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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:13am On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:17am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji: Religion is not the basis of marriage. Supremacy of religion above love is a disaster. If you have no love for your husband any longer, then by all means, pack your bag and move out. If Islam permits a man to marry 4 wives, then wives should be permitted to have 4 husbands. Religion should not be an instrument of bias and inequality. Times have changed. Religion shouldnt be an instrument of Masculine control. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by malware: 9:19am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: You speak like someone who doesn't go to school. Exercise some decorum when speaking on religious issues like this. Meanwhile, next time try and show some respect when typing the names Allah and Prophet by capitalizing the initial letters. Thank you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:19am On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:You don forget una use padlock lock the gate? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by uboma(m): 9:22am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Excellent comment 6 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Hihdiheart(f): 9:28am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji:My dear sis,I can feel ur pain but u just v to b prayerful because there is no respect for a woman without husband......May Allah b with u. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:30am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Can you even imagine the nonsense jealousy part? Like men are not jealous beings. Who knew 'jealousy' is gender specific? However, I agree that a woman's consent is not paramount but you can't claim to deeply care about someone and do things that hurt the person. The prophet and other men also did it, is not an excuse. At the end of the day, IT IS STILL A CHOICE. Don't be a hypocrite, please ![]() Also, the verse on polygamy is speaking to men not to women. Basically, I don't think women are under any obligation towards it. It doesn't serve any purpose to some women, why should they be forced to accept it. I still believed that couples should discuss about this before marriage. Polygamy is not a big deal however don't force on others under BS pretext. ![]() sarahade: 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:32am On Apr 14, 2017 |
There is respect for women without husband. Women are people not a thing. Hihdiheart: 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Okeji(m): 9:36am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:Whose opinion is superior n shld b adhere to? That of Allah n His messenger, or ur own? How can u b so blindfolded wif western cultures at d detriment of ur own faith by ignoring d words of Allah n his prophet? U saw d proofs n u r still arguing, common! I even wonder if u r a true believer or just those types of people who call themselves muslims but never practice islam. My sister, pls is high time u repent n submit urslf to Allah's will cos He made u n can decide to do whatever he wants wif u. May Allah guide us all to d right path 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by jomoh: 9:44am On Apr 14, 2017 |
FriendNG: Please on the issue of this Mar, what of the Mar received by the sister is not something tangible. For example she asked him to recite a Surat in the Quran off hand or asked him to memorize the whole Quran. Does it mean she will have to read it back to him or memorize the Quran as well? What if she can't? Will she have to stay in the marriage until she can? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by neocortex: 9:45am On Apr 14, 2017 |
You can take a cue from the daughter of the prophet Fatima, fight and kick strongly against it and if he doesn't yield , dump him. You are a human and you are not to be treated like property. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by danot1030: 9:46am On Apr 14, 2017 |
You can't divorce because our Islamic religion does not respect your right as a woman. In this our religion, it's all about men's world. Please someone should teach me how to close my post with Islamic language. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 9:49am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Rashduct4luv: With all humility, I think she understood the meaning of the fragrance to just "fragrance" or smell, dennotative meaning. May Allah embellish us all with better understanding of His words and forgive us all. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 9:59am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:so if you leave your husband because he decided to marry second wife what happens to you? you become a divorcee, who either remains single or becomes a concubine or 2 or 3 wife( nobody really likes marrying divorcee as first wife) is it then not really better for her to be patient and accept his decision in good faith? 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by tintingz(m): 10:00am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Hihdiheart:What kind of hogwash statement you just mentioned at bolded? "There is no respect for a woman without husband"? Does women life ends with husband or marriage? Women should learn to be themselves and not allow some dominant syndrome imposed by African culture and religion to think they can't be respected without a husband. Women should never look down on themselves and think they are inferior. 9 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:00am On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer: Just because the foundation of a good society has been bastardized, reasons why everyone wants to claim voltron, no issues. What is the foundation of a good society ?- family and what makes a family- marriage, we are not talking about gays or lesbians, we are talking about divine relationships, between a men and women. There isn't respect for both man and woman who are of marriageable ages and means and chose not to for circumstances they caused. It's cultural to say there is no respect for a woman who chose not to marry. WA llahu Alan. 7 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 14, 2017 |
I disagree. Thank you ![]() transient123: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 14, 2017 |
How is it.of your business what happens to her? drmuri: 8 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by abusurv(m): 10:03am On Apr 14, 2017 |
