kimbra:
I'm serious. There was a particular girl we use to have as at last year in my hood. For me I really don't know how to make friends but some reasons she was coming around me, and that period my elder brother was in Nigeria for a 3months internship. From hi!, hi!!, she began entering our house and within that period I changed resident just for me to hear that she was once in my family house and refused to go back to her place. Ok, that night she slept alone with 3 of my brothers in the house. The one that came for internship was like, that girl is very cheap and when I asked him why he would laugh and say he knows she's cheap and she was lucky he isn't here for Nigerian girls. I was even pissed she slept at our house and later virtually all the guys in the hood started complaining she sleep around. That one no be cheap girl?.

Na cheap girl o hmmm she has found her second home
Dem plenty seff ..
lol @ your bro man don't like rubbish

Bumbae1:

Pin still dey der .. marin u no well o na my nose ring u call pin ( white gold )

nor vex e,I nor quick remember the word to use!!! Eh eh,how ur love na!coz I know say person don dey wey u dey trip for!!!y u do shanges for ur hair,see that ur hair I too go like am oo,if I get babe eh,honestly if she go like that blond hair,aaaa na marriage straight,,,

Martin124:
nor vex e,I nor quick remember the word to use!!! Eh eh,how ur love na!coz I know say person don dey wey u dey trip for!!!y u do shanges for ur hair,see that ur hair I too go like am oo,if I get babe eh,honestly if she go like that blond hair,aaaa na marriage straight,,,

But i no wan marry
No be by force
Who marriage epp seff

There are some women who are cheap that's their career objectives , some have the uncanny ability of being able to combine being cheap and foolish. There are some men despite the blatantly obvious truth will always act the fool when it comes to women. That said there is significant number of women who will act cheap and foolish if they see a fistful of naira.

Bumbae1:

But i no wan marry
No be by force
Who marriage epp seff

hahahahah Rita dominic gang,,sure say ya brain nor dey pain u,,,hmmm nor go let men wey dey follow me for back hear am oo

Martin124:
hahahahah Rita dominic gang,,sure say ya brain nor dey pain u,,,hmmm nor go let men wey dey follow me for back hear am oo

Wetin dem wan do
No be by force na
Kuku kill me

Bumbae1:

Wetin dem wan do
No be by force na
Kuku kill me

hahahahah bumbae,honestly I like u nor be mouth,but only u dey chance me coze say I never chop weitin big bros dey chop na?to be a teacher nor bad oo...
Abeg nor dey talk that kin matter again oo,so if na me wan buy u now,na so u go just take say u nor dey sell eh?

professorfal:


i thought the concept of 'cheap' here is how hard a guy would have to work to get the girl.

Not what material or cash he gets to spend to get her, in your words "sleep with them/her".

We can look at it from different angles.

1. A girl is walking on the road then gets to a point where series of guys are either seated or standing for whatever reason. One among the guys screams "Hello!", then she turns and walks straight to the guy, contacts are exchanged and she goes her way hoping for a call later. Such a girl is cheap. She has no self-worth and barely knows such a guy won't have regard for her.

2. He approached her, contacts are exchanged and in the course of their conversation he invites her over the next day for a date or whatever, then suddenly she opens her legs. She's cheap. I believe this is why you mentioned me. There are girls that all a guy would need to sleep with is just to buy them a plate of dinner.

Bumbae1:

Na cheap girl o hmmm she has found her second home
Dem plenty seff ..
lol @ your bro man don't like rubbish

I tire oh, she just wasn't his type.

HRHQueenPhil:
u are not a fool for shutting down d fast food, GOD so love d world he gave his only be go often Son.
my oga showed me love by buying banana and bottled gnuts for me to my office,taking me home once he is in town,calling me almost 7 times in a day,if I cough he will run and buy syrup,cardigan and fruit. I fellinlove hard and fast for him. he has never spent 10,000 to buy one thing but all d things he has Eva gotten me were things I rili needed. #YouAreNotAFool

u must be pretty and ya oga wantu chop meat...

professorfal:


i thought the concept of 'cheap' here is how hard a guy would have to work to get the girl.

