your dark fanatasies for love. Trust me, i have abit of experience on this.

My 2 cents

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by pinkp: 7:12pm On Apr 01, 2017

Benita27:
That's not what the op meant. She's talking of a man who beats her black and blue.

You misquoted me. I never said black n blue. I mean a loving hit or slap, not black n blue

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 8:13pm On Apr 01, 2017

pinkp:
You misquoted me. I never said black n blue. I mean a loving hit or slap, not black n blue

I don't think I misquote you, I understood your post very well. Just now it seems you're trying to paraphrase it with this "Romantic slap". Just so you know: you're too precious to be treated like a bag of garbage.

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by akoko11: 8:34pm On Apr 01, 2017

fadigalfemi:
Dnt wori dear....ur unresponsible husband is on its way and its obvious you are young with little knowledge of real love

Almost everyone here does not understand Op, but I do. The domestic violence Op is talking about here is not the one that will lead to injury or scald, she is talking of the romantic type. Time will not permit me to explain it here.

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by alexis007(m): 10:08pm On Apr 01, 2017

Women are a complex lot. It takes deep insight to understand them most times. But one thing about about women I've learnt is that they have interesting ways of revealing their fantasies...just pay enough attention to their body language.

Unfortunately, I've had a thing with a girl like the op. Before we started our thing, she used to tell me about her she has been with guys who brutalise her at every slight. I am tame and understanding in nature, so it was easy to spark a relationship that was void of abuse.

Guess what

.....We broke up after a perfect one-and-half year stint over some stupid reasons. I hooked with a better someone else...and she jammed another control freak. This nigga would literarily determine where she should go and what calls she should pick. Her friend once told me that she isn't delighted about this new guy, and that I should have tried to fix things with my ex. Who does that

Sometimes later my ex began to call and text, telling me how I thought I was too perfect that I can't even try to see things her way. Same ex would send me messages telling me that I'm becoming a monster. My brethren, how can someone be perfect and be a monster at the same time?

In summary, I never lifted a hand on this young lady for one day. If anything, it was the usual mock wrestling couples do before they bed each other. But then, you never can tell with women. Still on still, I'd never hit a lady- there are better ways to discipline those folks. But if you as a guy deem physical violence necessary, you can employ it- some ladies are like Ndama cattle that only understand brute force.

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by MENTORCH(m): 10:27pm On Apr 01, 2017

She is still young,bad boy is shacking her.She hasn't dated too many guys and she hasn't received correct beating. When she is 27 she will be back to tell another story.

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by jeyselassie(m): 5:45am On Apr 02, 2017

pinkp:

I don't drink and I Don't smoke. I only site an example of control and correction with kiss Daniel's woju

being in control doesnt mean u have to hit a lady. all the ladies I have dated loved and respected me yet I never hit them.mature guys dont need to hit ladies before they learn besides if you keep hitting a lady where is the progress in the relationship. you should be able to talk one on one with her as friends.

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by pinkp: 4:43pm On Apr 02, 2017

akoko11:

Almost everyone here does not understand Op, but I do. The domestic violence Op is talking about here is not the one that will lead to injury or scald, she is talking of the romantic type. Time will not permit me to explain it here.

Thanks, you're level of understanding is high....Thumbs up

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by akoko11: 4:47pm On Apr 02, 2017

pinkp:

Thanks, you're level of understanding is high....Thumbs up

U are welcome dear

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by adegeye38(m): 6:45pm On Apr 02, 2017

pinkp:
I am a female, 22, Single and these are my opinions on domestic violence:

God created Adam (man) to be the authority and dominant over everything he has created while Eve (Woman) was created to keep him company and also be his friend. So why won't my man control me. For me, If a man can't be in control over me, he is lacking in his manly duties. Sometimes a man can express his love and care through violence or abuse, it's normal and natural. As for the pain, it will pass.

Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her.

I love when my man controls me because he is showing that he is a man. It's manly, sexy and romantic. Also, its shows that he cares for me - it's part of caring when my man tells me that he wants me to do this and not that. Also, it's natural. A woman that can't endure, can't be with a man because these are what we are created for.

I broke up with my ex mainly because he was lacking in his manly duties. The relationship wasn't electrifying and fun-fill. I am now single and I don't mind, my own type of man will find me. Controlling and Correcting is part of showing love and care. Normally, a man usually or often knows better than a woman.

All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot.

Let's take KISS DANIEL's song, "WOJU" for an example. The main reason why girls love the song is mainly because he expressed control in the song. Listen to WOJU well and you'll see how he was in control. Also, he corrected her by telling her to WOJU.
Sexy and Romantic.

