Shelloween:
If a woman cheats on a man and he hit her, who is the victim? Is it the one that got cheated on or the one that got beaten? Let me tell you who the victim is.... "The one that goes public first".....Men play the victim when they post about the infidelity of their spouses online. They won't tell you how many times they had hit them. They will only tell you how they slept with different men. Some people would call those women bad names. Women also play the victim when they post their sh!t online. They only tell you how their husbands beat them up. They won't tell you what they did. Some people would call the man bad names. There is no violence or crime without a motive. A man can't just wake up one morning, without reason and start hitting his wife. This is Africa. Husbands would always beat up their wives and vice versa. At the end, they either stay together or they part ways. Life goes on. Like i wrote earlier, i'm against all these sh!t. Hitting a woman is wrong. Don't mention me again. You're boring. No offence.

poshestmina:
I never said that ,no matter what happened ,you don't have any right whatsoever to hit a woman ! whether rich or poor .some men are just animals!

Shelloween:
Do you know what? You think it's only men that beat women in a marriage. What about thousands of women that beat their husbands? Do you see the men going public with their own BATTERY? When men beat women, everyone goes gaga but when a woman beats a man, it becomes funny. Do you know how these men beaten by their wives feel? Too ashamed to come out. Are they not human too? Women would always post their shit online to get sympathy.

Dymaco:



u guys are yet to get this right.
A female power is the mouth while a man power is fist. let every control their power first

PaperLace:


How do you know the man is rich?
So poor men don't beat their wives? You guys should stop making rich men look bad biko.


Una go type rubbish then say you're not trying to justify violence. Tactical withdrawal hah?
When wives will start pouring men hot water, you'll know men are annoying too. Calm down _the worst is yet to come.

P.S :Real men don't fight anyone, it's not just about women. No sane human should go about fighting.

Shelloween:
I'm not tryna justify a man hitting a woman buh some of y'll girls can be annoying sometimes.

dingbang:
u just said u never called women saints but here u are saying men are animals..



in essence, women are the weaker sex?

Ngokafor:



....A word of advice,if you ever intend relocating to the US or any Western country,please drop this mentality of yours in Nigeria as you leave,or else you will get into trouble with the law there with dire consequences

Bolincosugar:


Just listen to yourself! How many police officer or soldier have you beaten ? Who can be so annoying than a police man and here you are saying women can be annoying. Its easy for you to raise up your hand against a woman.

Am not surprised anyways cos that's the only inheritance left behind for you by your father

PaperLace:


How do you know the man is rich?
So poor men don't beat their wives? You guys should stop making rich men look bad biko.


Una go type rubbish then say you're not trying to justify violence. Tactical withdrawal hah?
When wives will start pouring men hot water, you'll know men are annoying too. Calm down _the worst is yet to come.

P.S :Real men don't fight anyone, it's not just about women. No sane human should go about fighting.

2dugged:
and you are telling me now that poor men don't beat their wives?,when will you people realize that wife beaters have a character flaw and has got nothing to do with money,geez!. Infact, a poor man is likely to beat his wife due to money stress, frustration and is likely to get easily agitated, so Mr man enough of all this irrational theories you lots keep spewing on this forum

Ginaruby:
All dis people typing I dont support beating women will be the ones beating their wives the more..just shut up and get married. most women deserve it, they can rant, they are ready to fight, they wunt let u leave d house, wat do u expect d man to do, I'm a lady but to an extent I support it.
Resetting of brain is allowed.

bukynkwuenu:



don't call a man's statement senseless.....thats why some men beat women...some woman lack respect for men and bliv dy stand a chance when fighting a man...bliv it or not many women are the ones that triggered the beating they get

Ginaruby:


U had better be a nice woman, because men beat people like u alot. He never married a police man. He married u and u keep challenging him everyday, my neighbor once said he never planned beating his wife, but d woman pushed him ihto doing it.
We women need to learn, everytime we blame men, what did she do.
I'm always seeing a man beat his wife, always tell us what she did that resulted to it. I'm tried of dis and that d reason women fight them selves alot.

