I met this guy, let’s call him Mr. C a few years ago through a friend. He was everything most girls would want; young, rich and cute. I had only known him for two weeks before he invited me over to his new crib which he had just spent a small fortune furnishing


Going to his house was kind of the first date we were going to have. He came over to my place to pick me up and I looked forward to a pleasant evening. We got to his house and I was impressed with the decor. He had a good and decent place.

After sitting for a while, he said he was hungry. I asked him what he wanted to do about it. Mr C looked at me and told me he had chicken in his freezer that I should go inside and prepare rice so we ( I, himself and a few of his friends who came over) could eat. I was shocked but pretended not to hear him. He said it again loudly and I politely asked him “Why should I cook for you and your friends”?

He looked at me and said, “you are a woman you should know how to put the house in order whenever you are around”. This was the first date. I haven’t known this dude for more than a few weeks and there he was already dictating what I should do or shouldn’t do as a woman.

I declined cooking for him and after 30 minutes he got up, drove to a nearby fast food and bought me rice. I ate the food, told him thanks and asked him to drop me off. The relationship never worked out because I refused to go on more dates with him.

I have nothing against cooking. I will gladly cook a three-course meal, clean the entire house and mop a compound if I want to do it. I, however, will not do any of those things for a guy who thinks it is my responsibility.

Cooking is not a woman’s thing. Cooking is a skill that can be learned by anyone. I am not supposed to cook, be a prayer warrior and always be kind-hearted because I am a woman.

I dumped a potential boyfriend because he asked me to cook and I do not feel bad about it.

Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/

Alainikanse

One word - Pride !

Hmmm, you seem to see the guy as an okay person, probably the way he sounded about you cooking turned you off entirely, at times guys can be authoritative without knowing they are, mostly when around their friends.
Should have just gone on more dates, he could turn out nicer than you thought.

Oya clap for yourself!

I thing the guy was wrong. my opinion though

that lady is an idoit n a big problem in d future nonsense

All these feministic ideas self!

Were you thinking by dating him, you were doing him a favor?

Could it be possible that you totally misjudged him?

One thing with all these feministic ideas is that they allow for you to have a rigid view of things, " If men do this then he is nothing but a misogynist"

The first time bae visited, I cooked and she enjoyed it, So my ideals don't restrict women to the kitchen.


You said you dumped him, so that's to make you special uh? Fine, Good luck with finding a man who won't ask you to cook.


lalasticlala, or whoever is in charge of this board should move this to FP, so we can have more views on this issue.

She is still young now; leave her, by the time she approach 30. By then her sense of reasoning go come down to normal

Hmmm. Well If you enjoy cooking you will not be saying this. It doesn't mean the guy wanted to use you. You probably don't know if he wanted a wife and saw you as a potential one. You missed out.

Maybe if it was sex you will have gladly given to him.

slay mama. wagbayi

Is this not the same girl who has slept with 2788 men

Nothing we no go see
Even this one wey her Toto don sag and wide like Grand Canyon still dey form for man

I no blame am sha, man must knack.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltSTeZA6xMI

she is a fool

is this not the same girl who called herself a whorre and claimed to have slept with 7,788 men?

which of them asked her to cook?

Who cares

yeye fowl

It is obvious you are not ready for a relationship and only wants to fool around.

Edited my suspicion confirmed:
It is the same girl who claimed to be a proud LovePeddler.

http://gistreel.com/2017/04/22/LovePeddler-ive-slept-2788-men-nigerian-lady-says/

Oluwasaeon:
One word - Pride !

2 Words! " Dumb A** " ,,, Whao! Really. Okay ooo..

Ode nie, you have no point and you make no sense

Hmm, isn't it this girl tat gladly said she is a LovePeddler, ashawo and all that, tat has slept with 2783 men excluding women, My dear, only God can judge you.

Smart girl. The next date he would have brought out clothes for you to wash.

Set a standard for yourself because if you marry such a man you will never be happy. Men like that end up beating women.

So what?

see ya life

Good for you

So you think you are doing me?

Till u turn 79yrs nd u still dey single