Not what material or cash he gets to spend to get her, in your words "sleep with them/her".

Same thing they are cheap all round

kimbra:
We can look at it from different angles.

1. A girl is walking on the road then gets to a point where series of guys are either seated or standing for whatever reason. One among the guys screams "Hello!", then she turns and walks straight to the guy, contacts are exchanged and she goes her way hoping for a call later. Such a girl is cheap. She has no self-worth and barely knows such a guy won't have regard for her.

2. He approached her, contacts are exchanged and in the course of their conversation he invites her over the next day for a date or whatever, then suddenly she opens her legs. She's cheap. I believe this is why you mentioned me. There are girls that all a guy would need to sleep with is just to buy them a plate of dinner.

your number 1 reason is y all this girls dont give phone numbers... u happy now

pocohantas

boiz2men:



your number 1 reason is y all this girls dont give phone numbers... u happy now

pocohantas

Your manner of approach matters for a girl to give you her contact. Some would even seat and whistle at you as if you're a dog and expect you to walk to them.

kimbra:
Your manner of approach matters for a girl to give you her contact. Some would even seat and whistle at you as if you're a dog and expect you to walk to them.

This whole opera about securing a girl's contact is over hyped and guess who's doing the over hyping, you.

What appeals to A may certainly not appeal to B. Stop making it seem all that matters in this planet earth is "a girl contact"


Other things matter

Li2Finger:

This whole opera about securing a girl's contact is over hyped and guess who's doing the over hyping, you.

What appeals to A may certainly not appeal to B. Stop making it seem all that matters in this planet earth is "a girl contact"


Other things matter

If securing a girl's contact doesn't matter then why do you guys ask for it?, I'm hyping anything. Just stating how it should be.

kimbra:
If securing a girl's contact matter then why do you guys ask for it?, I'm hyping anything. Just stating how it should be.

I've been reading your post all along. Believe me, the manner with which you generalize is alarming..

"just starting how it should be"... Lols

Gone are those old good days when men were the one doing the chase. The world has evolved. The growing ratio of female to male has in a way proved that...

Now, with the notion that "boyfriend are all over but husbands aren't", ladies has taken it upon themselves to start the ground running by being the one to initiate a conversation with a guy they admire... Doing so, are you seriously gonna tag those ladies as cheap?

I have seen a decent girl who knows what she wants being the first to collect a guy contact. See, it all about knowing what you want and the manner with which you address that matters alot.

I've been following your post all along.

Between a girl who after stressing a guy for her contact and sleep with him at first date and a girl who out of meekness and knowing what she wants gave her contact to a guy, without sleeping with him..


Which one is cheap

kimbra:
We can look at it from different angles.

1. A girl is walking on the road then gets to a point where series of guys are either seated or standing for whatever reason. One among the guys screams "Hello!", then she turns and walks straight to the guy, contacts are exchanged and she goes her way hoping for a call later. Such a girl is cheap. She has no self-worth and barely knows such a guy won't have regard for her.

2. He approached her, contacts are exchanged and in the course of their conversation he invites her over the next day for a date or whatever, then suddenly she opens her legs. She's cheap. I believe this is why you mentioned me. There are girls that all a guy would need to sleep with is just to buy them a plate of dinner.

about the second illustration, I was made to understand girls gat needs (sexual needs). someone in need wouldn't rationalize about the bargain. if when I approached her she happens to need the coitus_ more than I do would her opening her legs for nothing or for a malt makes her cheap?

the second illustration is a typical example of quid quo pro. trust me when the hormones set in you won't think what the dude is offering for the cookie.

Li2Finger:

I've been reading your post all along. Believe me, the manner with which you generalize is alarming..

