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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Jarus(m): 12:04pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji: eod. This is the summary. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 12:13pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Zeinymira: Now you have helped in your little way. Alhamdullilah and many thanks. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by carinmom(f): 12:13pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: I had wanted to reply her but I quietly left the thread because I hate unnecessary arguments. May Allah forgive her though. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by xage(m): 12:16pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Y sarahade:Tell me which of those statement I mentioned you haven't said ![]() That's why it is not like the rest of the religion, where books are contextualized to favour wanton desires 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Oches4me(m): 12:17pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:am sure ur madness just started, pls find cure before u enter market. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
ednut1: no Islam does not care about women. I pity Islamic feminist wannabes like Linda saysour and daretodiffer. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 12:22pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
xage:Please stop quoting me if you like twist my words and the quran for as long as you like deep down you know the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I think polygamy is one of the things that should be discussed before marriage. 'Yes', anything can later happen but I for example would never consider marrying someone that is rigid on taking more than a wife. I can't deal. Some people see me as being pessimistic when it comes to marriage. Yes, I am a pessimist when it comes to marriage. What I see around is anything but rosy, many women are just going through emotional abuse, suffering and smiling just to keep being a 'Mrs'. Marriage is mostly endured not enjoyed. You'll be hearing statements like let me keep enduring for the sake of my children. I will try my best to satisfy my husband but if he is insatiable and decides to marry another. That will be the beginning of the end of whatever feelings I had for him. Madam, you are allowed to seek a divorce if you can't cope with it, don't allow anyone guilt trip you into thinking you are bad or selfish for thinking that way. Most of these men wouldn't speak up so much for polygamy if the case were reversed and polyandry is permissible. Think and pray well about it and make your decision. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by tintingz(m): 12:30pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
transient123:Lol, what's divine in relationship? People have been into relationship even before religion came. I will say harmony should be the first before family because without harmony there can't be family in the first place in the society. A family can exist without marriage, marriage was design to make relationship look legal. There isn't respect for both man and woman who are of marriageable ages and means and chose not to for circumstances they caused. It's cultural to say there is no respect for a woman who chose not to marry. WA llahu Alan.That's culture which is irrational, marriage, husband, wife does not make someone respectable, it is just fallacy, Oprah Winfrey is not married, she only has a boyfriend and she's respected round the world. People can be married and not be respected, respect comes from your character not marriage, our lifes does not ends in marriage. African and religious women have been programmed by patriarch dominant men to believe they can't be respected without a husband, it is now a syndrome to many African and religious ladies now, you will see them desperate to marry a man as if their life ends there. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I am so sorry. I don't have time for idio.ts today. Why don't you try again some other time. Thanks for quoting. Bye! ![]() proudafrogal: 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by tintingz(m): 12:37pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:well said. I second it 4 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I do appreciate your pont of view but you do know that this thread was created by a Muslim for Muslims, right? No one cares about other non-muslim views. If you are not a Muslim, your views simply do not matter. On this particular subject, you do not have the knowledge or faith to argue about this. Religion is faith based and muslim women can very well deal with unreasonable muslim men. Billyonaire: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by uboma(m): 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Zeinymira: Wow. this is quite revealing. Some Muslim women are not aware of this. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Did God sit you down and gave you reason for that verse? If you paid attention to the world Itself, you will realise that your statistics is no longer true. At the bolded, why don't you speak for yourself? drmuri: 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Is polygamy mandatory? Okeji: 5 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Don't you think you need to revaluate the type of Muslims you mingle with? Just saying ![]() CookieLaVee: 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
It wouldn't prevent anything. God didn't not tell you it would. Stop assuming on his behalf. Saeed110: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by phemmyflexxy(m): 12:53pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
If you intend to divorce ur husband because he wants to take a second wife, pls kindly answer the following questions: 1. Would u also divorce him for having an extra marital affair? 2. If ur reason for divorce is that u are afraid it will affect ur deen, would u also refuse to perform Salat because u have bad thoughts while praying? 3. Would ur decision remain the same if u are incapacitated (e.g. barenness, paralysis or severe ailment: God forbid)? Personally, I doubt the sincerity of any Muslim or Muslimah who rejects what Allah has made Halal, if truly u have submitted to Allah's Will. U will not divorce ur husband for committing a sin, but u will, if he establish halal/sunnah. May Allah guide our generation. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by jomoh: 12:59pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
FriendNG: Thanks for your time 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
It is not very rare. It is not even rare. I am Muslim women so I would know. You should ![]() CookieLaVee: 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Sissie(f): 1:23pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
poundlander: She was the daughter of Abu jahl but she herself wasn't a kafir. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Sissie(f): 1:31pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: Was she or wasnt she a muslim? the daughter of Abu Jahl? Why wasn't Fatima told to bear the hatred and harm so as to get the reward? And did Ali eventually marry another during her life time? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
1) It hasn't happened yet. Extra marital affairs is not an excuse for polygamy 2) Solat is for God. It is mandatory. It is a not a choice. Polygamy is 3)If we are still talking about accepting faith, why would he marry another woman? Also, they can always adopt, it is not a must to have a child. Stop forcing your thoughts on the poor woman. She never told you that she would not divorce her husband if he committed sin. Also, he can always repent if he sinned (provided he is repentant), it won't be fair to divorce a second wife because he has change of heart. I really doubt your own sincerity to yourself and to God. How can you ridicule someone so much because of nothing. phemmyflexxy: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Sissie: She was a Muslim.. Why wasn't Fatima told to bear the hatred and harm so as to get the reward? And did Ali eventually marry another during her life time? This has already been explained, pls refer back to the hadeeth used by imam An-Nawawi... |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Praktikals(m): 1:56pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:We will not take it. My goons will come for you soon |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Sissie(f): 1:56pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: My point stands. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Sissie: That its better to leave even when one can cope? 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Sissie(f): 2:09pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: A man can be just. He won't be able to love them equally, however, he can be just. Many men are, I do not know about your society. @bolded that's just hilarious and untrue. I do not know your society but there is a problem with the general accession about the mothers hating polygamy, I have met women who like polygamy and prefer it, not everyone wants to play wife every day and others who don't mind it, however, there are those who hate it. the problem isn't with polygamy but the people in it. just the same way we have terrible abusive monogamous homes. You said what did Allah promise them and answered nothing, there is reward in a well-done polygamy you know. Do you think a man who married a divorced woman with kids as a second wife and takes the kids won't be rewarded? or a widow? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 2:45pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Please please, I fail to understand why the kuffar have so much interest in the affairs of the muslims, I dont know whether they think this is a debate or something, please ayyuhal ikhwa let us make it a point to drive them away from muslim affairs. Lakum dinukum wal yadeen. 4 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by phemmyflexxy(m): 2:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
They are yes or no question, no explanation needed.... How would u balance the gender populations for marriage....? Would you prefer your sisters and daughter to be public properties to being 2nd, 3rd or forth wives? "You are not true believers until you want for your fellow brothers what you want for yourself"... You see why I doubt your belief? Don't jealousy blind you my dear sister.... daretodiffer: 1 Like |
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