Bumbae1:

Lol you and your mind

Well if I accidentally get wasted maybe shack VSOP or any strong levels .. beer googles one
I see one kukikuli wey dry but starts looking like sharwama ... and i bang and wake up and find out OMG what did I do... but wait it was amazing my legs still shaking *hint* lol
If I am just looking for a bang buddy then yea why not ...

This made me laugh so loud! I love your honesty and the fact you kept it real.

I agree with you under those circumstances, I gotta come back for more

AHCB:
I'm curious to ask how a girl can shag someone she's not even attracted to in the first place. That usually qualify her as a hoe.

From my wealth of experience, I know with a one night stand, there's a form of attraction, be it, sexual, physical, intellectual or mutual. Or am I missing something.

Because a woman enjoys sex doesn't make her a hoe.
Sometimes, we do just enjoy the sex and don't need nothing else. It's rare but that doesn't mean it never happens.

ZarZar:


No, honest to God, I can't. I'd feel like a dirty scum. I need feelings. Without them it's empty for me, almost like masturbating with a real penis

Masturbating with a real penis ain't bad...
i know cos i have one

KINGOFJAPAN:

Masturbating with a real penis ain't bad...
i know cos i have one

Lol, I'm sure you do. What I meant is, there's a disconnect, like you're having sex but noone' s there. That's the only way I can explain it.

ZarZar:
It's confusing, why would you sleep with him in the 1st place if there's zero attraction from the onset?
OK, let me just pretend I tripped & fell on his dick by mistake, only to find out he's amazing. Would I do it again? No! Sex for some of us goes much deeper than just grinding hipbones.

This statement just made my day

mikeujoel:


This statement just made my day

It's possible, right? After all, stranger things have happened.

RaggedyAnn:



Yesss Bae, thumbs up for your imaginativeness. For me though......Bleep-buddy has still got to be physically attractive. Otherwise, getting wasted would have to be a constant prelude to the deed. And no kissing! Definitely, no kissing on the lips.

Haha same here not really a kissing type lol @constant

Dimples182:


This made me laugh so loud! I love your honesty and the fact you kept it real.

I agree with you under those circumstances, I gotta come back for more

haha who doesn't like good things aye

cruchenuti:


Bang buddy? I thought bang buddies are people you cant have but wanttt sooo baaaad. So you have to be attracted.

Also sef, I doubt if you get wasted without anyone around. Good girl like you

Na bang buddy .. just someone you have sex with no strings attached like kinda like friends with benefits

ZarZar:


Lol, I'm sure you do. What I meant is, there's a disconnect, like you're having sex but noone' s there. That's the only way I can explain it.

I think It's like masturbation only more stressful because you're doing it "in the presence" of someone who is, emotionally or factually, basically a stranger.

KINGOFJAPAN:

I think It's like masturbation only more stressful because you're doing it "in the presence" of someone who is, emotionally or factually, basically a stranger.

Couldn't have said it better! Yeah, something like that.

Bumbae1:


Haha same here not really a kissing type lol @constant

ZarZar:

Couldn't have said it better! Yeah, something like that.

So what if you're like super Hot? Still won't shag ?

KINGOFJAPAN:

So what if you're like super Hot? Still won't shag ?

Lol, no I wouldn't. Sex is more than just a physical need. I'm one of those people that can't even give people a hug or hold their hand without feeling like I've got germs all over. Any form of physical contact grosses me out, unless I really like a person. In which case, I can "forgive" & block the OCD(ish) tendencies. Doing it just because I'm Hot will never happen.

ZarZar:


Lol, no I wouldn't. Sex is more than just a physical need. I'm one of those people that can't even give people a hug or hold their hand without feeling like I've got germs all over. Any form of physical contact grosses me out, unless I really like a person. In which case, I can "forgive" & block the OCD(ish) tendencies. Doing it just because I'm Hot will never happen.

