toks2008, this one you dey mention us come dey ask how we dey, hope say you wan share rice o

UjSizzle:

Touchy. Nobody's looking to be impressed hun.
Calm down biko

Pls choose your words next time.
I am neither looking for help nor sympathy.
I was only inputting my experience and resort and if that didn't go down well with you, all you needed was turn a blind eye.

2dugged:
toks2008, this one you dey mention us come dey ask how we dey, hope say you wan share rice o

No he wan share us husbands

Elsielex:


No he wan share us husbands

wow! , oya make I order for my own with specs na

snakebeat:

Hmmm... Quite unusual...
I really do not know the reason for d said guy's hostility. But i can boldly tell u with all form of sincerity that most dudes would appreciate any lady that make's the first move. But i think u are getting it all wrong. It is obvious your perception on this issue is formed on the basis of only one guy. U don't establish perception based on a single encounter...Only one guy was uncongenial & hostile to u & u just concluded that is d way all guys will respond to any lady who PM them first? Now u see why guys will always be different from girls. Just the way some girls ignore guys PM, definitely some guys will do likewise to ladies. But d point is, why most ladies see it to be everyday thing from men, considerable number of guys will appreciate any lady bold enough to make d first move. It's a rare one & only brave ladies are capable of such...

You are one of the few who think this way.
The thing is, girls are not wired to handle rejection like guys. You people are used to the snubbing and ish that comes from talking to a lady. A lady musters the courage and faces rejection, it's not easy. I got that attitude from someone I just wanted to be friends with, imagine how killing it must have been.

SPEEDEPITOME:

You are one of the few who think this way.
The thing is, girls are not wired to handle rejection like guys. You people are used to the snubbing and ish that comes from talking to a lady. A lady musters the courage and faces rejection, it's not easy. I got that attitude from someone I just wanted to be friends with, imagine how killing it must have been.

I quite understand d bold & salute your bravery....but try not to let it have influence on your perception....

Elsielex:


And fvcking is supposed to be paramount in life.
Pls buy yourself some brain with the fvcking you've had since you started fvcking.

Guy park well abeg

well I never meant my statement to be condescending..
I'm not implying that your life should focus on sexuality...

my statement was just a friendly reminder, that everyone both male and female are prone to experience sexual urges. and as a balance of interest they should be met at least once in a while...

that said. if you consider your job over everything outlook of life to still be your primal aim of existence. then by all means keep on with it

Alero3Arubi:
We Dey inside singlehood, waiting patiently to be wifed.

Lol

UjSizzle:

Wow. That was harsh. Sorry you had to go through that. Some people are just unnecessarily rude. Hope it doesn't spoil your experience with other sensible fellows

Thanks dear. It did ruin my flow actually but comments on this thread are encouraging, I might get my confidence back.

Hello guys,

So there's an event tomorrow at the national stadium surulere. Why don't we meet there - well I'll be going...

Will be a great way to put a face behind all this chit chat on here.

If you're interested to join me, my number is Ho nie ho tiri, tiri fif ho, wan nie sis ho

It's a food and drinks festival by the way

cuteme88:


For now! Just wanna focus on my career. Till my missing rip find his way to me. i won't border myslf about being single.

See the oldest lie in the book. "I wanna focus on my career". Those other women married and focused on their career, are they different?
Kukuma say you're lacking.

SPEEDEPITOME:

Thanks dear, I followed my brother's advice. When I told him the outcome, he couldn't stop laughing.

SPEEDEPITOME:

Thanks dear. It did ruin my flow actually but comments on this thread are encouraging, I might get my confidence back - not that I really had it before anyway.

Don't let that ruin your confidence. Be glad he showed his self from the get-go. You don't want to waste your time being friends w/ a guy like that anyway, so chin up.

babake79:
Hello guys,

So there's an event tomorrow at the national stadium surulere. Why don't we meet there - well I'll be going...

Will be a great way to put a face behind all this chit chat on here.

If you're interested to join me, my number is Ho nie ho tiri, tiri fif ho, wan nie sis ho

It's a food and drinks festival by the way

Hian, those of us outside Lagos nko? Send us food o.

