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Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by laudate: 12:09am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Don't you see Igbo parents too (especially mothers), telling their children not to marry from other ethnic groups? 10 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:09am On Apr 18, 2017 |
henryhemon:Leave am |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:10am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Ugosample: U ar not!.. i kno u right from time 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:10am On Apr 18, 2017 |
laudate: Hmm dats d dish u served and it was served back to u... so no complain 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Holywizard: 12:11am On Apr 18, 2017 |
I'm an Ibo dating an Ishan, Edo state girl.
De girl dey See Me as a prospective husband. my fear 2 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:11am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by laudate: 12:12am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Who is complaining? All the complaints are coming from your end. Were you not the first person to raise this point? 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by henryhemon(m): 12:13am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: I went to Owerri in January and I lodged in a hotel ...the mpu that goes on in that city .....onu m aga ghi ekwu ya. 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:15am On Apr 18, 2017 |
laudate: I guess u check the person i quoted.. u dnt just jump into comments withoit readin d cause. My initial comments was IM NOT MAREYING OUTSIDE MY TRIBE! . befor some1 quoted me n start complaining . 2 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by afroxyz: 12:15am On Apr 18, 2017 |
While y'all are still brewing in 17th century ideology, I've matched my action with words 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:15am On Apr 18, 2017 |
henryhemon: Liar!! |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by StraightSetter(m): 12:17am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Lol... What's this one saying?! Igbophobia... If you have bad attitude and they've rejected you before. That's on you. Don't blame it on being Igbo or the in-laws being non-igbo. 6 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:17am On Apr 18, 2017 |
afroxyz: Wow congrats dear is that urs? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:17am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by afroxyz: 12:17am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Yep. Live and direct 2 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:18am On Apr 18, 2017 |
afroxyz: Nice |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by laudate: 12:20am On Apr 18, 2017 |
afroxyz: Congratulations! May your marriage be a ticket to paradise. 3 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:21am On Apr 18, 2017 |
StraightSetter: Hahahahah rejected me!.. i dnt evwn give dem attention.. i kno how u guys beg me always. Maybe u missed my strory dat made front page few months ago. With my other monika. how i slapped a yoruba guy for misbehaving after i hav said several NOs. even if im mareying outside my tribe (which will NEVA happen anyways ) IT CAN NEVA BE YORUBA TRIBE! 5 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 12:22am On Apr 18, 2017 |
realnas: Not as married people 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:24am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Ugosample:lol.. ur comments ar funny anyways but get my facts rights..its more rampant in soutwaste i kno wat im.tellin u. Where a pregnant woman will not respect her current situation and still go around bleepin. 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by henryhemon(m): 12:26am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Stop being dramatic! Stop acting childish! Stop belittling yourself! It's unnecessary. You call me liar when you know nothing about me. 8 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:26am On Apr 18, 2017 |
afroxyz: Lol.. in ikeja..i stay in ikeja tho.. but im not currently in lag... st leo is my church too. Anyways dnt foget to bring ur pix here lets celebrate with u..CONGRATS |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by AreaFada2: 12:27am On Apr 18, 2017 |
laudate:I am not babalawo to know. But most of them said they wanted to avoid those things by marrying outside of tribe. But they got even worse marrying outside. But perhaps they turned down guys that might have been better within tribe by deliberately choosing to go outside. At least, the siblings who married within tribe remain married, and from what is known, those ladies appear to have got a better deal. Therefore maybe your question should have been directed at the ladies who were biased against their own tribe. They used the experiences of some relatives from a previous generation to negatively judge their own tribe. Maybe they should have realised that whether within or outside tribe, things can go awry. My unscientific observation is that for those who married around same time within tribe, divorce rate is much lower than those who went outside. Maybe just a coincidence, but it is as it is. Marriage is not that easy. You need every support structure you can get. Friends, family, etc. While love is great, it can be fickle and can also fade. Mills & Boon love exist only in Mills & Boon. Let's not fool ourselves: race, tribe, religion are still very important factors people consider when marrying. I have seen it across many countries. What would be ideal in 21st century and what happens in reality do not always sync. 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:28am On Apr 18, 2017 |
henryhemon: I smell lies dear! |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:28am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Well, I grew up amongst them And I saw this behaviour among some of them .But that does not mean that did that because they were Yoruba. It was done because they made poor choices 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by henryhemon(m): 12:29am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: It's rampant everywhere,I live in Abuja I can confidently tell you 60%of akwuna are My people,go to Lagos, go to ph,go to kano,go to calabar,Uyo,go to maiduguri let me stop here. 3 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by ab11baddo(m): 12:30am On Apr 18, 2017 |
jiinxed:and u are better se?!! |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:31am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Ugosample: Now look at ur lines "some of them" but u said "many" do it in imo.. Now i can see biasness in ur comment. U shot urself in d leg. Now i bliv u are not igbo forget the igbo u speak. Anyone can speak igbo. |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by henryhemon(m): 12:31am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: I'm nwafo but we 're not blinded by sentiments....owerri girls if you marry insist on not living in that city to avoid stories. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by ab11baddo(m): 12:32am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae:alright sister... We av heard u... U dont av to tell us these stories that touch 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:33am On Apr 18, 2017 |
henryhemon: Yep Ur people and not my people 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 12:33am On Apr 18, 2017 |
obikirinoni:Just like that. This is where your power of persuasion should have come into play. |
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