Lol you know u need help right? Well I guess we are all wired different.

Bumbae1:


Na bang buddy .. just someone you have sex with no strings attached like kinda like friends with benefits

Yea but friends with benefit are people you actually love but can't have. In fact, most times you even love them more.

cruchenuti:


Yea but friends with benefit are people you actually love but can't have. In fact, most times you even love them more.

Lol ok o
I don hear

ZarZar:
It's confusing, why would you sleep with him in the 1st place if there's zero attraction from the onset?
OK, let me just pretend I tripped & fell on his dick by mistake, only to find out he's amazing. Would I do it again? No! Sex for some of us goes much deeper than just grinding hipbones.

Damnn!!!! Now that is one crazy asss imagination...."tripped and fell on his dick by mistake"

Mama the mama...tuale!!!...wetin u go dey do for bedroom go wicked...
I envy ur boyfriend die....make I jot down ur moniker..

KINGOFJAPAN:
Lol you know u need help right? Well I guess we are all wired different.

Come on, I don't think it's that weird considering the fact that some people don't wash their hands after using the toilet. Some even dig their nose randomly. You can never know where those hands have been It's not even related to physical contact. I feel the exact same way when I receive change from a store. I swear to God, it usually feels like I'm holding a dumbbell. It gets so heavy because in my mind I start thinking about all the germs that could be crawling all over it. Meh. True, people ain't the same. It's also true that some don't practice good hygiene

ZarZar:


Come on, I don't think it's that weird considering the fact that some people don't wash their hands after using the toilet. Some even dig their nose randomly. You can never know where those hands have been It's not even related to physical contact. I feel the exact same way when I receive change from a store. I swear to God, it usually feels like I'm holding a dumbbell. It gets so heavy because in my mind I start thinking about all the germs that could be crawling all over it. Meh. True, people ain't the same. It's also true that some don't practice good hygiene

You just close your eyes and you be a trooper. We all have to do things in life that we don't really want to, and in the grand scheme of things, this one is over fairly quick. You hope.
Of course, that's no solace if you have to do it on a regular basis.

MsRoe:



Dude, this is so uncalled for. The point of this thread is to find out who would Bleep just for the sake of fucking, and having you act all judgmental doesn't help the honesty of replies. You want to put women in a box of conventions, where they are not supposed to deviate from what they're 'allowed' to be. With all due respect, you're not a women and as such cannot speak from a woman's perspective. You can't even speak for ALL men. You can only speak for yourself. Sex isn't always about intimacy, sometimes it's about the orgasm alone. Making love vs stone cold fucking. I think that men might understand this better; most of them can screw anything attached to a vagina. Some women too, can dissociate themselves from a sexual partner to limit the act to pure 'mechanics' - flicking the clitoris just right to get off. It doesn't make them weird. It's not cause to check one's brain. It just means they've got the capacity to compartmentalize and be selfish.

I'm sorry, I agree I was harsh. You have the right not to accept opinion, but honestly this sex without attraction thing never works for women.

This is not putting women in any box, I'm speaking based on my experience and other peoples experience that I saw over the years.

Women don't make love and Stone cold fucking except they are attracted to that person, Attraction is number One when it comes to women.

No matter how intelligent you are, it doesn't matter. Attraction is Key. That's why a lady can have sex with you on a First date or Second meanwhile a guy has been begging her for a relationship for up to a year. With all manner of gifts.

Even white ladies that just want to have a one night sex, you have to be attractive to her first. A man with a big pot belly stands no chance except the girl is a prostitute.

In fact, if you want to hear more. I can tell you of my experience in corporate organization sef. How some ladies only greet guys that they are physically attracted to. I know this is hard to believe. I have seen it with my own eyes. Not once, not twice etc

KINGOFJAPAN:
You just close your eyes and you be a trooper. We all have to do things in life that we don't really want to, and in the grand scheme of things, this one is over fairly quick. You hope.
Of course, that's no solace if you have to do it on a regular basis.

