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Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by abbex: 7:03pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
You have to iron out the root of the problem first! 1. Did we start like this, if yes you are the cause of your problem but if no , you still have solution ? Your solution will lead to another questions 2. Is it the same person I know before , if yes you are the cause of your problem ,If no what makes him to change ? A. My character b. friends influence 3. Am I the same person before he married me ? if yes , your problem is minimized but if no, what have I changed ? After all those things have been ironed out , call him in a lovable manner to resolve the matter but if you can do it all alone you can consult the person that you know your husband has utmost respect for. To crown it all , A better marriage is only achieved only when you know how to say sorry . Saying sorry does not mean you are guilty #ablincoln# |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Saintmary(f): 7:04pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Solobenny:christianity says she should let him go if he wants to. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by 1234onyekwe: 7:27pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace:from ur statement u have ended the marriage even before starting it, accept my sympathy if u are still on the verge of finding a life partner. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
1234onyekwe:Mechie onu nsi gi dia!!! Ended wetin? Come end am na. I should tolerate DV to be a good life partner? Shift one side biko. Accept my sympathies too. I repeat, if my husband flex his muscles on me, I will be long gone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Saintmary(f): 7:35pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
anochilar:the same bible said that if the unbeleiving spouse wishes to depart, let him depart, a christian is not under bondage in such cases. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Sleekyshuga(f): 7:44pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace:E dey your body ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 7:50pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Sleekyshuga:These boys are refusing to have sense. A male poster will support DV, they won't quote him. Once a lady says she can't tolerate any ill treatment, they will attack. Saying they pity you and threatening you with menopause...what rubbish?!! Are women not allowed to have choices in Nigeria again? I will start flogging their heads with cane. Anyone that quotes me with rubbish henceforth, should pray I am in the mood to ignore. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Saintmary(f): 7:56pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Prettyenit18:hmm. My sister, some women baffle me. They will refuse to train their sons, then advise the wives to hang on. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by jomoh: 8:22pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
daretodiffer: If you really can think, you won't judge based on what you read but ask questions like I did. If you really can think, you won't judge a drunk man because he was under the influence. If you really can think, you will go back to may comment (the one you quoted without thinking), read it again and ask this question. what could lead to a man battering his wife and yet the woman stays respectful. If you really have the ability to think then you should have thought of what the kalimah can and will do to you rather than what I will do to you. If you really can think and you really believe in the kalimah, then you will know my initial comment was a trap that you foolishly fell into. Because you really can think, I know you will still ask yourself how possible that comment could be a trap? Well I will leave you in your misery and wish you goodluck with you daring games on the kalimah. "Whatcha gonna do about that" LMAO. "know me before you worship me so that you won't offend me" |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Prettyenit18(f): 9:42pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Hmm. My dear, It would now become competition in the society, the girls are trying to keep their virginity because their mother trained them, while most of the boys that were not trained are struggling to take it away, because the society taught them that its Ok to be useless. Saintmary: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:57pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
PaperLace:My dear, it's as bad as it seems.. The last argument I had at work over DV was so scary.. The 'endurance episode' I got made me regret ever joining the conversation.. About the menopause, I laugh ![]() ![]() ![]() LOL at cane. Belt go better ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 06, 2017 |
Elder Elder Elder..Aren't you in a better position to know what it means to mind ones business....Wise else indeed! xavier047: |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by daveP(m): 12:39am On Apr 07, 2017 |
Sleekyshuga:(whistles madonna's frozen) how do i start, il use the cane preferably.. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by izospindle(m): 2:11am On Apr 07, 2017 |
bigiyaro:I might sound insensitive but my sister was in such asituation we all rushed to help I even carried a weapon to hit him........long and short she refused to leave him now we are the enemy.........stay away from married people and their problem and thank me latter |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by izospindle(m): 2:13am On Apr 07, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127: Dude cool down we are on your side.....why dont you read the book first........beside I have been in your position. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by bigiyaro(m): 11:36am On Apr 07, 2017 |
izospindle:that is ur experience, the best approach is to study the situation and choose the best way to intervene, my boss came under all sorts of criticism for forcefully removing his sister from her matrimonial home, however, every one Shut up when the man ended up killing his second wife, he was claiming accident or worefa but, we all know he woman died from domestic violence. my relative refused to leave her husband too, cos she was addicted to sex with him, she left on her own when the husband started having ED problems but the beatings continued. in any case, when violence becomes the order of the day, such relationships needs one form of intervention or another. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by delishpot: 8:43pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
choix007: So, no man is ever bad. It must be the wifes fault ba? |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by anochilar(m): 10:45pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Saintmary:depart, and separate, are synonyms of each other (depending on the bible translation you are reading) but convey the same idea. Unlike divorce, which may not be used fittingly, exactly in all context, of the aforementioned. |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by doyinbaby(f): 12:43am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Let her leave that marriage....life is not safe when domestic violence is involved...the man appears to be recalcitrant and unrepentant...let her believe God will sort her out....she needs to leave that man.. don't waste your prayers on him...let her pray for her own self... |
Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by doyinbaby(f): 12:48am On Dec 18, 2019 |
She should separate from him the man is violent and abusive....last last he will remarry,beat the new wife ...she sef go pack out..by the time he has married three times him brain go reset...or he meet woman wey pass him...him eye go clear last last.... carry your load comot from that man life ... |
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