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Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:22pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
I've heard this line several times from guys. "Make more money and the women will be at your beck and call." Or "No money, no love." Or "These girls ain't loyal. Just go and make money and they'll be loyal." I have a problem with this type of thinking. It's only guys who have identity crisis, who have not defined themselves for themselves in this world think that way. Guys with low self esteem, who have suffered rejection over and over again from love that think that way. You shouldn't be thinking that way. I'm desirable, whether I have money or not. There are so many things I bring to the relationship. Trust Faithfulness (No playing of games. One woman is enough) Intelligent ideas Encouragement to her dreams Protection (I mean it in every sense of the word) Intelligent ideas Problem solving capacity Quality time for her Emotional stability to her Companionship and family Connections, etc. Please don't think again that you need to "make it big", in actual terms, make more money so as to find love. That's too low. Your guy, Mentorandfriend. 9 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 5:31pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Yes you do. Money is one of the key things needed to make love/relationship work. No money, No love. Make that cash bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Olalan(m): 5:34pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Ideally that's what it ought to be but unfortunately the average 21st century girl thinks otherwise. Money equates love to majority of them. Though money is needed to show to your partner how much you love them by buying them gifts, taking them on treats and even helping out in times of need it shouldn't be the principal prerequisite to choosing a partner. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by adorablepepple(f): 5:37pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
, guys who have low self esteem use that line all the time.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by kiddoiLL(m): 5:38pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
you dont need money to find love... love finds you in any situation...but my brother thunder will fire you if u dnt make money as a guy... u only need d money to feed d love n water it to grow... no go dey xpect say cuz person love u, u no go spend money. guys ooo!! chase money! chase money!! chase success!! love go find u later 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:39pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: Check your neighborhood. Check your workplace. Check your church. Check your campus. It's not those that throw money around that have the finest, most loyal chicks. Do your findings and come back so we can talk. 9 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:41pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
adorablepepple: I tell you. They think they need money to command her attention and loyalty. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GloriaNinja(f): 5:43pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
NO MONEY, NO LOVE |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:43pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Olalan: Hear, everyone. Kudos bro. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:45pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
GloriaNinja: See this world person. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by firstking01(m): 5:46pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Y'all have heard it from GloriNinja already, so, money over love anyday anytime. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by futurerex: 5:59pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Money Is Not Everything; But Everything Is About Money. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 5:59pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
firstking01: |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by engrMikemd(m): 6:08pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
futurerex:money answers all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by engrMikemd(m): 6:09pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
money moves the earth while faith moves heaven |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by futurerex: 6:11pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
engrMikemd:Gbam... Naaa Bible Talk am oo |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Emmyco2k: 6:24pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:AND I HAVE THE MONEY ,I NEED TO BUY THAT UR BIG PUSSY AND NOT UR LOVE, AGREED |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
It's not about loyalty. Money allows you create wonderful memories together. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by prettyesther20: 6:36pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Make money and watch them golddig you as loyalty |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by LethargiQue: 6:37pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
Money speaks madam.... Money is relevant.. Without money, the women will look at you like a small boy. Money is the beauty of a man.. Ugly, short, fat, pot bellied, doesn't matter when you have money, it all goes away in their eyes.. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by johnson232: 6:38pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
adorablepepple: 2 Likes
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Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:43pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
mentorandfriend:stop supporting your broke mentality. No girl here, or anywhere else in the world, will fall for a broke guy. Its the sad truth....You need none to make love work. Stop deceiving yourself . |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 8:34pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: Did you read the post at all? Look at this one who has refused to learn and be great . You tryna be rich before you go for the girl of your dream? Is your value tied to money? You better learn something different from that ghetto mentality you've grown up with. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:08pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
mentorandfriend: broke ass nigga forming great. Too bad u don't know who xxxteddyxxx is.... bye mumu...Enjoy the low life girls your broke mentality can get u. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GideonOmach(m): 12:51am On Apr 18, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: hahahaha... this brother is not getting it yet. it has not gotten to that yet na, brother. Our challenge here is that we don't understand ourselves or who we are. we don't understand what value or worth means. No one is saying money is bad or not good but we are affirming that money itself feeds upon a platform called Worth(compendium of any individual's value system). What you call money is value – artificial value; An artificial value used to get other artificial values but you see that those values have to depend on the value inside or innate called worth. Human worth is an original value because every other valuables are instrumental and second to it. when you let money give you worth, you become artificial and fake because when money goes, you are gone; it simply means that when money is there you are good, when it is gone you are bad. you become inconsistent and untruthful, undependable but when you have a platform on which money can stay, life will be very beautiful and great. Humans not only have worth or value, they are Values also on a higher level and only in a sense more meticulously because they solve needs and are the worth of their values. if they have no value, they have no worth. if they cannot solve anything or be answer to a need then they are Valueless and thus worthless. it is those values that create and make Life worth living even when there is nothing that is key. Other kinds of values are secondary to the role of this. You don't use artificial values to acquire original values. if you succeed with it I can bet you that all of you are artificial, unreal and you may have problems with sound living and it doesn't last. Now what that brother is talking is from experience. you may want to meet him to tell you where he is coming from. They are not just money's people but people's people. money is good but you need to have a sense of your own. there's no responsible person who doesn't understand that money is not needful in this subject but there's also no responsible person who won't understand what we are saying here both boys and girls. anyone who objects to what we are saying is arrantly irresponsible and if not cured is not going to make anything called home. So, you acquire real values with real and original values. so also you engage with real people who are sound and have large perspectives of Life by Real values. it's inside – what you are built of that influences your disposition towards people and things. Anybody who has such ideology described above is just not ready to settle down yet. he wants to live as life comes. such persons are childish and immature. before you settle down, you must have grown in the head and in the heart and how the head have grown has a long way on inclining the heart. so you are not ready when you have not grown in the head. Do always remember that like in this context will attract like. I have a vision that is alike with this person's, you'll see that we are going to blend and move far and succeed with each other but if we're not alike, we don't have same vision or idea of things, we are most likely not to get along. Here, artificial people are those who will agree more with artificial values giving less consideration to real and original values. Those kind of persons are poor sighted and prone to be caught in a snare of bad and unfulfilled life. A failed Life. likewise the real and original people agree with real values and watch out for them more than they do for artificial ones. Note: it's not like any of them don't look at both of the ends they may get but that they attach more priority and focus on one that may be seen as major than they do the other one. *Material values are artificial*. no one is saying money is not good but if you allow it to replace your originality and personality, brother you are not there yet oo. Good day sir. .. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 7:17am On Apr 18, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: Evidently, this one is a ghetto kid that hasn't had his bath in days. It's difficult to remove dross from his set brain. Who are you niggar? Tell us. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by mentorandfriend(m): 7:21am On Apr 18, 2017 |
GideonOmach: Awesome sir. This comment is a great article on its own about human worth that will fetch readership if you put it on your blog. Do you blog about personal development and leadership? Your comment is quite loaded. I hope we can begin to separate artificial values from original values. Thank you for this. |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by Nobody: 7:38am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Money is not love, so is sex. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GideonOmach(m): 11:40am On Apr 18, 2017 |
mentorandfriend: Thanks Sir. you're welcome. I don't do blogging oo.. smiles). seriously Sir, our obscurity of both artificial and original values are depriving us of much. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do You Really Need To Make More Money In Order To Find Love? by GideonOmach(m): 1:36pm On Apr 18, 2017 |
you are a Great writer too. I have tasted of just a few of your psychical wealth and mental assets Sir,. it's just so out of this world and immersive. any truthful soul cannot but agree. Grace beyond measure Sire. 1 Like |
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