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Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Humility017(m): 10:10am On May 03, 2017 |
PaulKillerman: you're very right. one should just pray to marry a good wife and also work on himself to be a good person... |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by NaeChris: 10:13am On May 03, 2017 |
Shelloween:Will they see it that way? I have always said, TOLERANCE is not for one person, its for two people as far as marriage is concerned. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by NaeChris: 10:15am On May 03, 2017 |
PaperLace:Tolerance na for everybody. Let us note this, then we have a better society. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by SIRKAY98(m): 10:15am On May 03, 2017 |
doctimonyeka: Am sorry i realized i over reacted |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by BrutalJab: 10:33am On May 03, 2017 |
Amberon:lol calm down... I'm not a woman beater |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by yazzman(m): 10:33am On May 03, 2017 |
Woman should learn how to control there parrot mouth. 3 Likes |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by JuneOctober(f): 10:45am On May 03, 2017 |
No reasonable adult would lay hands on his or her spouse. Learn to argue reasonably not abusing each other like kindergartners If you're a woman and you first slap your husband when arguing, if he slaps and beat you back, don't cry and say real men don't beat women cos you didn't act like a real woman by slapping or hitting your husband. If you're a man and you hit your wife first, and she retaliates by either breaking your head with pestle or using hot water cos most of them aren't so good with their fist, don't open your mouth and talk. Learn to respect each other. i saw people asking questions like "if it's a policeman, soldier or your boss nko?" So if the man can slap soldier, does it give him a right to slap his wife or if the wife can take rudely to the soldier, should she now do that to her husband? Mtcheww! Domestic violence is not a gender thing and it shouldn't be tolerated from any side! Offenders be it a man or a woman should be punished accordingly. Lastly and probably the most important, do away with anything that can instigate D.V Thank you! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Icecream4U(m): 10:49am On May 03, 2017 |
Ginaruby:Exactly! I have also noticed that most of the unmarried ladies are the so called "Wiser" ones. 2 Likes |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Nobody: 10:59am On May 03, 2017 |
Ginaruby:quit trying too hard, hehehehhehe Mr psychologist, we know your type, I was expecting a reply from you, women are always wrong you say? omg!,if truely you are a lady behind this moniker then, you must have suffered a lot of trauma in the hands of your brothers, I guess you are now conditioned in a way that makes you feel "so long as I remain a good girl, I won't get beaten", this my friend is not reverse psychology but toxic domination. when a victim of an abuse begins to feel it's her fault for getting beaten, when she has that mentality that she has to walk on egg shells as to not get beaten, then that is physiological slavery, don't confuse the two 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Bahddo(m): 11:24am On May 03, 2017 |
Violence is bad. It's should be stopped regardless of whom the victim is. However if you strike your spouse first and get beaten up, I have no sympathy for you. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by OpenGames: 11:26am On May 03, 2017 |
Well I hope all the single ladies in this forum are seeing all the potential wife beaters here..both the open ones and the disguised ones with their ' I don't support it but...' Just use your tongue to count ur teeth and if you are a mother. ..be sure to do a better job with your son. I'm out. 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by sammily(m): 11:29am On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade: And you think your man doesn't have his own cousins, some who may be military men. They too will descend on ur cousins and it will be all out WAR. At the end of the day, you will leave his house and still chop the beating. You should not always use violence to solve violence. To the ladies, if you are dating a man and you sense his tendency to be violent, abeg leave asap. No need to tell yourself that he will change or you will change him, it almost never happens. It take the will of God to change such person. 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by sarahade(f): 11:58am On May 03, 2017 |
sammily:Lol yes now his cousins should gather and beat a woman now. Rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by sammily(m): 12:27pm On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade: Not the woman but her cousins that came to harass him. Read what I wrote carefully without being over emotional. 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by cruzyteejay(m): 12:33pm On May 03, 2017 |
