sisisioge:
Wowzerful!


Not true here sweetie. I'm on the left side of 30 and nobody treats me like a Nepa. My singlehood is my call. My anythinghood is my call. I own myself... I owe nobody any explanation... Except my mum though. She's worried and gets on my nerves...not in the leper form. She trys too hard to get me married by force by fire...yet it is my call. Telling me about her friend's son friend is in town, the cousin children's uncle in town etc wont change the fact that the call is mine. You get treated the way you want sweetie...your life is your call.

A lot of men will come your way...keep filtering till you get the one. If he's perhaps not ever coming, there's always a plan B Don't let anyone take your life from you

sisisioge:
Wowzerful!


Not true here sweetie. I'm on the left side of 30 and nobody treats me like a Nepa. My singlehood is my call. My anythinghood is my call. I own myself... I owe nobody any explanation... Except my mum though. She's worried and gets on my nerves...not in the leper form. She trys too hard to get me married by force by fire...yet it is my call. Telling me about her friend's son friend is in town, the cousin children's uncle in town etc wont change the fact that the call is mine. You get treated the way you want sweetie...your life is your call.

A lot of men will come your way...keep filtering till you get the one. If he's perhaps not ever coming, there's always a plan B Don't let anyone take your life from you

explura:
kudos to you ma'am that you are an exception.. I wouldn't change my stance on the fact that an overwhelming number of ladies tie the validity of their existence to marriage.. These are the ones I've got issues with..

yvelchstores:
Honestly, I can't relate to your complains. Sit where you want to sit in church. You may be on the defensive cos I Am yet to see a church that reserve a special place for single ladies . Secondly, marriage is a job really, a job that Ofcourse comes with its benefits as well as challenges. just as u celebrate when u get a job and happy the company found you worthy, I don't see anything wrong in a lady feeling same way, that her husband found her worthy. That is even a good attitude cos a lady that feels the man is fortunate to have her will end up wanting the man to serve her. This is not as God intended cos the Bible says the woman was created for the man .you need to start changing your mindset to align with marriage the way God intended so when that blessed man comes your way, it will be a success story, from beginning to end. Bless u.

sisisioge:


Well...life is too short to be too serious.

explura:
On the defensive? Yours is a funny deduction.. As an open-minded Christian, I've been to liberal and conservative churches, and a number of conservative still do this separation tactics.. This post does not suggest that the 'leper syndrome' is confined to the walls of the church..It's far beyond of the church.. Stretching deep into the heart of the society.. And you have every right to hold your views on marriage.. But this my dear, are my views..

lovelygurl:
We accept the treatment we THINK we deserve. Know your worth and people will do


That's how 1 idiot here was telling me I should listen to what society says. Wtf

PS.: I'm a young lady and can't really relate but even I get irritated when I see such acts

crackhaus:
^^^

Aquariann:


I've missed your post on here sir. Welcome back

Blissquare:
From my point as a woman married twice. We are all diff. It is easy to say u wld not let marriage define u. Sometimes, we settle for less not because we want to but we have to. No matter how u front it, it is always ackward to not be married at a certain age. U may not mind but ur mom's happiness may be at stake. U worked hard all ur life, had good grades and got a good job. Why wld u be lonely? Even bad people are getting married. When u are happy alone, people wld still believe u cry urself to sleep. If u opt for kids without marriage, it is also ackward. It is frustrating both ways so I picked d one that makes me comfortable. Good men are few and that is a reality! My current husband is with me for material gains but at least I hav it to share with him. People are envying me that I got a 2nd chance and he adores me as long as d money is there.

yvelchstores:
good for u dear. They are your views but in the public eye so I decided to also share mine so readers will know from all angles thus giving them a choice

sisisioge:
Wowzerful!


Not true here sweetie. I'm on the left side of 30 and nobody treats me like a Nepa. My singlehood is my call. My anythinghood is my call. I own myself... I owe nobody any explanation... Except my mum though. She's worried and gets on my nerves...not in the leper form. She trys too hard to get me married by force by fire...yet it is my call. Telling me about her friend's son friend is in town, the cousin children's uncle in town etc wont change the fact that the call is mine. You get treated the way you want sweetie...your life is your call.

A lot of men will come your way...keep filtering till you get the one. If he's perhaps not ever coming, there's always a plan B Don't let anyone take your life from you

Haba, nne.. which one is left side of 30 kwa

I like your decision sha.. Ladies shouldn't let the marriage issue make them worrisome or settle for less.. Our society and culture isn't helping matters too.. Divorce cases are so high these days.. One need to be careful and sure it's God's will before saying yes to the 'will u marry me' question

Amicable24:

Haba, nne.. which one is left side of 30 kwa

I like your decision sha.. Ladies shouldn't let the marriage issue make them worrisome or settle for less.. Our society and culture isn't helping matters too.. Divorce cases are so high these days.. One need to be careful and sure it's God's will before saying yes to the 'will u marry me' question

sisisioge:




Otondo. If you write 30, there are the left, middle and right sides to it. I'm on the left. Gotit?

Amicable24:


I have learnt something new today oooo

yvelchstores:
Honestly, I can't relate to your complains. Sit where you want to sit in church. You may be on the defensive cos I Am yet to see a church that reserve a special place for single ladies . Secondly, marriage is a job really, a job that Ofcourse comes with its benefits as well as challenges. just as u celebrate when u get a job and happy the company found you worthy, I don't see anything wrong in a lady feeling same way, that her husband found her worthy. That is even a good attitude cos a lady that feels the man is fortunate to have her will end up wanting the man to serve her. This is not as God intended cos the Bible says the woman was created for the man .you need to start changing your mindset to align with marriage the way God intended so when that blessed man comes your way, it will be a success story, from beginning to end. Bless u.

Blissquare:
From my point as a woman married twice. We are all diff. It is easy to say u wld not let marriage define u. Sometimes, we settle for less not because we want to but we have to. No matter how u front it, it is always ackward to not be married at a certain age. U may not mind but ur mom's happiness may be at stake. U worked hard all ur life, had good grades and got a good job. Why wld u be lonely? Even bad people are getting married. When u are happy alone, people wld still believe u cry urself to sleep. If u opt for kids without marriage, it is also ackward. It is frustrating both ways so I picked d one that makes me comfortable. Good men are few and that is a reality! My current husband is with me for material gains but at least I hav it to share with him. People are envying me that I got a 2nd chance and he adores me as long as d money is there.

Dyt:
Yok Yok Yok
I am over 30 A single mum And I don't remember feeling that way
****did I even read the write up*****

Martin124:
and you like to be like that?

Dyt:



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