Bolincosugar:


Just listen to yourself! How many police officer or soldier have you beaten ? Who can be so annoying than a police man and here you are saying women can be annoying. Its easy for you to raise up your hand against a woman.

Am not surprised anyways cos that's the only inheritance left behind for you by your father

PaulKillerman:

I was like you before... I felt enraged seeing men touch women, until I saw myself acting irately without controls when a woman brought out the devil in me...

U never can tell bro, after that day, anytime I see domestic issues like this, I am not quick to judge; NY first question will be. "What did she do"
Women could be something else my brother... , like devil in human skin . If u see something's u would understand.

Shelloween:
I'm not tryna justify a man hitting a woman buh some of y'll girls can be annoying sometimes.

Gbemishile1:
Women can be ANNOYING
Like an idiot that kept on talking rudely to me yesterday,I didn't mind but she called her husband and was still abusing me
Felt like giving her a slap to reset her brain

Bolincosugar:


I pity the likes of you.

This shows the height of madness in your kind of person.

Real men don't raise up their hands against women.

I reject and refuse the men like you by fire

You better get something doing.

Misterdhee1:

You don't get the point sis. Not that 'wife beaters' have a specific class or not. A wife beater can fall into any class - both rich and poor. But the fact is, many ladies see the green light before getting married to the 'supoosed wife beaters'. But a lot of them because of the benefits they derive from such men, do not drop out of the Union. Hence, the op's quote of "I must marry a rich man mentality".

Bolincosugar:


Just listen to yourself! How many police officer or soldier have you beaten ? Who can be so annoying than a police man and here you are saying women can be annoying. Its easy for you to raise up your hand against a woman.

Am not surprised anyways cos that's the only inheritance left behind for you by your father

sarahade:

You are foolish so men are not annoying sometimes.
I don't blame your kind but women that subject themselves to people like you.
I'm sure 8f men are raising their hands you sef go wan raise hand smh

Dymaco:


some men still suffer from domestic violence which they cannot tell you because of fear of stigmatization.
Still some women go call them not man enough.

And some our girls should drop those mentality that it is men right to provide for the family financial unlike our Western counterparts do

BrutalJab:
Why were you beaten?

Did you slap his mum?

You destroyed his car?

Tell us something.

I'm not in support of beating woman o but at times, some need it.

poshestmina:
I never said that ,no matter what happened ,you don't have any right whatsoever to hit a woman ! whether rich or poor .some men are just animals!

Boss13:


You are going too far. How about millions of women that beat their house-help and maltreat their children. Is that not domestic violence. Successfully, Nigerian women have coined domestic violence as one where a man beats his wife.

The OP claimed that domestic violence is on the increase and I refuse to agree. What we have now is an agenda to create rift between men and women. An agenda to emasculate men and devoid them of opinion.

Nigerian women are the major perpetrators of domestic violence in Africa. They beat their children, they devour their house helps, they insult relatives and verbally and physically assault their husbands. They are the instigators of domestic violence, yet they are pretentious and want to assume the role of the victim.

If we want to reduce domestic violence drastically, we must investigate the root cause and the role women play as promoters of domestic violence.

Please see the definition of domestic violence before it was redefined by Nigerian women

Domestic violence - violent or aggressive behaviour within the home, typically involving the violent abuse of a spouse or partner.

BrutalJab:
Why were you beaten?

Did you slap his mum?

You destroyed his car?

Tell us something.

I'm not in support of beating woman o but at times, some need it.

sarahade:


I swear some people deserve hot slap so they can reason well.
You don't get it there's no justification for hitting your husband /wife except for self defense.

If she hits your mother why not ask the same silly question
Why did she slap my mother?
Did your mum slap her?
Did my mother destroy her car? (Since car is your God now)

Fyi mother in laws are the most annoying set of people in this world they can drag anything with the wife even how she makes love to her husband can cause wahala

Ginaruby:


You see how foolish this one can be,?
He only said some of u girls can be annoying and u called him foolish, and d rest.
If u carry this to ur home and receive a slap they will say he is not a man.
We ladies need to learn how to talk.