Let's take MAYORKUN's "ELEKO" for an example. The main reason why we love the song was because he expressed control and corrected her. Lyrics like - 'won lo gbe na sori , biko put it down' e.t.c Listen to the song well and you'll see what I'm talking about.

In conclusion, I love being controlled and abused as it is sexy, electrifying, hot and romantic.

beingin control is different from being violent, you can be in control without being violent, violence is something else on its own and its something very serious

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by oluwatodimu1(m): 9:35pm On Apr 02, 2017

I can't stop laughing

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Hannysmilez(f): 11:14pm On Apr 02, 2017

Oh Jesus!!! OP im shook AF.!
I Get your point;You want a man in control and kinda aggressive--romance novels and fantasy at work,but girl,trust me,you're gon get tired of taking shit coz most guys take it to the extreme.
It's beautiful when you find a dude who knows how to strike a balance on being a gentleman and a badboy-but sweetie,that's rarer than rare esp in this insane country.(A friend found one but he is an Emirati).
I totally get you,had the same fantasy when I was your age too but chick opened eyes when a Mans asked me to get out of his car on a bridge at night.
Don't let novels fool you. Keep being the romantic gurl,you seem sweet.

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 02, 2017

pinkp:
I am a female, 22, Single and these are my opinions on domestic violence:

God created Adam (man) to be the authority and dominant over everything he has created while Eve (Woman) was created to keep him company and also be his friend. So why won't my man control me. For me, If a man can't be in control over me, he is lacking in his manly duties. Sometimes a man can express his love and care through violence or abuse, it's normal and natural. As for the pain, it will pass.

Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her.

I love when my man controls me because he is showing that he is a man. It's manly, sexy and romantic. Also, its shows that he cares for me - it's part of caring when my man tells me that he wants me to do this and not that. Also, it's natural. A woman that can't endure, can't be with a man because these are what we are created for.

I broke up with my ex mainly because he was lacking in his manly duties. The relationship wasn't electrifying and fun-fill. I am now single and I don't mind, my own type of man will find me. Controlling and Correcting is part of showing love and care. Normally, a man usually or often knows better than a woman.

All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot.

Let's take KISS DANIEL's song, "WOJU" for an example. The main reason why girls love the song is mainly because he expressed control in the song. Listen to WOJU well and you'll see how he was in control. Also, he corrected her by telling her to WOJU.
Sexy and Romantic.

Let's take MAYORKUN's "ELEKO" for an example. The main reason why we love the song was because he expressed control and corrected her. Lyrics like - 'won lo gbe na sori , biko put it down' e.t.c Listen to the song well and you'll see what I'm talking about.

In conclusion, I love being controlled and abused as it is sexy, electrifying, hot and romantic.

Am like you I'm addicted to pain too I find myself listening to drake despite hating the guy, the pain I go through mehn cry

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:20am On Apr 03, 2017

pinkp:
I am a female, 22, Single and these are my opinions on domestic violence:

God created Adam (man) to be the authority and dominant over everything he has created while Eve (Woman) was created to keep him company and also be his friend. So why won't my man control me. For me, If a man can't be in control over me, he is lacking in his manly duties. Sometimes a man can express his love and care through violence or abuse, it's normal and natural. As for the pain, it will pass.

There is a huge difference between CONTROL and ABUSE. there is absolutely nothing "normal" about a man showing love/affection through violence or abuse. Such men are sick and need serious help.

Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her.

Any woman who thinks that being abused/violated is "sexy" is as confused as these guys.... I guess that's why you get attracted to one another.

I love when my man controls me because he is showing that he is a man. It's manly, sexy and romantic. Also, its shows that he cares for me - it's part of caring when my man tells me that he wants me to do this and not that. Also, it's natural. A woman that can't endure, can't be with a man because these are what we are created for.

I broke up with my ex mainly because he was lacking in his manly duties. The relationship wasn't electrifying and fun-fill. I am now single and I don't mind, my own type of man will find me. Controlling and Correcting is part of showing love and care. Normally, a man usually or often knows better than a woman.

What you wrote above oozes of inferiority complex....

All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot.

Majority of the time, they only go back to these abusers because of money.

In conclusion, I love being controlled and abused as it is sexy, electrifying, hot and romantic.

As much as you are entitled to enjoy whatever life you desire for yourself, you have to be real and understand that there is nothing sexy nor romantic about being abused by your partner. Yes, many ladies (and men) enjoy being abused and/or humiliated by their partner, but they generally are people who have a emotional complex/disorder.... Aka getting pleasure from pain and humiliation (sadomasochism etc).
To each their own!

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Nobody: 4:28am On Apr 03, 2017

pinkp:
I am a female, 22, Single and these are my opinions on domestic violence:

God created Adam (man) to be the authority and dominant over everything he has created while Eve (Woman) was created to keep him company and also be his friend. So why won't my man control me. For me, If a man can't be in control over me, he is lacking in his manly duties. Sometimes a man can express his love and care through violence or abuse, it's normal and natural. As for the pain, it will pass.

Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her.

I love when my man controls me because he is showing that he is a man. It's manly, sexy and romantic. Also, its shows that he cares for me - it's part of caring when my man tells me that he wants me to do this and not that. Also, it's natural. A woman that can't endure, can't be with a man because these are what we are created for.

I broke up with my ex mainly because he was lacking in his manly duties. The relationship wasn't electrifying and fun-fill. I am now single and I don't mind, my own type of man will find me. Controlling and Correcting is part of showing love and care. Normally, a man usually or often knows better than a woman.

All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot.

Let's take KISS DANIEL's song, "WOJU" for an example. The main reason why girls love the song is mainly because he expressed control in the song. Listen to WOJU well and you'll see how he was in control. Also, he corrected her by telling her to WOJU.
Sexy and Romantic.

Let's take MAYORKUN's "ELEKO" for an example. The main reason why we love the song was because he expressed control and corrected her. Lyrics like - 'won lo gbe na sori , biko put it down' e.t.c Listen to the song well and you'll see what I'm talking about.

In conclusion, I love being controlled and abused as it is sexy, electrifying, hot and romantic.

Davidgrey!

I read this and thought of you! cheesy

Come see wife material angry

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by mykel25(m): 7:47am On Apr 03, 2017

Y are u still searching. Just ask one Lagos agbero out. Then u ll have what u so desire

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Davidgrey: 11:08am On Apr 04, 2017

LeView1:

David/grey!

I read this and thought of you!

Come see wife material

I see

Your inference is the summation of what?

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by Tonto007(f): 12:06pm On Apr 04, 2017

if dis evil spirit no leave u...i see ur boyfriend handcuffed on his way to prison after killin u during ur violent sex...go to tb joshua for deliverance sister

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Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by bizzy500: 12:21pm On Apr 04, 2017

adorablepepple:
So people are still dumb like this.....

lol

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by nigeriagospel(m): 10:38pm On Apr 06, 2017

pinkp:
I am a female, 22, Single and these are my opinions on domestic violence:

God created Adam (man) to be the authority and dominant over everything he has created while Eve (Woman) was created to keep him company and also be his friend. So why won't my man control me. For me, If a man can't be in control over me, he is lacking in his manly duties. Sometimes a man can express his love and care through violence or abuse, it's normal and natural. As for the pain, it will pass.

Not all guys that abuse their girl do it out of hatred, most of them do it out of love. Sometimes, men express their love through violence which is sexy - I am writing from experience. When a man slaps or hit his girl, it is probably to correct her, and if he doesn't love her, he won't have bothered to correct her.

I love when my man controls me because he is showing that he is a man. It's manly, sexy and romantic. Also, its shows that he cares for me - it's part of caring when my man tells me that he wants me to do this and not that. Also, it's natural. A woman that can't endure, can't be with a man because these are what we are created for.

I broke up with my ex mainly because he was lacking in his manly duties. The relationship wasn't electrifying and fun-fill. I am now single and I don't mind, my own type of man will find me. Controlling and Correcting is part of showing love and care. Normally, a man usually or often knows better than a woman.

All those celebs ranting about domestic violence just want attention. Well, they have it. Most of them still goes back to their violent Hubby while some doesn't even leave their violent hubby. I tell u, a violent man is sexy and hot.

Let's take KISS DANIEL's song, "WOJU" for an example. The main reason why girls love the song is mainly because he expressed control in the song. Listen to WOJU well and you'll see how he was in control. Also, he corrected her by telling her to WOJU.
Sexy and Romantic.

Let's take MAYORKUN's "ELEKO" for an example. The main reason why we love the song was because he expressed control and corrected her. Lyrics like - 'won lo gbe na sori , biko put it down' e.t.c Listen to the song well and you'll see what I'm talking about.

In conclusion, I love being controlled and abused as it is sexy, electrifying, hot and romantic.

many wil get her wrong i undastnd her message,a caring and loving man dat dnt give a shit like papa suwe,a man in control nt jst d one dat wil slap and beat without caring,u see reason why most women stick with abusive men

Re: Instead of giving a Bleep by nigeriagospel(m): 10:41pm On Apr 06, 2017

Mekus68:
This one stroooong.

Since you say you love domestic violence, and that it is sexy and romantic,,, according to you.

If your boo pours you hot water or knocks off your teeth, hope you won't come back here to rant and ask nairalanders for help.

dnt get her wrng she meant a man in control nt a man dat cn be foot matched,no woman love a man they cn control the earlier u knw dis d beta

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