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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Alennsar:Of course not, still doesn't make it a command. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:09pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:it's permitted by Allah and if one can fulfill the conditions then why are you against it? Remember the word of Allah that says " why are you against what Allah has made permissible for you " 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:10pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:if there were jealous did they intend to divorce their husbands simply because they married another wives? 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Reading from this emotionally immature tadpole makes me feel sad about the characters in that religion. I can bet that this one will also call himself man enough to have 4 wives and breed countless children who will spread into our streets with sticks in their hands begging and smearing dirts on my automobiles. If you want to know who I am then send an application to my e-mail, and I might disable my automated gates and hire you as a gate man. You will be lucky enough to wash expensive cars and your 4 wives can squad in the Security Posts. I have no time to boast about what I am not. I am emotionally stable, well grounded, cerebral and ofcourse, wealthy. I do not have to convince you of the content of my character, read my posts and get educated on the nature of the person behind the Billyonaire monika. You are not a real muslim, you are just one of the nematodes who might end up in Sambisa, and my tax money will help fund the purchase of the AK47s that will help send you to your 72 virgins. Your emotion is laughable. A Very immature thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 5:17pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:19pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
eitsei: Where did I mention being against it? You can think what you want, I have a right to my opinion 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:22pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
eitsei: I replied to a certain context, he mentioned jealousy in relation to piety. They were pious women at the same time jealous. You can say simply. We don't all feel things the same way, if she can't cope with it she has the right to seek divorce. How hard is that to understand? 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Listen, I have to warn you, that you are taking your emotional tantrums to an animalistic level. You can choose to create phony monika to attack my person and expecting that when you get banned you will open more usernames to continue your suicidal religious hegemony. This is Billyonaire, and I know you are not a good Muslim. Good muslims are the likes of my friends, the Dantata, the Sanusis, and the other progressive Muslims that I can call friends. You are a nobody, and ofcourse chatting with Billyonaire gives you pride cos you never expected to chat with someone that does not descend so low to your bestial degree of myopism. I have stated clearly, that you Islamists should stop insulting women, stop marrying 4 women when you can hardly feed yourselves. I do not even think you are qualified to clean the floor I walk on, but you are here masturbating all over the threads because I admonished poor Muslims to stop insulting women and stop marrying 4 wives and breeding kids they can not feed and educate. Look at the Northern Nigeria of today, people like you are the reason terrorism is so rife. And I am asking you nicely to stop reproducing and stop marrying 4 wives and living on streets. It is a wise advise. I love Muslims, but I hate Islamists like you ...who are too emotional when warned to stop breeding like rats. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 5:27pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:I don't know Wat to say to you |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by transient123(m): 5:27pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
To respected brothers and sisters, polygamy should not be a curse to this ummah rather, it should be a blessing in all front. Alas, we have mostly made it to be the reverse because of our ways. Example, a polygamous home. There are no department of life without its challenges, surmounting such challenge should be what we should always aim at bihiznillah. To the abuhs who intend to be polygamous, please ensure you are capable of being polygamous and don't transgress your boundaries, respect your wives the way they should be respected and be gentle towards them. Discern the feminist and their religion of waywardness so that you won't fall into errors. Polygamy isn't a fardh, don't make it one, educate and discuss with your wives if you have to take a new wife, lubricate her ego and make her feel calm. Being fiat is inviting chaos, protect your homes with wisdom, understanding and gentleness but not a dummy like most ladies want. To the ummus, know your rights as enshrined in the Sharia and don't allow yourself to be shortchanged for vain desires, be respectful to your husbands and exercise restrain, so that you can be guided and be righteous before your Lord. Eschew bitterness amongst yourselves and always do to others what you want done to you. Don't make halal what Allah made Haram and vice versa so that we won't all fall into errors and we must all ensure we are always on the path of rectitude in all our affairs. Lastly, Allah says, ﻭَﻣَﺎ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻟِﻤُﺆْﻣِﻦٍ ﻭَﻻَ ﻣُﺆْﻣِﻨَﺔٍ ﺇِﺫَا ﻗَﻀَﻰ ٱﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻭَﺭَﺳُﻮﻟُﻪُۥٓ ﺃَﻣْﺮًا ﺃَﻥ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥَ ﻟَﻬُﻢُ ٱﻟْﺨِﻴَﺮَﺓُ ﻣِﻦْ ﺃَﻣْﺮِﻫِﻢْ ۗ ﻭَﻣَﻦ ﻳَﻌْﺺِ ٱﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻭَﺭَﺳُﻮﻟَﻪُۥ ﻓَﻘَﺪْ ﺿَﻞَّ ﺿَﻠَٰﻼً ﻣُّﺒِﻴﻨً. 36. It is not fitting for a Believer, man or woman, when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger to have any option about their decision: if any one disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong Path. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:29pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:of she has the right to divorce and it's not hard to understand but you don't encourage things like this, in fact Allah's rahmah will not be on anyone who partake in separation of two lovers . Divorce is not a good thing if she thinks she won't be happy seeing her husband with another wife, she divorces him because of that what is then the assurance that she will be happy after the divorce I want you to remember this saying of Allah " there is that one thing that you dislike which is in fact is good for you " |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 5:31pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:31pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:your opinion should not be what will cause a separation between a husband and his wife 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:35pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