"just starting how it should be"... Lols

Gone are those old good days when men were the one doing the chase. The world has evolved. The growing ratio of female to male has in a way proved that...

Now, with the notion that "boyfriend are all over but husbands aren't", ladies has taken it upon themselves to start the ground running by being the one to initiate a conversation with a guy they admire... Doing so, are you seriously gonna tag those ladies as cheap?

I have seen a decent who knows what she wants being the first to collect a guy contact. See, it all about knowing what you want and the manner with which you address that matters alot.

I've been following your post all along.

Between a girl who after stressing a guy for her contact and sleep with him at first date and a girl who out of meekness and knowing what she wants gave her contact to a guy, without sleeping with him..


Which one is cheap

One rule of dating I know is. You don't sleep with a man on a first date. You give it more time to know what he really wants from you. As for your latter question, any girl would give a guy she admires her number. There's a difference between when your crush demands for your contact and when a total stranger you know nothing of does so.

I wasn't generalising, you perceived it to be so and still in this era where the world has evolved. Women are still not expected to approach men. It has disadvantages.

professorfal:


about the second illustration, I was made to understand girls gat needs (sexual needs). someone in need wouldn't rationalize about the bargain. If when I approached her she happens to need the coitus_more than I do would her opening her legs for nothing or for a malt makes her cheap?.

the second illustration is a typical example of quid quo pro. trust me when the hormones set in you won't think what the dude is offering for the cookie.

@ the embolden, there's something called self control. To someone you both have chemistry for each other, you ought to pretend at times that you don't need sex even when you do. So, to answer your question, yes.

kimbra:
One rule of dating I know is. You don't sleep with a man on a first date. You give it more time to know what he really wants from you. As for your latter question, any girl would give a guy she admires her number. There's a difference between when your crush demands for your contact and when a total stranger you know nothing of does so.

I wasn't generalising, you perceived it to be so and still in this era where the world has evolved. Women are still not expected to approach men. It has disadvantages.

I laid emphasis on the first because that's how far an average Nigerian girl can go. When they are open to series of meeting with the guy and with the influence of other things, they tend to bend rules. On no condition whatsoever should a girl sleep with a guy except she is sure they are gonna get married.

Why I cited that instance is... Why do you have to crucify girls who give their contacts out and still find a way to not sleep with their subject.

Girls who look simple on the outside are in fact the most principled and rudimental. You just have to get close to them for you know to know..

My argument is simple. The fact that she exchange contact with you doesn't mean she's gonna sleep with you. Girls that prove hard to get, are always the easiest to get laid. Why? In most cases, they bring ego and self acclaimed self esteem into the scheme of things while they being wooed so as to pass a simple message to their admires and those following the process that they are not cheap. Now, after wooing such girl, ask if she's done sex before and see her reaction...

To the stranger thingy, friendship don't just spring up from sky. Most Nairalanders exchange contacts, so are you seriously gonna say that is a bad idea?

So long as you don't fvck a stranger, making a stranger a friend in a mild way shouldn't be crucified expecially, when a thing or two is attractive about him..

kimbra:
@ the embolden, there's something called self control. To someone you both have chemistry for each other, you ought to pretend at times that you don't need sex even when you do. So, to answer your question, yes.

just because you have the prowess to control yours doesn't mean others who can't are cheap. we have different threshold for our sexuality.

Li2Finger:

I laid emphasis on the first because that's how far an average Nigerian girl can go. When they are open to series of meeting with the guy and with the influence of other things, they tend to bend rules. On no condition whatsoever should a girl sleep with a guy except she is sure they are gonna get married.

Why I cited that instance is... Why do you have to crucify girls who give their contacts out and still find a way to not sleep with their subject.

Girls who look simple on the outside are in fact the most principled and rudimental. You just have to get close to them for you know to know..

