lofty900:
not yet. I don't want to offend her. What's the proper way to tell her without causing wahala

dipsondu:

Why do you think so?

TheLordIsGr8:


plan with your mom, then, take her there and let her learn from her

lofty900:
my mom's late

TheLordIsGr8:


Sorry to hear that.

But bros if its only the food that is the problem, then you have to seriously find a way to fix that. I assume she is the kind of person that will listen to you when you talk. So my advice is this, sit her down and talk to her.

If you know how to cook (like me , let me gloat a little ) then, show her how you do it. Please, if you really love every other aspect and food is the only issue, it would be very unjust of you to leave her without even making any attempt to fix that issue. You guys should be open to discuss anything. Perhaps that's how she learnt; everyone has faults and if you guys can't talk about each other's failings, then food is not the only issue.

Tajbol4splend:


Because it is not easy unless one is an animal, telling someone you want to break up with them is not really a mature idea, it is better to do it gradually by stop doing things you used to do, through body language, through this, the person will get used to it, it does not mean it will not hurt them but it will not be unbearable

IamaNigerianGuy:
No.

She can't cook well and I'm a die-hard foodie. (I'm talking Jamie Oliver, Gordon Ramsay, Ming Tai, Rachael Ray level foodie). She doesn't have to cook to that level but she could do a lot better.
She's stubborn and wont take correction in little things
She sees marriage as the be-all and end-all
She's not intellectual - doesn't like books and abstract discussions. I live in my mind and will bond with you if you have something exciting to say.
We have different taste in movies - she prefers telemundo and nigerian 'igwe' movies - its not bad but I don't watch that stuff. I like foreign thrillers, action, serialized movies .

Its sad really because she is family oriented, beautiful, christian and great in the sac.

But marriage is a contract and you gotta read the fine print. Meantime I'm still single

dipsondu:

Single? So who's the she??

lol.

Touche!

We're now friends with occasional benefits but she wants to continue till marriage

Someone told me that given all my conditions, I won't easily find a girl to marry in Nigeria. I tend to agree with him

Aderola15:


You wee marry her ijn... Amen

Aderola15:

kuchikau1:
,..Gals wey blood dey comot frm their stinking, smelling and rotten TOTO evry 28 days. Metchewwwwww.

IamaNigerianGuy:


Na for there dem still chuk hand for your head pull you comot when dem dey born you.

So, last last, what's your point?

generalbush:

I love my girlfriend so much

lofty900:
my dear I can't help her improve on her cooking because I'm not so good myself, but I've eaten meals outside and I know a good cook when I see one, she's just average

Stanleysteno:
Op abeg find one babe for me, i no get babe, i dey on my knees dey beg

kuchikau1:
sex is womens greatest weapon against men. Do u no dat if a gal decide to kill a man, it already done. My brother, every i see guy doing all sort of tin just to gain a gals love, they follow tis gals like sheep witout a shephered, making dis gals feel like queen elizabeth. See hw undaage gals no longer have respect for adults,simply because dey are ben beged and chase by idiot who call demselves guys/men. I came to hate gals wen i knew about d chemistry of their menstral process and hw dey have enslaved men. Imagine a guy tinks hw to bed a gal just merely looking at her and these gals has taking adventage of this to manupulate men, kill great men, destroy d future of young guys.

midehi2:
what is he saying

Tajbol4splend:


Because it is not easy unless one is an animal, telling someone you want to break up with them is not really a mature idea, it is better to do it gradually by stop doing things you used to do, through body language, through this, the person will get used to it, it does not mean it will not hurt them but it will not be unbearable

midehi2:
what is he saying

queenbetsy:
some people are like... "yes, I will" meanwhile, they have no one they are dating.... smh

midehi2:

what is he saying