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Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:01pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
pinkiberry: Dear queen,thank you for sharing your story with us. I feel your pain, some ladies get deceived into such messy situation. Am happy that you got out of it when you could. I hope others queens use your strength to escape from their messy situations 1 Like |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Harmonyemerald:Nah! i might have crushed on him. but am kinda reserved and proud. |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:16pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Adaobi12: Are you still crushing on him? |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Harmonyemerald:No. |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 5:35pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Adaobi12: So from him friendzoning you, you. Have friendzoned him too. Okay. Thought you were still crushing on him, that's why I was. Giving you tips on him to get him to step up |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by fragrant(f): 6:09pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
I love dis bt wat do I write. Maybe wit tym. 2 Likes |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Harmonyemerald:There is no pount gushing over a man that don't want you. |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by onoslove(f): 8:36pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Hernyolar:I agree with you on all the above points, but what about if it is the woman that left the marriage. |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
[quote author=onoslove post=45008421]I agree with 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Kimoni: 10:52pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
fromusa: You did nothing wrong by asking him to define his plans for you. If you are in doubt about where a relationship is heading, it's your right to ask and there's nothing offensive about it. However, pls stop calling/texting/begging any man when you have observed he needs space in the relationship, especially when you have done nothing wrong. Your question hit a nerve, and for reasons best known to him, he needs to reconsider if you are the right woman for him or not. That is also his right so pls, let him make that decision without your interference. If he comes back to you in good time and you are both able to agree a way forward; fine! But if not, let him go in peace and move on with your life. 1 Like |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Kimoni: 10:53pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Hernyolar: I see you babes! Well done |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Kimoni:Thanks ma'am |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by cococandy(f): 2:25am On Apr 25, 2016 |
Thank you. See excuse. Innocent indeed. Except the lady didn't know during the period they were dating. Hernyolar: |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by cococandy(f): 2:27am On Apr 25, 2016 |
byvan03:Unusually dim Byvan! |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by cococandy(f): 2:30am On Apr 25, 2016 |
Your case is different pinkiberry: |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by byvan03: 7:31pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Acidosis(m): 7:59pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
Harmonyemerald: all these wahala just to have se.x at the end? It is not worth the stress. 1 Like |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 8:35am On Apr 30, 2016 |
good morning queens. want to thank us all for our wonderful contributions and experiences on being friend-zoned. one thing i know is that i am a go-getter and before a guy can friend-zone me i go flirt with am silly and he will not only see the green light but also the seven colours of the rainbow. girls make we wise up oo, how many Good men are out there that when we see one, we will let him friendzone us, mbanu!!! following the recent drama between african pop star tiwa salvage and teeblizz, i hve decided that today's hot topic should be "abuse in relationships and depression in nigeria" people who has never been abused often wonder why a person in such relationship won't just leave. but research has shown that leaving isn't always as easy as it seems leaving is the most dangerous time for a person of abuse because abuse is all about control and power . whn tht power seem threatened, people go to extra mile to retain it. there are alotof other reasons why people stay in ranging from fear to shame to low self esteem to love, material reasons, religious and cultural reasons, family values and the list goes on and on. one major thing i have noticed is that most abusive people are usually the sweetest people to date espcially at the beginging part of the relationship that when they start messing up, the partner always stays hoping to change him to the person he was when they started dating. a he acts normal and sweet 40percent of the time and for the other 60, he is beast. b he comes bearing gifts to apologise.he tries to buy your forgiveness c he drives away all your friends because they are a bad influence and are not good enough for you. he is the only one that knows the best for you. d he monitors your every move, call logs,chats, what you wear, where you go, how long you stay where you go. what are your experiences and your opinion on this queens? why do women stay in an abusive reltionship. because when kids are raised in such environment, those kids grow up thinking that it is okay to be in one or they grow up thinking its okay to abuse women both emotionally and physically. for the men in the house, why do you let it get to that point where you think the solution is to hit your woman, your God's appointed helpmate |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 2:53pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
Queenss why are we just viewing nd not responding to the topic @ hand 1 Like |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by pinkiberry(m): 3:51pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
Harmonyemerald:I think love is the reason why a woman would stay in an abusive relationship or marriage. Also, the society we find ourselves in frowns at divorce. |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 8:45pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
reading.....learning |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 9:09pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
pinkiberry: Love is not alwys the case, I think fear, shame. Plays more part than love 3 Likes |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
In marriages with children, the women stay because of the kids. in relationships, well maybe because of obsession, material gains etc. but i see no reason why a woman should stay in an abusive marriage or relationship, be it physical, mental or psychological abuse. i learnt not to in a hard way. not a personal experience, but someone dear to me. She suffered psychological and mental abuse from the husband, she was advised to leave the marriage, since she earns more. but she stayed because she doesn't want the kids to grow up in a broken home.Where is she today, 6ft LGA. the kids, now broken.The husband happily married. I know better than to stay in an abusive affair. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by onoslove(f): 12:07am On May 01, 2016 |
Hernyolar:I go with you on this. 1 Like |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 10:05am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Hello ladies, this is long overdue. Anyone is free to carry on the conversation and bring up topics. Today am going to raise a topic based on my friends situation , please know that I have her full permission to do this. Maybe medical experts in the house should also help out. Love is tricky, she always say. She has fallen in love 3 times and 3 times I have had to hold her hand as she cried her eyes out because she had to break out with them because they were both AS genotype. She is currently seeing this guy who happened to be AS again but she has insisted that she will go on with him and do pro natal genotype screening when she takes in and avoid giving birth to a sickler if she has to remove the foetus at a tender age. My question is who has gone through this or going to this. Are there married AS couple who can throw more light. She plans to have just 2 kids |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 12:26pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Comments please |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 12:41pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Funny enough, I had this discussion with my friend last night. My opinion, she should not try getting married to the AS guy coz in the long run she'll blame herself. I mean, it's not worth it at all! My aunt formed deaf ears to my parents and did this same thing, today she's regretting the whole thing. Sometimes I feel like crying when I see her SS kids. What if your friend keeps conceiving SS babies? For how long will she continue to flush them? Till she flushes her womb away? I repeat, she should be patient and pray coz it's not worth the stress in the long run. 2 Likes |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Harmonyemerald(f): 1:55pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
LaDivva: Not so easy to love and lose |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 3:10pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Harmonyemerald: The choice is still hers... |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by Nobody: 5:05pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
She had better leave the guy now...her own man will come... it's not easy coping with a child that has sickle cell anaemia.. why bring a child to the world to go through pains cos of your greed?? what if she does the screening before the baby is born and she is SS, will she continue to abort till she has an AS child.... Marriage requires more than love ooo, you shouldn't see fire and willingly jump into it... 2 Likes |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by MrsMurphy(f): 5:14pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
Re: Hot Topics- Everyday Woman (women Come And Talk About Your Deepest Fears) by nana228(f): 9:06pm On Apr 20, 2017 |
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