Domestic violence is on the rise. We really don't understand the reason for this act. You physically assault the woman whom you vowed to love for the rest of your life, and think that's the best way to vent your anger or punish her. REAL MEN DON'T BEAT WOMEN, IRRESPECTIVE OF WHATEVER! It's sad that some women are still managing, still enduring this torture from their spouse.

An instagram user, @marea.cache shared on her page, how she was physically abused and how she managed to leave the relationship.


Here is what she wrote on Instagram,


"A year ago Today My life was Almost taken from me! This wouldn’t have been the first traumatic situation I’ve been through but by far the worst Because My actual life was up for question I was beat on for HOURS, Suffered 2 concussions! A broken eye socket, teeth knocked out ! And pistol whipped


2015/2016 Brought me to my lowest point in life! I completely gave up on myself and let a Relationship dictate my whole life, Separating me from friends and family! I was trapped, dealing with EVERYTHING by myself! Not letting anyone know what was going on because of the fear that I had over my life & the fear of judgement from others.


Every moment I got to leave (escape) I got caught and beaten. Everyday I woke up, I was mentally abused, arguments, fight after fight! It was so draining! But GOD! GOD works in mysterious ways … it took me a while but I faced it . Had God not allowed my eyes to be open to this point I would have probably eventually been dead.


it wouldn’t have takken another beating because a gun could have been next, one shot and I could have been gone. It has happened and I’m so thankful for his grace and mercy upon me!


I mean look at me, look at his healing power, look at the growth he has put in me! The strength! I’m still able to Love, I’m still able to Hold my head High!! I love me Again. I’m the most confident I’ve ever been. I’m in such a peaceful state of mind! And I’m using my talents and gifts that the lord has blessed me with!


And I’m choosing to be one of the voices for millions of women around the world facing the same situation who might not be as strong as me! I’m here to let them know you can get help, you can speak up, SOMEONE does care! You do matter, And you can And will get THROUGH ! Keep god first and anything is possible !  Thankyou lord #2017 thankful for LIFE  &New beginnings"


What are the steps needed to reduce the rate of domestic violence?

Source: http://www.baesdiary.com.ng/2017/05/i-suffered-broken-eye-socket-and.html#more

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Ishilove
Mynd44
Seun

See ladies jump in here to masturbate
iam out, none of my biznes

I must marry rich man mentality

I'm not tryna justify a man hitting a woman buh some of y'll girls can be annoying sometimes.

dingbang:
I must marry rich man mentality

How do you know the man is rich?
So poor men don't beat their wives? You guys should stop making rich men look bad biko.

Shelloween:
I'm not tryna justify a man hitting a woman buh some of y'll girls can be annoying sometimes.

Una go type rubbish then say you're not trying to justify violence. Tactical withdrawal hah?
When wives will start pouring men hot water, you'll know men are annoying too. Calm down _the worst is yet to come.

P.S :Real men don't fight anyone, it's not just about women. No sane human should go about fighting.

Sorry ehn? Sorry. Why would a man lay his hand on a woman?
But these bleaching crew self

Too bad!

What do these Ladies normally do, to deserve this kind of treatment!

The day you lay your hands to beat a lady, that is the day you stop being a man....




Ladies get their wahala.. But beating them never solves anything.. Rather, ignore them or walk out and allow their head to reboot.... God will help us..

dingbang:
I must marry rich man mentality

I've being seeing this ur comment for a while now .Not only rich men beat women ,some poor men are the most frustrated and brutal women beater in the world .

poshestmina:
I've being seeing this ur comment for a while now .Not only rich men beat women ,some poor men are the most frustrated and brutal women beater in the world .

ok... So women are saints now abi?

dingbang:
ok... So women are saints now abi?

I never said that ,no matter what happened ,you don't have any right whatsoever to hit a woman ! whether rich or poor .some men are just animals!

PaperLace:



When wives will start pouring men hot water,

It has started already
Domestic violence is a two way street..the only thing is the traffic is heavier on one side

so sad

poshestmina:
I never said that ,no matter what happened ,you don't have any right whatsoever to hit a woman ! whether rich or poor .some men are just animals!

u just said u never called women saints but here u are saying men are animals..



in essence, women are the weaker sex?

dingbang:
u just said u never called women saints but here u are saying men are animals..



in essence, women are the weaker sex?

Your arguments are out of points and baseless ! Not in the mood 4 senseless arguments .

I'd never hit a face that pretty, no matter what.

PaperLace:


How do you know the man is rich?
So poor men don't beat their wives? You guys should stop making rich men look bad biko.


Una go type rubbish then say you're not trying to justify violence. Tactical withdrawal hah?
When wives will start pouring men hot water, you'll know men are annoying too. Calm down _the worst is yet to come.

P.S :Real men don't fight anyone, it's not just about women. No sane human should go about fighting.

Do you know what? You think it's only men that beat women in a marriage. What about thousands of women that beat their husbands? Do you see the men going public with their own BATTERY? When men beat women, everyone goes gaga but when a woman beats a man, it becomes funny. Do you know how these men beaten by their wives feel? Too ashamed to come out. Are they not human too? Women would always post their shit online to get sympathy.

Shelloween:
Do you know what? You think it's only men that beat women in a marriage. What about thousands of women that beat their husbands? Do you see the men going public with their own BATTERY? When men beat women, everyone goes gaga but when a woman beats a man, it becomes funny. Do you know how these men beaten by their wives feel? Too ashamed to come out. Are they not human too? Women would always post their shit online to get sympathy.

Who said men shouldn't talk? It's their fellow men shaming them most. I always make it a point to condemn violence not minding the offending gender.

