lastmessenger:
my dear I have seen this things happen over and over and it always end in a very bad way. Parental consent is very important for any marriage to stand.
The fact her mum is resisting is not and end in itself.things can still turn around for good and they will get married.

QuietHammer:

Permit me to stretch this to a ridiculous length, where should orphans without guardians get their 'parental consent ' from?

QuietHammer:

Permit me to stretch this to a ridiculous length, where should orphans without guardians get their 'parental consent ' from?

maxwell60:
They do get consent from Those who Adopted them, or their even those in charge of orphanage home where they were raised .My thoughts though

Jacksparr0w127:

firstking01:
You just wan waste this ftc on this thread that has fp potential.

Jacksparr0w127:
I go edit if e make FP

Edipee:
This is serious. I have a suggestion, it may sound funny but it might work. Go to Facebook, threaten to commit suicide if your mom doesn't allow you marry your man. Make some suicidal post including pictures of rope or knife.
Drop your mom's phone number there for people to call and caution her. By the time 20 people calls, she'll be begging you to forgive her and marry your man.

firstking01:
You hardly type long...never seen where your comment makes 3 lines before.

Jacksparr0w127:
lol. I stopped bothering actually. I used to. But now, I rarely do

firstking01:
Ok, was actually think it's cos of your introverted nature.

whitepump:



I am settling for him not because I am desperate. I still have men asking me out but He fits into my description of how I want my man to be and i decided to look beyond the limping.

whitepump:
Please MOD help me forward to front page.
Hello people. I put up something sometime ago about a guy I met who limps while he walks because of an accident he had when he was a child. And how my mum said i counldnt marry the guy because of that. well things started going well and i thought my mum approved of it but when marriage plans got close, she went and discussed with one or two friends who told her that if it were their daughter, they will never allow her marry a man that limps. Just because of that, she changed, cancelled my introduction date that she can't stand me marrying a man that limps. About 60 percent of my colleague and friends knew that our marriage was close. This man loves me so much and i love him too. He has been so good to me, I don't care that he limps, I love him just the way he is because he has proven to me that he is different from other men and i will be happy if I marry him. He is very hard-working and God fearing. Treats me with so much respect. With all the divorce here and there, one should be more concern about someone's character that the physical appearance. I want to go ahead and do a court wedding with him because a limps is not an enough reason for me to leave a good man. I put myself in his shoes, if I was to be limping, I will never want to be treated that way. I am 30 and he is 37
Please matured people here help me, what should I do Because my mum is adamant and my dad has no say since it was my mum that brought me up.

Jacksparr0w127:
Lol. Not really. But maybe little tho. Plus I hardly find anything debatable here in this section. Lol. Even though I've refused to move to other sections hahaha

firstking01:
Funny....romance section is a place of relief i tell ya...lil wonder monikers that deactivated and some sworn never to comeback to romance section will still uprooted from nowhere and find their way back.

PenisCaP:


Omg u are a very good woman..
I pray God bles me with a kind hearted and reasonable girl like u.
But please dont marry without ur parents consent its very very important.
Im not saying u should dump him.
But burrow more time to talk to ur mum even if it took u months to accomplish.

Becox they are still d one dat would take u back eventually if things go wrong tommorrow.
Ihave seen occasions where parents abandoned their daughter in her marriage problems when her marriage gone sour becoz she stubbornly married without their blessin.
Im not saying anythin will go wrong.. but no one knows tommorrow.
GOD will bless ur marriage with everlastin love and understanding..

krispycash:
Its funny how some parents try to make decisions for their kids... My dear my own advice is sit both of ur folks down and tell them ur thoughts and make dem u understand that they do not have a say as to who u marry... If u don't stand for something u will fall for anything... So what if the guy limps?? Does that make him less of a man?? Does that mean he can't be an awesome husband... Until you stand up for ur man your parents will continue to choose for u... Make dem understand that is who u need... Not want... NEED!! And it is ur decision ... If they still refuse proceed to get preggers for him... But i strongly advice u sit them down.

Homeboiy:
Na very simple problem to solve

so far u won commit ur life to him

Carry belle for him

go meet ur mama tell am say u no won comot am

u go c as she go rush cordinate well to avoid shame

ur mama sef, i for say y ur papa run leave am

Material woman (no offense)

okoliexpress:
@ op your use of limbs got me real good but on a serious note, its not a wise thing to fight your family on issues like this, they know better and they have experience, love may be shacking you now but when the real marriage reality will hit you, you will certainly not like it. i recently learnt that you should marry with your head and not with your heart ofcourse this is my opinion and that's what everyone can give you (opinions) but ultimately the choice is yours to make, you alone know what you can tolerate and accommodate but pls use your head.

RaggedyAnn:
I am fiercely against people (especially women) marrying without their parent's blessing, but in this case I think your mother is being highly unreasonable. Talk to her some more. The limp occurred in an accident so it's not genetic; and what if you marry a perfectly-walking man today and he lands in a wheelchair the next day? Tell her the qualities he's got that are important to you so that she knows you know what you're doing. And ask why the limp matters to her so much. I'm sure she'll discover for herself (if put on the spot) that she's allowing her friends' pettiness becloud her judgement. Not all friends want what's best for her.

Congrats on your impending marriage, dear. Wish you the best.

luminouz:

Its raggedyann againnnnnnn!