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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:30am On Apr 14, 2017 |
drmuri:My brother call it whatever you like but we know say woman sabi hold body how do i know this I'm a woman. As for aja adugbo even a married woman can be ajaadugbo(loose) dear. Its not better to be suffering and smiling dear . Why can't men take being with one partner with good faith and be patient with her. Hypocrites!!! Every woman deserve to be happy. 16 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:31am On Apr 14, 2017 |
EmmGee:Na you carry wahala come. 5 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:33am On Apr 14, 2017 |
[quote author=abusurv post=55557644][/quote] Your story is in the quran abi. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 14, 2017 |
transient123: It is not a waste of time for me to educate you on ego construct that has come to define 'masculinity against femininity' with the dogmatic effrontery that Religions portray. Peace unto us. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:38am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Can't help but smile at this comment. But, remember no one drags with his/her Robb. That was least expected no matter the circumstances. I seek refuge in Allah. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 10:38am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Okeji:My brother don't you ever question another faith because they have a different opinion. The prophet never mmade it a command to marry more than one but permissible under a condition be just. But who can be just sir not even with your children so be careful to stop twisting the prophets words. 11 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Fkhalifa(m): 10:42am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Our problems as Muslims today are: We drag,criticize,deny,hate some commandment of Allah We feel wiser than Allah.. We hate the ugly fearful truth and prefer the western packaged falsehood. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 10:45am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Permit me to ask you what you understood by being just by the ayat? The ayat I meant. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Zeinymira(f): 10:47am On Apr 14, 2017 |
transient123: It was funny and I laughed, big deal? Sure, you are right about the last part @sarahade, if you are not married yet then as a Muslim woman you have a right to a marriage contract and you can include it there that you don't want him to marry another wife. It's valid. It's permissible. If he's cool with it then he will sign it. 8 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Danmaiduguri(m): 10:48am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji: I suggest you consult those with knowledge (Sheikhs and ulamas) who follow authentic teaching of prophet Muhammad PBUH rather than posting it nairaland. Allah says "And we did not sent before you any but men to whom we sent revelation, So ask those whom know and follow the Quran if you dont know" Anbiya 21:7 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 10:50am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire: Guy, what you said is just so stupid on all levels, 1st of all islam is guidance from Allah (the creator of everything) the most knowing so it is not up for debate by even the Muslim not to talk of the faithless like you. You may feel intellectual by saying you own a set of books, SO WHAT?? What do you think you know, yoi think the other people here dont understand philosophy or your false claim of adherence to the scientific approach, Islam is above any consideration, so you can take your faithless carcass and join other people that share in your delirium. And for anybody to post on this page they must state that they are muslims, as you said you are "above religion" why are you here 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 14, 2017 |
@Sarahade I used to have a warped notion of Islam before I went for my NYSC. This was not due to the constant violent acts and extremism by most Muslims but because I thought in Islam, women have no opinion in their lives. I have met a hand full of Muslim women, they are either too razz(not a practicing muslim) or too engulfed in their religion that they lack any form of strength to defend themselves even when their lives depend on it. But I met Zainab during my NYSC, a virtuous Muslim woman, strong spirited and outspoken,yet calm and witty. She spoke out against most ill practises against Muslim women under the guise of religion. I saw a new form of hope and self discovery for Muslim women. You sort of remind me of Zainab... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: I am not surprise at your intolerance. Ignorance fertilizes the Ego, and the Ego is the false construct of Self designed by versions of truths. Your version of truths. That is how fragile truth based on the construct of false Ego reacts when faced with convincing truth which fractures the foundation of your relative truth. You have on plural circumstances mentioned Islam in your write up, even though I weighed on all Religions ever invented by the Overlords of Primordial days, because you seek moral support from your congregant who are ruled by emotion. I will not be tempted to descend so low as to criticize Islam myopically because of an ignorant crusader who can not actually make a point without attacking my person instead of my ideology. My point remains and always will remain, that Science and Facts will always defeat relative relative truths built on the false contructs of the ego, which is so fragile to the point that you get emotional on the mention of your religion. Do you know Allah ? Do you know Jehovah ? Do you know Abraham or Abram ? If you know these mentioned names and the personalities behind those names, then you will understand that you are too small for me to insult, because my purpose will be defeated if I attack your person and not the contructs that has made you less than human. Do not insult my person, not today, not tomorrow and not forever. I advise you click on the Username Billyonaire and read my threads and posts before you disgrace yourself before your followers. I will make you look so silly with facts and knowledge of Absolute Truths, Truths that is capable of setting you free from your ignorance of the History of Allah, Jehovah and the other Lords you so worship and kill for. Peace Be Unto You. 4 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by poundlander: 11:03am On Apr 14, 2017 |