Since you say men beat women because they're annoying, maybe that's why women beat their husbands too. Don't you think so?
Make no excuses for violence, that's the point.

PaperLace:

Who said men shouldn't talk? It's their fellow men shaming them most. I always make it a point to condemn violence not minding the offending gender.

Since you say men beat women because they're annoying, maybe that's why women beat their husbands too. Don't you think so?
Make no excuses for violence, that's the point.

we are on the same page here. Violence ain't good. The only annoying part about all this is that women always like to play the victim. Men get their asses whopped sometimes.

Shelloween:
I'd never hit a face that pretty, no matter what.

I was like you before... I felt enraged seeing men touch women, until I saw myself acting irately without controls when a woman brought out the devil in me...

U never can tell bro, after that day, anytime I see domestic issues like this, I am not quick to judge; NY first question will be. "What did she do"
Women could be something else my brother... , like devil in human skin . If u see something's u would understand.

PaulKillerman:

I was like you before... I felt enraged seeing men touch women, until I saw myself acting irately without controls when a woman brought out the devil in me...

U never can tell bro, after that day, anytime I see domestic issues like this, I am not quick to judge; NY first question will be. "What did she do"
Women could be something else my brother... , like devil in human skin . If u see something's u would understand.

No matter how annoying my mum gets sometimes, i can never raise my voice at her. I can never hit my babe. There are some faces you can never hurt. I'd rather walk away. You can't hit someone you love.

Abi o; sometimes I wonder when some men say some women can be so annoying to warrant putting their hands on them and injuring them in the process. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT THE WAY FORWARD. My questions to such men are;
If their boss or work colleague in their office were to be annoying would they put their hands on them?
If they run their own business and their business partner or employee were to be annoying would they put their hands on them?
If they were conversing with their male friends and they subsequently become annoying would they put their hands on them?
Rather than them to leave the environment and wait for things to calm down first, they use their fist as the talking tool and forget that fighting doesn't do any good to anyone and before a fight ensures, they should have removed themselves and wait for the brouhaha to calm down.

Shelloween:
No matter how annoying my mum gets sometimes, i can never raise my voice at her. I can never hit my babe. There are some faces you can never hurt. I'd rather walk away. You can't hit someone you love.

When they jilt u because u are still struggling to be made den dey get served by someone who can never love dem d way we did

Dear Lord in heaven...I thank God for your life. I can only imagine how sorrowful it must have been.

Shelloween:
we are on the same page here. Violence ain't good. The only annoying part about all this is that women always like to play the victim. Men get their asses whopped sometimes.

Is this particular woman in question playing victim or IS A VICTIM?

You say women play victim? All the pictures we've been seeing, did they inflict the injuries on themselves?
So why are you saying they like to play victim?

If men don't come out, how would they get help?

The women that come out are just a tip of the iceberg in cases of domestic violence, and many more are still in such relationships, keeping quiet. Of course they cannot get help if no one knows they need help.

If men have refused to come out, no pictures, no police reports, no hospital visits how can anyone help such?
Its commoner to have women as the victims, hence the focus on mainly women because they're the victims we see.

eyinjuege:


Is this particular woman in question playing victim or IS A VICTIM?

You say women play victim? All the pictures we've been seeing, did they inflict the injuries on themselves?
So why are you saying they like to play victim?

If men don't come out, how would they get help?

The women that come out are just a tip of the iceberg in cases of domestic violence, and many more are still in such relationships, keeping quiet. Of course they cannot get help if no one knows they need help.

If men have refused to come out, no pictures, no police reports, no hospital visits how can anyone help such?
Its commoner to have women as the victims, hence the focus on mainly women because they're the victims we see.

If a woman cheats on a man and he hit her, who is the victim? Is it the one that got cheated on or the one that got beaten? Let me tell you who the victim is.... "The one that goes public first".....Men play the victim when they post about the infidelity of their spouses online. They won't tell you how many times they had hit them. They will only tell you how they slept with different men. Some people would call those women bad names. Women also play the victim when they post their sh!t online. They only tell you how their husbands beat them up. They won't tell you what they did. Some people would call the man bad names. There is no violence or crime without a motive. A man can't just wake up one morning, without reason and start hitting his wife. This is Africa. Husbands would always beat up their wives and vice versa. At the end, they either stay together or they part ways. Life goes on. Like i wrote earlier, i'm against all these sh!t. Hitting a woman is wrong. Don't mention me again. You're boring. No offence.

dingbang:
I must marry rich man mentality

OnyeEgo1:
When they jilt u because u are still struggling to be made den dey get served by someone who can never love dem d way we did

Damaged souls

TheeDetective:
Abi o; sometimes I wonder when some men say some women can be so annoying to warrant putting their hands on them and injuring them in the process. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT THE WAY FORWARD. My questions to such men are;
If their boss or work colleague in their office were to be annoying would they put their hands on them?
If they run their own business and their business partner or employee were to be annoying would they put their hands on them?
If they were conversing with their male friends and they subsequently become annoying would they put their hands on them?
Rather than them to leave the environment and wait for things to calm down first, they use their fist as the talking tool and forget that fighting doesn't do any good to anyone and before a fight ensures, they should have removed themselves and wait for the brouhaha to calm down.

You are on point!

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OWA GA o

Mtcheeeewwwww!!! So what should I do? Go and beat the man?? Abeg my neighbor carry one babe come last night, since then I never sleep. Abeg make I go check wetin dem dey do

Why were you beaten?

Did you slap his mum?

You destroyed his car?

Tell us something.

I'm not in support of beating woman o but at times, some need it.