Very true

Any weird phobias?

Bumbae1:

Lol ok o
I don hear

Or you do want us to be friends with benefit ? Since I have asked you out openly & you politely turned me down. We can continue this discussion on twitter DMs. Let's do it like BankyW and Adesuwa

Okay...

ZarZar:


Very true

Any weird phobias?

Nothing really weird just the usual : Death, failure, dark empty rooms (don't judge) and getting sick.

KINGOFJAPAN:

Nothing really weird just the usual : Death, failure, dark empty rooms (don't judge) and getting sick.

Awww, that's so cute at fear of darkness Like, what do you think is hiding in the dark? Monsters?
The rest is understandable. Personally, I don't fear death because life can be so tiring sometimes. Plus the not knowing when it'll happen, is what makes me envy those who have already died. My only fear about death is the HOW. I don't want to go out in a gruesome way lol. I just wanna sleep & never wake up. But according to my aunt who works as a nurse, there's no such thing as an easy death. She says people struggle to hold on to that last breath so much that sometimes they even pee or claw themselves just to get a hold of something. That's scary. But hey, nothing is easy anyway so..

ZarZar:


Awww, that's so cute at fear of darkness Like, what do you think is hiding in the dark? Monsters?
The rest is understandable. Personally, I don't fear death because life can be so tiring sometimes. Plus the not knowing when it'll happen, is what makes me envy those who have already died. My only fear about death is the HOW. I don't want to go out in a gruesome way lol. I just wanna sleep & never wake up. But according to my aunt who works as a nurse, there's no such thing as an easy death. She says people struggle to hold on to that last breath so much that sometimes they even pee or claw themselves just to get a hold of something. That's scary. But hey, nothing is easy anyway so..

Not necessarily monster's, i dunno how to put it buh darkness embodies the unknown and my helplessness in the face of all the bad things that could happen. It conjures up anxious thought and feelings.

Death has "haunted" me from childhood. I tried embracing the fact that we all would die, in hope of getting rid of this phobia buh it didn't work.
Now not only I'm I afraid of dying I'm more afraid of my love one's dying. I hope when I die it'll be swift, peaceful and painless..

KINGOFJAPAN:
Not necessarily monster's, i dunno how to put it buh darkness embodies the unknown and my helplessness in the face of all the bad things that could happen. It conjures up anxious thought and feelings.

Death has "haunted" me from childhood. I tried embracing the fact that we all would die, in hope of getting rid of this phobia buh it didn't work.
Now not only I'm I afraid of dying I'm more afraid of my love one's dying. I hope when I die it'll be swift, peaceful and painless..

Lol @ your last line. Don't well all? Anyway, I get where you're coming from because we all have irrational fears. So, do you sleep with lights on to ease the anxiety or what? Completely understand the fear of loved ones dying. Thank God for me, I've already been through the worst of it. It doesn't affect me as much now. I just accept it as a chain of events & move on.

Dimples182:

Because a woman enjoys sex doesn't make her a hoe.
Sometimes, we do just enjoy the sex and don't need nothing else. It's rare but that doesn't mean it never happens.

Oh my. You seem not to get the point. Before sex, there has to be attraction. Like I said, it can be sexual, mutual, physical or intellectual.

I still don't understand how a girl can have sex with a person she's not attracted to. Even if it's a one night stand. There has to be form of communication...

ZarZar:


Lol @ your last line. Don't well all? Anyway, I get where you're coming from because we all have irrational fears. So, do you sleep with lights on to ease the anxiety or what? Completely understand the fear of loved ones dying. Thank God for me, I've already been through the worst of it. It doesn't affect me as much now. I just accept it as a chain of events & move on.

Lights off if I'm not alone, lights on if I am.

KINGOFJAPAN:

Lights off if I'm not alone, lights on if I am.

Hmmm...

ZarZar:

Hmmm...

Wetin??