Yyeske:
If you say so but never pray to be in such situation, you could have girlfriends as I had all the while then but doing something against your wish isn't the most palatable thing to wish for

Ok u had a girl friend but i dont have one at all.

gbegemaster:
What's wrong with you? You should ask what it means to man up since you also don't understand.

That's a simpleton's phrase.

What does such a foolish term mean?

Boboye4slim:

well I want to be sexually harassed. I'm so sex starved, and I don't know how to approach a lady. I'm miserable!!!

You are not miserable bro. Reject that. But honestly you need Christ Jesus the saviour in your life. Go for Him now

meekhat:
You are not miserable bro. Reject that. But honestly you need Christ Jesus the saviour in your life. Go for Him now

thanks. how do I go about it?. will that also help me get a girl?

mmsen:


That's a simpleton's phrase.

What does such a foolish term mean?

Here let me help you:

Cambridge: used to tell someone that they should deal with something more bravely

Oxford: Be brave or tough enough to deal with an unpleasant situation.

babasolution:


i dnt understand this nairaland guys,they make comments like chicks.they have zero masculinity,what the lady said is right but this guy is now talking nonsense,are these ones reallyl men?? jeez

Another virgin spotted.....Men I'm going to have a field day today.
See person talking about masculinity......even your speech process shows you are a baby
Which real man even uses that word "MASCULINITY"........Lol

gbegemaster:
Here let me help you:

Cambridge: used to tell someone that they should deal with something more bravely

Oxford: Be brave or tough enough to deal with an unpleasant situation.

How does one be 'brave' when someone is abusing their position at work and jeopardizing your livelihood?

How does someone be 'brave' when someone is spreading malicious rumors to undermine your position?

Your call for 'bravery' is a call for injustice and impunity to reign.

Aimosagie:


Lol..because it is absolutely impossible to rape a man except his body truly wants it. He needs to be hard for a woman to even attempt the rape in the first place, and he needs to be sexually turned on by whatever he sees or feel. This isn't the same for the woman and we all know this. So even if there is something like sexually assaulting a man, it's hard to believe a man can be raped if we're honest with ourselves.

I dis-concur. The man's body does not necessarily have to need it. You mean a woman will rape a man because he is hard or what?
A man can get hard at any given moment.
All he needs to activate his missile, is the info that a pot of free vegetable soup is ready to be devoured. and bang, the missile lunches, so both the rapee and the raped gets a nice time. win-win situation most time. looooll!!!!!

Ugosample:


Is this one sensible at all

You cannot understand simple English?

I said indeed, he does not want to be harrassed, and just used that as an example
How can any guy WANT to be sexually harrassed biko?

If you have experienced it, you will not wish that for your enemy

JeffreyJamez:


I knew one olodo will pick on that illustration.

Just see how these girls are shamelessly trying to justify male sexual harrassment....Very disturbing.

You are very very senseless but have no one to tell you.
What is justification about that post?
That illustration is wrong! If you didn't understand my question then ask questions and stop showing your stupidity.

In case you still don't get it, that question is like saying "would you want an ugly fat man to rape you?" Nobody will desire rape, irrespective of the offenders physical look...!
I know you still won't get it, dumb men.

Kai...Abeg let them come and harass me everyday. This will make me to dream sweet dreams..
..

jhudit:



You are very very senseless but have no one to tell you.
What is justification about that post?
That illustration is wrong! If you didn't understand my question then ask questions and stop showing your stupidity.

In case you still don't get it, that question is like saying "would you want an ugly fat man to rape you?" Nobody will desire rape, irrespective of the offenders physical look...!
I know you still won't get it, dumb men.

Oh lawd

Please dash this small girl sense.

Where in that comment did I imply that rape is desirable UNDER any circumstance?
I just used that example to paint a picture in his head, on how undesirable rape is.
Rape is unwanted, hence why I said that the rapist chooses you but you don't choose her.


But your brain power is low, you will not understand the message I was passing to him, to discard that thought of wanting to get raped

Ugosample:


Oh lawd

Please dash this small girl sense.

Where in that comment did I imply that rape is desirable UNDER any circumstance?
I just used that example to paint a picture in his head, on how undesirable rape is.
Rape is unwanted, hence why I said that the rapist chooses you but you don't choose her.


But your brain power is low, you will not understand the message I was passing to him, to discard that thought of wanting to get raped

I didn't read this rubbish...

jhudit:
Oga just shut up and take corrections. I didn't read this rubbish...

This girl has problems
What is there to correct

jhudit:



You are very very senseless but have no one to tell you.
What is justification about that post?
That illustration is wrong! If you didn't understand my question then ask questions and stop showing your stupidity.

In case you still don't get it, that question is like saying "would you want an ugly fat man to rape you?" Nobody will desire rape, irrespective of the offenders physical look...!
I know you still won't get it, dumb men.

If I tell you word now you will run and call mods.

Johnsown1:
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My guy do u know that one mans food is another man's poison.
This things that you are running away from,do u that many guys are dying to have it daily.

That was what Ugo said in 2009 until he got raped by 6 black bra girls and he was ejaculating blood....It sounds sweet but when e happen, nobody go tell you. Continue praying for bad thing.

JeffreyJamez:


That was what Ugo said in 2009 until he got raped by 6 black bra girls and he was ejaculating blood....It sounds sweet but when e happen, nobody go tell you. Continue praying for bad thing.

Which Ugo was that o?

Tell us tori

gbegemaster:
A man complaining of being sexually harassed by a woman, should be apprehended and forced to change his gender.

I keep saying that before you start to understand a woman, she has already analyzed and placed you appropriately. She knows the type of men she can try those type of games with.

The simple solution is to man up.

