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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 3:01pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji:Divorce though permitted is not something Allah loves and encourage as the holy book has it. So, I urge you to really think about it before you reach your final resolution. Make sure you are doing this because you have no other choice and do well to consult with people you know are of better experience and sound judgement before you take the step. May Allah guide you. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by maradelkitchen(f): 3:06pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Queenakande:Wa anta fajazakillahu khairan |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
There are not yes or no questions. You hold not right to tell me that no explanation are needed. Intention is everything Better to be jealous blind than stu.pid blind...I am still looking for the jealousy in my reply...God help me Can we stop assuming for God? Can you stop inventing biases to justify a choice? Show me the chat you and God had or stop self serving righteousness. You are not a true believer if you enjoyed being a hypocrite. Can you swear to God you have always kept true to the Hadith? Still you don't have any RIGHT to judge anyone. Until you can prove that it is a sin, you need to stop acting santimonious...I can't deal. If you want to be charitable, there are so many orphanage in need of volunteers, so many children who wish for a stable home, so many fathers who want enough to feed their family....Don't force it man, you don't have any argument. There are many women who do not mind polygamy, there are many who do. It is not a must to force on those who mind. Why don't you be a good Muslim and stop forcing it?-:\ Maybe....just maybe if you paid more attention, you would realise that the gender population argument is nonsense. It doesn't hold true at all. phemmyflexxy: 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
STFU Praktikals: 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 3:09pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer:Lol. Chill. Polygamy will still go on no matter how fiercely you decry it. Pls stop d noise young woman 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Frolic: There is no proof Allaah hates divorce, the hadeeth you relied on is not reliable..so that part I had to cancel out... 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I am not against polygamy....You would know if you opened your eyes widely and read carefully instead of pressing the quote button without a second thought. I hope you are not considering marriage or even polygamy anytime soon. Frolic: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Praktikals(m): 3:17pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer:are u abusing me for supporting the interest of my muslim sisters¿ |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Yes, keep your goons to yourself Praktikals: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 3:44pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Sissie:Please don't quote me. You are entitled to your delusion and lies. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: You are not a Muslim, you are just an Islamist. I love Muslims. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 4:04pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Frolic:It will go on as long as women keep listening to men instead of reading the quran. Atleast we can read the quran ourselves now and we have seen how men have made their words the words of Allah. And she cannot chill until our men start acting like father s. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 4:10pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: hahahahaha u are very funny. but what do you expect uhm? should a woman behave like man? woman's are known for jealousy except those who understand d Deen and fear Allah . but to say d truth is not easy. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 4:13pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
tintingz: However, to pick interest in few of your points that interest me and require clarifications. Depending on your idiosyncrasy, whether from science, humanity or what have you, which to muslims are all subset of religion, because in Islam, religion isn't just about worship, it's an entirety, even minutest things you can think of is not left untaught, talk of healthcare, inventions, science, technology and what have you. The world divine relationship I mentioned doesn't mean religion in totality, it is even more of common sense to an agnostic, unless you are an adherent of "freedom" for males to marry themselves or man and dog can cohabit as husband and wife or maybe you are saying God made an error by creating Adam and Eve as a pair and not Adam and Abraham as we are suppose to believe by "civilization. Well, am African and proud of being one, you can afford to be European even though you might not naturally be one, it's a choice. As for Africans, it's an hallmark of respect whether you accept it or not, to the Europeans being whatever is their issue. Oprah respected round the world, okay, Oprah you are well respected, that I was told. Marriage not being a culture in the west isn't a culture to westerners....whether inferiority or superiority complex, time will tell. Anything, African is cultural while any European hogwash is a norm and globally acceptable standard. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Alennsar: I agree, but the truth should always be said regardless of one's emotions. Pologyamy has its basis in Islam regardless what people feel about it. May Allah make it easy for us to say and accept the truth. Ameen 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I don't think she said anything to warrant this, although I disagree with her tht most men are just.There are good polygamous homes and there are women who don't mind polygamy at all. sarahade: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 4:25pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 4:27pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Alennsar: Men's jealousy is worse. Put men in women's shoes and see how they would react. And understanding the deen and fearing Allah doesn't mean one is above jealousy. I don't think we have any woman nowadays with more understanding of the deen than Aisha and Fatimah and even they were jealous. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Empiree: 4:33pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 4:36pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN: I know but y I mention piety is because it's remind you of your maker and you need to admit dat all Allah's command cant be in our favour but we av to obey. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I don't hate polygamy. I hate it when you make up excuses for it and try all forms of blackmail to make a choice, mandatory. Empiree: |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Empiree: 4:48pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer:I know. But there exist excuses from men side. It is up to woman to accept or reject it |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Zeinymira(f): 4:48pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
uboma: Yea they don't, and there's no one to be blame for that. A Muslim woman has a right to knowledge...... she should make use of it 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Alennsar: Sorry, do you know what command means? Polygamy is not a command of Allah, it is a mere permission with it's associated 'weight', conditions. People are making it sound like it's one of the pillars of Islam. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Zeinymira(f): 4:51pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: Ma'am, we will preach it to our sisters that are not aware. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Edemaya: 4:59pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
poundlander: Yes, u are right, the person that wears the shoe only knows where it pains. @abdelkabir, no one has ever asked the OP how she is fairing in her husband's house to the extent of thinking of getting divorce, all you have to say was " it's better for her to stay", yes, cos the devil u know is better than the angel you have never seen, abi? You say all these because you are a man, I bet you, u will do more than #Sarahade# if u were to be a woman. I'm not sure u are into one or u have experience of living in a polygamous household, its not easy as you think, I'm telling you, some wives are still married 'just' hoping that one day their children will grow up to cater for them, because they are not being catered for. They eat what they see and not what they like. Some of these "u can marry 4 wives" households are low income earners (managing types), how do u think the wife will feel if she is in this category of household? Be happy that she will continue her "let's manage this" with the husband? You all talked about what Allah says about men marrying four wives, good, do they all know what they have to do in justifying their many wives? No one want rivalry, especially when things are little difficult. Wa Salam Aleikum. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by tintingz(m): 5:01pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
transient123:Not everyone believes in Adam and Eve story, relationship is relationship, it has been a practice before religion started. Well, am African and proud of being one, you can afford to be European even though you might not naturally be one, it's a choice. As for Africans, it's an hallmark of respect whether you accept it or not, to the Europeans being whatever is their issue. Oprah respected round the world, okay, Oprah you are well respected, that I was told.Because I'm African doesn't make me to accept every beliefs, culture so also other nation culture, I'm not a sheeple to just follow follow everything we are/were told in our society, many of what we practice as culture are out of ignorance, self interest etc. If Oprah visit Nigeria today, do you think it will be a normal welcome to Nigeria/Nigerians? She will be well welcomed with respect, that's a woman not married o. Marriage not being a culture in the west isn't a culture to westerners....whether inferiority or superiority complex, time will tell. Anything, African is cultural while any European hogwash is a norm and globally acceptable standard.Europeans once had some cultures like Africa but they evolve in reasoning and eradicate some cultures to move forward, that's why they're developed today even china that cherish thier culture are evolving in reasoning but here in Africa I don't know if we're moving backward or forward. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 5:02pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN: is it haram? 1 Like |
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