My argument is simple. The fact that she exchange contact with you doesn't mean she's gonna sleep with you. Girls that prove hard to get, are always the easiest to get laid. Why? In most cases, they bring ego and self acclaimed self esteem into the scheme of things while they being wooed so as to pass a simple message to their admires and those following the process that they are not cheap. Now, after wooing such girl, ask if she's done sex before and see her reaction...

To the stranger thingy, friendship don't just spring up from sky. Most Nairalanders exchange contacts, so are you seriously gonna say that is a bad idea?

So long as you don't fvck a stranger, making a stranger a friend in a mild way shouldn't be crucified expecially, when a thing or two is attractive about him..

The nairalanders who exchange contact do so either for business purpose or relationship, and it still boils down to manner of approach. I'm not crusifying anyone for exchanging contacts but the conditions surrounding how the contact was asked for is the subject here. You don't disrespect a girl and expect her to give you her contact. And a girl who gives out her contact to a guy who didn't show regard/respect is worthless. You should know that.

professorfal:
i disagree, mrcork is a fool.

MrCork:

fool!!!!!

op Forget,cheap gels dey o :

kimbra:
The nairalanders who exchange contact do so either for business purpose or relationship, and it still boils down to manner of approach. I'm not crusifying anyone for exchanging contacts but the conditions surrounding how the contact was asked for is the subject here. You don't disrespect a girl and expect her to give you her contact. And a girl who gives out her contact to a guy who didn't show regard/respect is worthless. You should know that.

So, people exchange contacts on Nairaland for relationship and business? Can you enter a relationship with someone you don't even know in real life? If your stranger thingy is something to go by, what happens online stays online... So why Give your contact to people you meet online?

I have said this before and I'll reiterate. Stop making it look/sound as if all what men think about is a girl's contact. Believe me, other things matters...

professorfal:
i disagree, mrcork is a fool.

..normally yorr head is not correct. Today..we SALUTE!!

Bumbae1:

Sunday blessing dear

Lol no mind op we waiting gor her
And then to top it up she said guy not to call foolish guys fools ..
need explanation

Pack of indomine ke .. I am weak

Yes o, I thot that was a gaff till one of the serving boys at my fave buka spot along Garki side. The boy just been dey rake say why would he stress over a girl when enuf regular area girls, not ashhys or oloshos o, regular chicks wey fit follow u enta once you can pay for their 2indomie&2eggs, all that issh going down @dat "Lugbe-Across" shantytown.

I swear I didn't know who to blame; buhari, gej or the recession.

MrCork:




..normally yorr head is not correct. Today..we SALUTE!!

weyrey! deadbrain old dumb motherfucker_! .

I'm amazed by your achievement winning fool of the year back to back. Mrfool!!!!

professorfal:


weyrey! deadbrain old dumb motherfucker_! .

I'm amazed by your achievement winning fool of the year back to back. Mrfool!!!!

...thank you crackhead...you win!

kimbra:
One rule of dating I know is. You don't sleep with a man on a first date. You give it more time to know what he really wants from you. As for your latter question, any girl would give a guy she admires her number. There's a difference between when your crush demands for your contact and when a total stranger you know nothing of does so.

I wasn't generalising, you perceived it to be so and still in this era where the world has evolved. Women are still not expected to approach men. It has disadvantages.

Li2Finger:

So, people exchange contacts on Nairaland for relationship and business? Can enter a relationship with someone you don't even know in real life? If your stranger thingy is something to go by, what happens online stays online... So why Giving your contact to people you meet online?

I have said this before and I'll reiterate. Stop making it look/sound as if all what men think about is a girl's contact. Believe me, other things matters...

Ok, so I was on a thread a guy made and was complaining of what NIPOST officials did to a shipment he ordered. 'cause I used Nigerian NIPOST I made some contributions. Someone on that thread needed to buy something abroad so he contacted me to help him place the order. I declined 'cause it was drugs I wasn't so sure of the compositions. I would have taken the job if I had enough convictions to. We met online right?. What part of manner of approach don't you get?, you're still stuck up in your ideas.