This comment is the reason male sexual harassment isn't taken seriously.

babasolution:


i dnt understand this nairaland guys,they make comments like chicks.they have zero masculinity,what the lady said is right but this guy is now talking nonsense,are these ones reallyl men?? jeez

When you get gang raped,come back and make this statement.

Ugosample:


Which Ugo was that o?

Tell us tori

Ah your name is even Ugo sef.

Lol Igo was a fresh undergraduate back then in University of Abuja. They told him about a spot where boys don't dare go to once it's 7pm...But as "man" that he is he said he can handle whatever comes.

Long story short, baba went there and was raped till he almost died. He was in the hospital for 3 weeks. Now 6pm no dey meet Ugo for outside lol

nuchinova:

This comment is the reason male sexual harassment isn't taken seriously.

Don't mind them

Aimosagie:


Smh.. let's do a small test to the effect that a man cannot genuinely be raped..you guys are just basking under sexual harassment ish and blaming hormones for responding and entirely enjoying this harassment. Before nko? Is it not hormones that control every human person? So what's your excuse for not being able to keep it in check? Lol
Abeg for all those guys looking to be sexually assaulted, quote this comment and let's hook up.. forget the pretence of your fellow sons of man

am in! sending a PM right now!

JeffreyJamez:


If I tell you word now you will run and call mods.

Lols.

Teel012:
Well, it's all true, I agree, but if there's any woman here willing to sexually harrass me for a job that pays 250k basic per month in Abuja, abeg, Biko, ejoor, I'm available. One man's food is another man's poison.Right now, sexual harrassment is my food. NOTE: If you quote me and say rubbish, d thunder wey go fire u dey gym, so stay outta my biz.

and you know what pains e the most, TOTO DEY FALL FOR THOSE WEY NO KNOW WESTIN DEM GO TAKE AM DO!

jhudit:

Lols.
You have been going around insulting people on this thread without sense and understanding. Abegi!

Get your unfortunate self off my mentions

JeffreyJamez:


That was what Ugo said in 2009 until he got raped by 6 black bra girls and he was ejaculating blood....It sounds sweet but when e happen, nobody go tell you. Continue praying for bad thing.

Lol,no am not praying to be raped by many.just one on one corresponding

The reason most women won't agree that men are harassed sexually is because they want to put all the blame on the male folk.
Men are visually stimulated, but then every man has a different libido and tolerance level. Some men get turned on almost just at the sound of a sonorous feminine voice.
Women are stimulated by the ambience or aura they perceive,hence their ability to seem more coordinated than their male counterparts. The sway of a woman's hips is enough to seduce a man,even the sight of a pink moniker on nairaland can turn a man on,though this is not a universal phenomenon.
Sexual harassment and rape are not similar degrees of defilement, though they are related.
Women are more easily preyed upon, that is obvious, but as far as we are concerned seductive dressing by a woman is the first step towards visually inviting all comers to admire her goods.
Perhaps the actions of male rapists who defile female children can be traced to a high level of their senses being assaulted by various women indecently dressed, which aroused the offender, and in their inability to quench that urge with the vexer in chief, they resorted to molesting unprotected female children.
Harassment for the male begins with subtle references to a man's sexuality,stamina & good looks. Some women often use their feminine virtues to exploit men with intended explicit sexual utterances or taunts to extract favours from the opposite sex without previous amorous relations, it is real and it is harassment.
Any form or attempt to plant hints of sexually related thoughts in the mind of a person not deemed as a spouse, can constitute the initiation of sexual harassment.

Aimosagie:


[s]Lol..because it is absolutely impossible to rape a man except his body truly wants it. He needs to be hard for a woman to even attempt the rape in the first place, and he needs to be sexually turned on by whatever he sees or feel. This isn't the same for the woman and we all know this. So even if there is something like sexually assaulting a man, it's hard to believe a man can be raped if we're honest with ourselves[/s].

rubbish talk

missyadorable:
[s]How can a man be complaining of sexual harrassment?
Men always want sex...Something they chase,spend money on,tell lies to get being offered on a platter of gold irrespective of the person or location is a plus

having sex with his boss/colleague at work is a mega achievement.Something to discuss with the guys at a bar over chilled beer and be applauded and envied by peers.

Unless a child under 18years,there is nothing like male sexual harrassment.
An invitation for sex is every man's dream.[/s]

you sound so st.v.pid

Aimosagie:


Lol..biko before you quote me, at least get your facts right. Correction, a woman needs not be wet before forceful penetration can be accomplished because that's exactly what it is "forceful penetration" of somebody's hole. A man on the other hand needs his manhood to be a stick before he can cry rape. How tf did he become a stick if he wasn't aroused and actually enjoying this arousal? Except the man is below 18 by law , the law doesn't recognise man rape in Nigeria for good cause.

I know you rape toddlers and teens, that's why you're busy defending your actions up and down

Am once a victim but please don't tell mama.

gbegemaster:
A man complaining of being sexually harassed by a woman, should be apprehended and forced to change his gender.

I keep saying that before you start to understand a woman, she has already analyzed and placed you appropriately. She knows the type of men she can try those type of games with.

The simple solution is to man up.

This post reeks of ignorance. Don't you know that TRYING to seduce a man is sexual harassment?

champagnepapi01:



My Brother. If you try bleep an "un-wet" girl, then you'll understand why they use the word 'forceful' in the definition.

And if you've never had appetite for it before, then you'll not understand why I stand with "men can't be raped!"

If I'm with a wrong opposite sex, there's nothing that'll make me hard, even if she use her mouth like whistle blower, I won't! Unless I have the appetite. It's just like me being with a fellow guy, I can't get aroused!

But for ladies, it's either you use force, Or you lubricate, and in the process she "MAY" start enjoying it, but it's still "rape" because initially she didn't consent to it.

Did I make sense

you didn't make any sense at all