Amberon:a moment pls........how does that relate to my comment? 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by bukynkwuenu: 12:53pm On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade: women can cut the tree with their mouth.....a woman that demands respect should act responsibly....its not about noise I didn't say you should worship a man but respect your husband....shikina if you like rant from here to Jerusalem IDGAF.....changing your mindset will only help you for better understanding 3 Likes |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by newdawn2017(f): 12:55pm On May 03, 2017 |
Shelloween:if she is unbearable, then return her back 2 her Father's house, she is an adult like u, no man has d right 2 lift up his hand against a fellow adult & a woman @ d@ in such a very domestic setting |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Dymaco(m): 1:03pm On May 03, 2017 |
Ngokafor: uneasy lies the head that bears the crown. Women always play the victim card. Those men are quiet because it is the same you that claims he is not man enough. coming to the second part.... those niggas who marry oyibo Lady do you think that they marry them for money or for financial gain unlike our naija gals who always dream of ready made girl. I will never beat my wife because I will never marry any lady whose mouth runs like tap water. I believe in gender equality, I can fight a guy who abuse me so shall it be to any woman because we are equal 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Viking007(m): 1:05pm On May 03, 2017 |
Just last night my neighbor was busy pummeling his wife, a very young couple. I was shocked because I can't remember the last time I witnessed such. So despite all the wahala everywhere, people still have the strength to come beat their wives. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Viking007(m): 1:09pm On May 03, 2017 |
Dymaco:@bolded violence helps nobody. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by sarahade(f): 1:11pm On May 03, 2017 |
bukynkwuenu: Mtcheeeeeeeew. You can shove your modset up your ass. Respect is earned not given Respect is also reciprocal so think before you type and take your own advice . 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Dymaco(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2017 |
Viking007: I know but that is a challenge I am trying hard to curtail 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by bukynkwuenu: 1:43pm On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade: ok..thank you |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Amberon: 2:19pm On May 03, 2017 |
Read my comment slowly again, if you fail to see the correlation this time, then I can't help you. cruzyteejay: |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Goandie: 2:53pm On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade: Why not try and beat ur mother in law 1st and see if ur husband will chase u out of d house 1st or giv u d beatin of ur life. I am not supporting women bein beaten am just tellin a true life story nd why sum men are force to beat their wife at that moment. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Olaedoh: 3:18pm On May 03, 2017 |
Amberon: God should just help all the women out there suffering all in the name of marriage, and also touch the heart of all men(who beat their spouse) to be the protector they're supposed to be not panel beaters 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Nobody: 4:27pm On May 03, 2017 |
eyinjuege:And u ladies should also learn to restrain ur tongues cus the man u are shouting at may also a family man with wife and kids. A married woman who knows she has a vile tongue should not dare marry a hot tempered man.but girls of nowadays will tell u they can change him as long as he loves them.overlooking such things because of material gains. That is why I don't pity a woman who is beaten by her husband. 1 Like |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by eyinjuege: 5:09pm On May 03, 2017 |
Gbemishile1: You didn't answer the question of why you didn't slap the stranger insulting you o, despite the fact that you felt like. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Nobody: 5:14pm On May 03, 2017 |
Hmmmm una no get pepper spray for house ni? Even stun gun sef go teach the man lesson |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Shelloween(m): 6:56pm On May 03, 2017 |
sarahade:lol. I am entitled to my opinion and just because we perceive things differently, that doesn't make me foolish. Men, as well as women, is annoying. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Shelloween(m): 7:22pm On May 03, 2017 |
HaneefahRN:I respect your opinion but try and understand the logic here. THE VICTIMS ARE THE ONES THAT GO PUBLIC. You can never determine who the real victim is, until you hear from both parties. Imagine being beaten up by your younger sister, wouldn't you be too ashamed to report to your parents? Women are the weaker sex, so when a man gets beaten up by a woman, no matter the age difference, such a man would be too embarrassed to speak up. I am totally against domestic violence. Please, don't mention me again. Good day. |
Re: Broken Eye Socket And Knocked Teeth – Lady Shares Her Story Of Domestic Violence by Nobody: 7:53pm On May 03, 2017 |
eyinjuege:I know for certain her husband would do it for me someday |
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