eitsei: *rolls eye* It is her decision to make. And she can choose what she feels is best for her. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 5:36pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: please for God sake stop all dis. let's answer the question 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:38pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:you don't encourage divorce unless it's for a good cause which polygamy is not part of if the husband in his utmost capacity is ready to take up the responsibilities of having more than one wife |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:39pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
eitsei: Leave me alone. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: You are making yourself look so terrible and bad. I will NOT insult your Father, because I have no discussion with your father. But I will continue to educate you to learn to manage your emotion. You can not say you are a Muslim YET you abuse the structures of the Koran. I own a Koran and I can say from your statements that you are NOT a Muslim, you are one of those little field marshalls who give Muslims a bad name. I will continue to repeat this. If I find any Muslim insulting any of his 4 wives, not training any of his battalion of children. I will make sure that you are forced to take up your responsibility, You have no right move around like a drunkard and impregnate every 13 years old girl and control them with this crazy emotion. Emotional entities like you hide under the cover of Islam to conduct madness and mayhem. Nigeria today has WASTED billions of dollars to terminate the lives of pricks like you and we are not done yet with people like you. If I was to know you personally, I would have made sure that you are rehabilitated and sent to a good school cos obviously, you are hungry, angry and mentally deranged. I am advising you to stop wasting the lives of women and raising kids into this world. I love muslims, but you are an emotional islamist. Even Mohammed (SAW) will disown you with this attitude. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
^ brother eitsei you better leave her now oo ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:41pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
HaneefahRN: ![]() |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 5:42pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by eitsei(m): 5:43pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:lol |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Praktikals(m): 5:47pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer:Ok, salam. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 5:48pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by slye(m): 5:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Ayadeji: Let me tell you the story of a woman who rebelled against her husband's desire to take another wife, telling her he would rather marry another wife legally than to have a concubine even at this sense-filled reason. she waged war against him. He abandoned his desire and forgot about it. As Allah willed it the man died in a car accident leaving the woman widowed with her children. This woman is still in her prime and after living single for a while she later saw the need to remarry. She wondered who will prefer to marry a widow with children but Allah blessed her with a caring man who already had 2 wives but was willing to take her as a 3rd wife with her children. Are you ready to be a single mother ? You're your husband's first Queen, don't be so careless and destroy things for yourself . please think very well my sister. You don't know what your creator has in stock for you in future. Be wise, love him more, pray for him that Allah makes it easy for him and that Allah blesses you with the right methods to leave in polygamy. Most of the women promised paradise (mothers of the believers) lived in polygamy and were ranked the best of all women on earth. Strive to be amongst them on paradise, the world is ephemeral, the hereafter is long lasting. Look beyond the selfish reasons against polygamy, there are more benefit to it than what is being said by majority. Allah knows best than all beings and He has made it permissible. May Allah guide you and bless you on the right path. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: You MUST stop mentioning Muslims, you are a sick and demented fellow. If you want to satisfy your undying sexual libido, by all means go to local brothels in your State and fucck some HIV infected prostitutes, do not hide under the cover of Islam to abuse our women. Our women should not be allowed to be married to such a crazy fellow like you. I can bet that you joined Islam just to satisfy your sexual libido and also to torment our women. You are a failure, reading your writing shows you are a very sad fellow. Never again mention that you are a Muslim, because I believe every true Muslim on this forum is ashamed of you by now. Sick soul. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Never again will I allow sick Jihadists like you start recruiting terrorists on Nairaland. Islam must tolerate criticism. We must open up that religion and save the world from mentally sick simpletons like you. Muslims MUST stand up and warn potential terrorists like you from turning our nairaland to a recruitment platform. Shame on you, emotional prick. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Is this how u gonna continue? ALLAAH SAYS; Oh ye who have claimed to believe, fear Allaah and say correct/good statements... leave this guy abeg... |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:06pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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