Solobenny:

Read again, she's not the one seeking for a divorce rather the husband.

PaperLace:

This generation of mothers have a lot to do. May my kids not grow to post the kind of comments I read on NL. This is why women shouldn't be scared of being alone, neither should they be overly dependent on their husbands.

If my husband try that flex his muscles on me. Imsef won't, he knows there are people waiting for him to fuckup, make them enter set.

1234onyekwe:
from ur statement u have ended the marriage even before starting it, accept my sympathy if u are still on the verge of finding a life partner.

anochilar:
As a Christian, by Christ teaching, the only allowed reason for divorce is marital infidelity. (even at that, forgiveness by the innocent mate, is also an allowed option, especially for the sake of the kids) but divorce on fornication grounds (infidelity) isn't a sin.
-Matthew 19:9
but separation, from an abusive mate, (includes domestic violence, and threat to life) is very much allowed! -Please read 1corinthians 7:10,11.
(as long as the separated mates does not remarry someone else)
for as long as is necessary, so when the guilty mate has come to his senses, accepts counsel, prays for God's help, apologise, and seeks reunion of his spouse, then they can be reconciled together again, and there children can grow up in a united home.
A separation, does not have a specific duration, it may range from several days, to several years. Of living in Separate residences.
The only situations in which a divorce is valid is, 1. The guilty mate is also a cheat (unfaithful) either during the marriage, or during separation. (note: divorce on fidelity reasons must be made on hard evidence. Example, caught in the act... Not on mere suspicion)
2. During the separation, any of the mates remarry and have sex with the 3rd party spouse, (a fornication has occurred) therefore, whoever of the 2, that didn't remarry first, is now free to remarry, and it would be valid, by Christian doctrine.
-read mark 10:11,12. Malachi 2:16.
Any further questions, requiring solid answers from the bible, i may help you.

PaperLace:

Mechie onu nsi gi dia!!!
Ended wetin? Come end am na. I should tolerate DV to be a good life partner? Shift one side biko. Accept my sympathies too.
I repeat, if my husband flex his muscles on me, I will be long gone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

E dey your body ..

Sleekyshuga:

E dey your body ..

Prettyenit18:
You too make sense. . I love what you wrote. I am tired of those people, can you imagine a lady once told me that if a woman is being maltreated in her husband's house and she decides to leave that she's selfish!

daretodiffer:
Bleh!

Yeah, let's look at all the reasons that could have driven him to batter his wife, he could have a tangible reason, who knows..... Seriously though, you don't have the ability to emphasise or think!


Whatcha gonna do about that

Saintmary:

hmm. My sister, some women baffle me. They will refuse to train their sons, then advise the wives to hang on.

PaperLace:

These boys are refusing to have sense. A male poster will support DV, they won't quote him. Once a lady says she can't tolerate any ill treatment, they will attack. Saying they pity you and threatening you with menopause...what rubbish?!! Are women not allowed to have choices in Nigeria again?

I will start flogging their heads with cane. Anyone that quotes me with rubbish henceforth, should pray I am in the mood to ignore.

My dear, it's as bad as it seems.. The last argument I had at work over DV was so scary.. The 'endurance episode' I got made me regret ever joining the conversation..

About the menopause, I laugh . It has been the sermon of some 'brothers' since February.. I didn't know they were helping me count my age .. All zzzzzz well..

LOL at cane. Belt go better ..

xavier047:

Kid kid kid.... not stopping to let words sink into that head of yours before you exercise your fingers only makes you look like the proverbial youth with all the knowledge in the world and can't learn from anyone..
Continue replying to every statement as you see fit..... Wise Lady

Sleekyshuga:

My dear, it's as bad as it seems.. The last argument I had at work over DV was so scary.. The 'endurance episode' I got made me regret ever joining the conversation..

About the menopause, I laugh . It has been the sermon of some 'brothers' since February.. I didn't know they were helping me count my age .. All zzzzzz well..

LOL at cane. Belt go better ..

bigiyaro:
what kind of safety? do you think anything is safe in this world? someone is trying to help a relative in need n u are talking about safety. Metcheww!

Jacksparr0w127:





May such fate befall you both. Then, people will stay away from your marriage

izospindle:

I might sound insensitive but my sister was in such asituation we all rushed to help I even carried a weapon to hit him........long and short she refused to leave him now we are the enemy.........stay away from married people and their problem and thank me latter

choix007:
A man can't just wake up and start abusing his wife and seeking for divorce. U av successfully called ur cousin a saint and d man(whom we haven't heard his side of d story) a devil but I believe something must have triggered this attitude. She MUST have done something only the two of them know about.

OP abeg talk truth and stop sending the wrong message about marriage to the youth. Marriage is Sweet!

Saintmary:

the same bible said that if the unbeleiving spouse wishes to depart, let him depart, a christian is not under bondage in such cases.