@mr abdelkabir, you can always pass your point without preempting anyone sir. also, you can't possibly know how a woman feel about polygamy since you are not a woman. as a man, i will seek d permission and approval of my wife before engaging another woman. a lady sited the case of Fatimah and Ali, but you responded that their case is different, how different is it? isn't Ali, a caliphah aware that the intended woman is/was a khafir, before even having the intention. in conclusion, the sheikh you quoted only said his own position that HE is mot aware of any proof, that doesn't ruleout the possibility of one. ma salam sir 5 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 11:10am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Bismillah, Allah in his infinite wisdom created both men and women, and he legislated marriage 0f a man and up to four women if he can be just amongst them. He knows fully well what each soul(male/female) is inclined to, if the woman is jealous let her be jealous it is not a sin, but for her to try to forbid what Islam has allowed, is very dangerous. In my opinion these arguments are bordering on the feministic point of view and SOME of them are diametrically opposed to Islam and as such it is not for a believer to follow them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 14, 2017 |
poundlander: Oh, I have to do that, and I have my reason which sorta worked even tho not accurately.... Only I(and Allaah) know the benefit that "preempting" has brought.... You guys might not understand tho....it's all psychology.. also, you can't possibly know how a woman feel about polygamy since you are not a woman. Well that's you tho, you can inform the first woman, her approval is not needed according to the shareeah.... a lady sited the case of Fatimah and Ali, but you responded that their case is different, how different is it? isn't Ali, a caliphah aware that the intended woman is/was a khafir. before even having the intention. Sorry, a hadeeth was quoted to support the shaykh.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by xage(m): 11:17am On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:Ranting on issue like this shows insensitivity and lack of good culture. This question was well answered from knowledge base and you are telling people how intolerable and desperate you are...In Islam, it is not what you feel, it is what is acceptable. So pls behave 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Queenakande(f): 11:21am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Alhamdulillah! have been through this before when it happens I felt he betrayed me and the trust I had in him. but later I realize how much I love my husband and kids. I prayed and ask for Allah to make it easy for me and today Alhamdulillah we are all living under the same roof. though there is no how issues won't happen but we settled it without our husband would her off it, we pray together do everything together, some people even think we are sisters, and our kids are growing together Insha Allah. please sister pray for Allah to make it easy. I love and accept what my husband want. its better for him to tell you than for him to hide it please never think of divorce. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Saeed110: 11:22am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Allow ur husband to marrie more wives if only he cancan.... To prevent prostitution.... Illegal children cause more troubles.. Pls 1 Like
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 11:24am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Queenakande: Baarakallaahu feeki sister, I pray Allaah gives your more happiness in your home Ameen.... 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 11:25am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: If I were you, I would have engaged in more rewarding venture. Where do you want to start from now.....lol. Being delusional is not what you correct spot on, it involves many resources and such resources could better be utilized to less delusional goyims. A word is more than enough for the wise brother. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 11:31am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire: You fool! you think you are intellectual cause you make verbose affectations, You lack the intellect to make good on any of your threats. And as regards all your questions, if you must know, i have an understanding of them. As you said about muslims and the "Lords you so worship and kill for" first of all you half-baked fool, There Is only 1 lord in Islam, and if you feel that way about muslims go to your ilk, they will tolerate your balderdash. Again i must reiterate, for one to post on this topic, a prompt will appear asking one to affirm or reject adherence to Islam, i dont know why this heathen is lurking here and he even has the effrontery to discuss and cast aspersions on Islam and promote his idiocy. We muslims are direct descendants of Adam (a.s) as for other people that claim to have been descended from apes and other primordial creatures, you can go to your fellow creatures. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by poundlander: 11:34am On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:i sincerely appreciate your response, looking forward to your future posts if it can be devoid of incitefulness like ds. ma salam |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by maradelkitchen(f): 11:37am On Apr 14, 2017 |
Queenakande:may Allah in his infinite mercy make it easy for you 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Queenakande(f): 11:41am On Apr 14, 2017 |
maradelkitchen:Amen Jazakumullahu khairan |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Queenakande(f): 11:42am On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:Amen thumma Amen |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by FriendNG: 11:47am On Apr 14, 2017 |
jomoh: Of course yes or pay him bride price. Since the recitation is equivalent to her bride price. What if she can't? Will she have to stay in the marriage until she can? The marriage continues if she couldn't recite back or pay with something equivalent. Though I may be wrong. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 11:52am On Apr 14, 2017 |
xage:And you too behave and becareful with your words the answer was biased. And you are showing how intolerable and desperate men are that they will twist anything inorder to be selfish. When a man is being selfish it is tolerable and not desperate but if women dares to be selfish about anything it becomes an abomination. Islam is not what you say it is but what the prophet says it is. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 11:54am On Apr 14, 2017 |
CookieLaVee:Thank you sir. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by xage(m): 12:02pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:So, did the prophet call polygamy''wicked as you did? Did the prophet as women to kill their husband for taking second wife as you vow?... Why not remind us all what the prophet say it is? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 12:03pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Zeinymira:Thank you sister but how many women know this? I'm not against any decision to marry more than 1 wife but they should stop tricking women to stay in the marriage and allow themselves to be emotional abused. If a woman wants to stay in a polygamous relationship she can and if she doesn't want to she can as well leave. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 12:04pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
xage:You can also twist my words to make you feel peace. 1 Like |
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