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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:08pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: Assalamu alaikum, Akhi pls read this guys comments you will understand why I am harsh with this aduwul lah. Btw i enjoyed your post about how to treat ahlul bid'ah Jazakallah Khair |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Islam must be opened up for criticism. Muslims must tolerate criticism. Good Muslims MUST step up and save their religion from emotional extremist who use online fora to recruit foot soldiers for terrorists. I am a friend of Muslims who do not insult their wives, who train their children, who weigh their pockets before marrying 4 wives. We must understand that these emotionally unstable extremist breed children they cant train and they end up as terrorists. Good muslims MUST join Sanusi is teaching Muslims tolerance and the need to understand that Boko is Not Haram. As for this emotional tadpole, his place is not in Islam, he is a potential terrorist, a ticking time-bomb that needs to be arrested and rehabilitated. Sick mind. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Ridwan66(m): 6:11pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
As-salaamu aleiki my sister in islam, I see no reason why you should divorce your husband because as a muslim, no one is promised 100% smooth life and this is part of those tests that would come our ways. Remember that getting married to as many as four wives by muslim is his religious obligation or are you trying to say that you can allow your husband to be having extra marital affairs rather than bringing her home provided his pocket supports it. According to an authentic hadith, women are the majority inhabitants of hell fire not for a reason but jealousy like this is one of the many criteria and also remember that the most detested halal in the presence of Allah(swt) is divorce. I hereby employ you to exercise patience because you never can tell what you may encounter in another man's house, probably a matrimonial house. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:12pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Are you tired, Mr. Jihadist ? Muslims need to warn you to stop insulting women. Our women are Nigerians firstly before being Muslims. Any attempt to insult Nigerian women again under the guise of Islam will NOT be tolerated, not by me, not by good muslims and not even by Mohammed (SAW). Peace Be Unto You. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:16pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151:You are truly a jihadists. If you are truly educated, you will know that Nigeria is a secular State as enshrined in the Nigerian constitution. Any attempt to subjugate our women with intention of marrying 4 of them when you can hardly feed, and abuse them due to your emotional instability will meet with the constitutional law. If you are a trainee jihadist, sign out of nairaland. This Nairaland was launched by a non-biased, non-religious gentleman who gives you an avenue to show case your religion to others yet you preach jihad-ism. This MUST end. Today, will determine whether we will all watch you abuse our women, raise kids you cant train and insult others who try to protect our women from unstable minds like you. Stop hiding under cover of Islam. Islam is a religion of Peace. You are in the wrong religion and you must be stopped from ruining Islam. You are not a muslim, you are a terrorist in the making. You MUST stop insulting Muslim women. 2 Likes |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: I actually read it, but as you can see, this "discussion" is not bringing any benefit, rather its dragging to say inappropriate things..... Be calm, calmness does not enter a thing except it rectifies it, the strong one is he who can restrain his anger, these are the teachings of rosoolullaah... Btw i enjoyed your post about how to treat ahlul bid'ah Wa ant fa jazakallaah khayra |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:27pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: Noted akhi, maassalam |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: Baarakallaah feek |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
I must apologize to all good muslims, who understand the need for tolerance. And I want to admonish you Muslim women, to understand that not all men are sane, when they abuse you in the name of Allah, rise up and meet with the local Imam and let these sick minds who call themselves men be warned. If the Imams are biased, you should meet the local police and have these sick minds remanded in Prison. I have wonderful Muslim friends that love and respect their wives. But if a Muslim man insults you in the name of Allah and his Messenger, Prophet Mohammed(SAW), seek counseling and have them reported to the authorities. Send me an email if you are threatened and I will make sure such sick minds go to jail. My email is on the signature. And good Muslims should empower these women who are constantly abused by these sick minds, you good muslims should always admonish your fellow men to be good husbands and fathers. Peace Unto You. I am done here/ Bye for now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Eno38151: By the way "Eno" sounds like an efik name short for "Enobong". Are you efik? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Eno38151: 6:47pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir: Nah just a random online name, انا فلّاته 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 7:16pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
AbdelKabir:Ok, so youre saying Allah loves divorce? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Frolic: What I understood from his statement is that the hadith isn't reliable. Hence, it cannot be used as evidence. I didn't get any more meaning to his statement. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 7:33pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
snapscore:Oh, that one was talking booshit dear. The measures Allah has dictated to be followed in the Holy Qur'an, how stringent and time consuming they are, for someone who can reason implies Allah is not at full par with it. I mean, having to wait for 4 months to cool off or thereabout before divorce, having to appoint an arbitrator, the divorced woman having to go on an interim period etc point to the singular direction Allah doesn't like it if hate is too grand a qualifier. |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 7:44pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
daretodiffer:My big bad for inferring wrongly and you're welcome to call me names and see me as immature for marriage . Thank you and God bless! |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Kay17: 7:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: It's funny that there is a declaration of Islamic fidelity before one can speak. Nonetheless in order to speak it might be necessary to lie to defeat silence. I think you misconstrue the intent of the OP. Islam probably created a voice for a wife within a polygamous union. The authorities, Islamic, contemplate a disagreement of a wife with a polygamous arrangement so one ought to explore the options given to the woman |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 7:52pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:I can't understand a damn thing from this post young lady. Can you pls drink coffee, calm down, then try to come again? 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Kay17: 7:52pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire: What authority defines a good Muslim? |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Kay17:A good muslim is any human that believes in the teachings of Prophet Mohammed but allows his rational mind to evaluate the hostile dogma and ignore such volatility. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 8:49pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 8:51pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Kay17:Please don't quote me |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Frolic: 8:53pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade:I am just getting aware of that. Thank u and God bless |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by sarahade(f): 9:01pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Sissie: What is being just if not to love us equally. And I know that a man that one woman cannot satisfy 100 will never satisfy him they will still have gfs because the problem is not with the woman but the man. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Alennsar(f): 9:12pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
sarahade: don't be judgemental because d number of women is higher Dan dat of a man if every man should marry one wife Wat about d other women's. who is going to marry them? Remember Allah knows what we don't know, he's our creator. 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 9:45pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Billyonaire:if men are allowed to have 4 wives, women should also be allowed to have 4 husband. this dumbo is so stupid I almost cried reading this crap. really who did this to you? women having 4 husband who is the child ascribed to out of the four husbands. Allahul mustaan 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
drmuri: Why would you not cry ? You are too emotional to be called a real man. You want 4 wives when you can not even manage something as simple as emotion. What baffles me is how these emotionally immature entities treat the women they call wives. Forcing them to wear black cloaks around the city like traditional masquerades while they move around with Arabian perfumes that smell deeper than native doctors Alabasta Oils. Islam has so much been bastardized by these ignorant folks. One wonders if these fellows actually attended real Universities instead of sitting on mats with jumper trousers reciting mumbo jumbos and shaking their heads like village He-goats. hhhahahahahahaah 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by tintingz(m): 10:04pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
drmuri:DNA test will be carried out. And beside in polyandry men don't have problem with who owns the child 1 Like |
Re: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
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