[quote author=sarahade post=55524149]Its only a wicked man that will marry another wife when he knows his wife will never be happy with it and such a man does not deserve you. As a good muslimah i will leave the man so i will not sin against allah by killing both of them. My sister if he wants to marry he is free and you are free to leave his sorry ass. [/quote The one in the house doesn't want another one to join her, the one outside want to come in both of them are Muslims. It makes me to remember a case in dutse where the woman does not want a second wife, she was divorced and latter got married to a man that has 2 wife already what an irony of life ] 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 10:07am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: salam sister, but after leaving your husband because he married another wife what becomes of you? you become a divorcée. 80% of divorcée that I know no fit hold body o. so they usually become concubines to rich men, some end up becoming second or third wife , some unfortunately end of becoming what yorubas term " aja adugbo" public dog who is so loose many strange men have sex with her forbs fee or free. is it therefore not really better for her to be patient and take it in good faith? 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by EmmGee: 10:13am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:See painment. Madam. Keep calm before you kill yourself. Its with Allah's command you want to drag abi. Okay good luck 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:13am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire: Funny some folks will smile and give a million likes for comments like this. No issue, it's a free world brother. However, luckily for us, our religion has no revised version, it's a divine set of constitution where you are duty bound to practice as laid down or chill out if you are not in sync with. As Islam permits men to marry four, women can as well marry 20 as you are trying to suggest, sure they can, just like we are currently seeing, at least through jumping from one man to another in the guise of partners, girl friends and boyfriends, but not under the umbrella of Islam. This is democrazy, just do as you wish, but we are not for that if you must know again. 8 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Usernamesucks: 10:18am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Arguments masked by emotions have created discord among us. Everybody wants to be "right". We don't care even if we hurt others. "And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute (with one another) lest you lose courage and your strength departs," Quran 8:46 Please pass your message nicely with supporting evidence. May Allah grant us understanding. May Allah guide us aright. Ameen 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 10:18am On Apr 14, 2017 |
ednut1:Islam is a practical religion, we face realities on ground. for instance the male female ratio in US in like 48% 52% respectively. if every man in US marriesva single wife, 15 million ladies will not be married. and believe you me, no lady genuinely wants to remain unmarried. what practical solution is there in this instance? Polygamy. has it ever occurred to you that every majority christian nation that forbids polygamy allows prostitution? which is really better for the dignity and emotion of ladies polygamy that Islam institutes or prostitution that non Muslim nations permit? polygamy is not just to satisfy the sexual urge of Muslim men as some erroneously believe but to solve the problem of excess ladies who are prone to being abused or dabased. 6 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:19am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Okeji:Please don't ever quote me in your life. Women take note of the bullying into keeping quite. Only men will attack me fom saying the truth no one can be just. Mtcheeeeew 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:20am On Apr 14, 2017 |
EmmGee:Its Allah's command to be just can you be? Yes i want to drag. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:24am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Zeinymira: That was a weighty statement to make, doesn't really call for a laughter. We should always help ourselves to do good by encouraging and help ourselves by stopping each from aggression. WA llahu Alan. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:26am On Apr 14, 2017 |
transient123: Your words confused you, Yes, I mean no mistake. Your statements confuse you. I am not religious. I am a full human being with knowledge of all the religions in this world. I own the Koran, I own the Bible, I own the Sharia-Ki Sugmad, I own the Gospel of Barnabas and many other books belong to Buddhism, Sikkism, Taosm, Hinduism and I have plenty of Science journals on Quantum Dynamics, Digital Physics, Biogenesis, Astrophysics, Astrology, etc. I had to tell you this, so you can have a brief overview of the Mind that you are interacting with. I am a sane Human Being without the extremism that comes with Masculinity. I am Soul with a body and you are Soul with a body and we are Spirit at our core. The fact that Soul is birthed into Planet Earth to experience Life and return to source, and soul made choice to be female or male does not mean Female are less humans that must be controlled by men using the instrumentation of Religion. What locus standi does a man have, to with the instrumentation of ETs institute a religion to control 4 women and impregnate them and send them out on the streets to suffer with kids begging for alms, while a man glorifies himself with his masculine hormones to have sexual intercourse at will and wish while the female entities remain like slaves. You can choose to hide under the dogma of religion, but as a core Scientist who knows the Origin of Earth and the manipulations of the overlords, I stand against all forms of slavery, including slavery in the name of religions, be it Christianity, Islam, Buddhism etc. I am above all religions, and I am not bound by the lower earth entities because I know what I am, and I know what you are. Do not allow your Ego to make slavery out of women. I am not interested in your preaching about control of promiscuity, because it is hypocritical to marry 4 wives and expect women to manage your dilapidated dicks because you call yourself a Man. It is idiocy and it is why Islam breed terrorism more than every other religion. Do not defend a religion you did not invent, and do not attack me for Allah. Let Allah fight for himself. 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:27am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Aunty can you be calm please. It shouldn't go this far. Never get angry, laa tagdab, don't be angry no matter the circumstance. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:29am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:. Now I understand you sir. There is no need to waste precious time. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by EmmGee: 10:30am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:Okay now i understand you have issues. Carry your wahala and be goinh 2 Likes 1 Share |
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