NotOfThis:



Don't let that ruin your confidence. Be glad he showed his self from the get-go. You don't want to waste your time being friends w/ a guy like that anyway, so chin up.

Thanks ma'am.

Toks2008:


I created this thread primarily out of passion for socializing and of course to encourage nairaland singles interact with each other....but one setback is the timidity of our ladies cos I still wonder why they expect PM bombing from responsible guys.

Many mature ladies are out there very single and even tired of this romance palava but this platform will create an opportunity to make friends but Many naija babes prefer to hide in their boredom.

Taking myself as an example...I'm an introvert to the core...I'm don't club and you won't see me in places that adds no value to my life and worse still I hardly go out as I'm an E-commerce consultant who works from home and the few times I go out for a stroll,I hardly see mature single ladies of like 27years and above since I avoid younger ladies due to obvious reasons.

So to answer your question I will say No PMs yet but I'm not ruling that out if I see a dp that catches my fancy cos I'm very very visual.

when 99.9% of them will not use dia real pixsure ...Ok o I pray eh.

bassette:
when 99.9% of them will not use dia real pixsure ...Ok o I pray eh.

Anyone who uses a fake pics is suffering from low self esteem and such is not worth associating with.

babake79:
Hello guys,

So there's an event tomorrow at the national stadium surulere. Why don't we meet there - well I'll be going...

Will be a great way to put a face behind all this chit chat on here.

If you're interested to join me, my number is Ho nie ho tiri, tiri fif ho, wan nie sis ho

It's a food and drinks festival by the way

What's with all the food and drink festivals these days sef?
Gtb will be having another one on the 31st and 1st

SPEEDEPITOME:

Thanks dear. It did ruin my flow actually but comments on this thread are encouraging, I might get my confidence back - not that I really had it before anyway.

It's a good time as any to build your confidence then

UjSizzle:

What's with all the food and drink festivals these days sef?
Gtb will be having another one on the 31st and 1st

They are trying to get you fat na

Mynd44:

They are trying to get you fat na

As if I'm not fat enough. This people don't want somebody to be great

UjSizzle:

As if I'm not fat enough. This people don't want somebody to be great

You are not jorh

Mynd44:
You are not jorh

Mide bawoni..hope I got that name right..
Where you see rakumi dey feed?
Do have a great weekend.

Toks2008:


Mide bawoni..hope I got that name right..

Where you see rakumi dey feed?

Do have a great weekend.

Zoo

Mynd44:
Zoo

Oh great.

SPEEDEPITOME:

After my terrible experience on here, I'll think twice before making a first move. I got insulted by someone I just wanted to be friends with.

I don't understand u ladies how do u want to be friends with a guy that wants to date & be an intimate relationship with u. (looking for who to Friendzone).

Alero3Arubi:
Abeg my own is that there is a friend who needs a job badly right now.
He is depressed and has lost his fiance because he lost his job.
Please help him get his life back.
Don't let him get discouraged.
Please he is a graduate of Nnamdi Azikwe university Awka and has a B.Sc. in English language and Literature.
Please help him find his feet again.

B.sc English Language and Literature? Is that the degree Unizik gives now in English Language? It used to be B.A..

SPEEDEPITOME:

A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

Do send me a pm

1234onyekwe:
I don't understand u ladies how do u want to be friends with a guy that wants to date & be an intimate relationship with u. (looking for who to Friendzone).

But the guy didn't say he wanted to date her. He said he has no interest in nairaland girls and even insulted her.

1234onyekwe:
I don't understand u ladies how do u want to be friends with a guy that wants to date & be an intimate relationship with u. (looking for who to Friendzone).

Did you read my point at all?

SPEEDEPITOME:

Did you read my point at all?

of course I did.

Toks2008:


Lol! that is a way of saying "make we see your pics small"

Oh. I prefer the anonymity. I did put it up at a point tho

na wa o .. This thread is still on..

Thought everyone would have been hooked up and thread closed by now

SPEEDEPITOME:

A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.

Perhaps you missed the joke in his replies?
The guy must either be one very funny clown or a total nutjob.