dingbang:
I think I would blame the ladies on this. They don't care to find out the bad sides of the man they are dating, they only care to know if he is caring. That's all.. Even the devil is more caring than I am..

When you don't know the extent at which a man would react to issues, then I don't think such lady is prepared to marry

dingbang:
I think I would blame the ladies on this. They don't care to find out the bad sides of the man they are dating, they only care to know if he is caring. That's all.. Even the devil is more caring than I am..

When you don't know the extent at which a man would react to issues, then I don't think such lady is prepared to marry

Oyindidi:
Don't blame the ladies yet, even men are victims

itsJude:
how are men victims biko?

Oyindidi:
Daddy freeze wife beat am. Many men are going through same but won't open up due to shame

Oyindidi:
Don't blame the ladies yet, even men are victims

itsJude:
lol that one na one in a billion

dingbang:
sure..

Oyindidi:
Some women are very violent though. Sometimes they throw the first punch. Just saying

itsJude:
na all part of the provoking na

Thats why some men kill them

Oyindidi:
Na wa for you o, you no call again. I don wait tire

dingbang:
no be me. Na the man.. He travelled again to the west.. Waiting for him to come back..

Oyindidi:
OK, thanks for your efforts. You for report to me. I go tell you one important one later. I never buy but I trust am

dingbang:
really . better.. Whatsapp me the product

Aderola15:
Wawuu

Judeyjude, I'm impressed and proud of ya.


Back to the matter... This should be my first time of commenting on this kinda thread. I don't because it's only a dummy that would fail to recognize an abusive person once you've been with them for few weeks or a month. You don't necessarily need to wait for this person to hurt or insult you before you see the red flag because there's a 70% probability of him acting all sweet and nice around you.


During the week, I met a man and we got talking about so many things, guess my smiling face gave me off as an extremely nice person or something but he was comfortable about telling me what he's been battling with and the whole thing started from him talking back at his mum and some other things I wouldn't want to say here (nairaland is not so faceless). I told him how I felt how the whole issue without mincing words and he said "you are the kind of lady have been looking for" ... I didn't waste anytime, told him he's not the kinda of guy have been looking for which is the gospel truth. If he could talk back at his mum, how much more his girlfriend or wife. It gradually starts from talking back, insults and finally slaps when they discover their insults aren't having much effect.



You only need to be observant of how he relates with others and bambam, you know the kinda person you dealing with.

Modragon:
Which one is domestic violence...all this stuffs are just to deceive us cus we want to move 2wards globalization and live a life that is not ours...
A woman should make food for her husband, keep her home, clean, do laundry and all.but don't get me wrong the man can help wit this also....our mothers did all this and worked hard to keep the family


Most gurls are lazy dis days, becus of instagram, facebook, snapchat they want to always be online lazing around, I cud rememba a gurl saying I cant cook for my guy..or is it ma neighbour as a young chic, she doesn't even wash her dishes they may be dere for days, she prefer to tk coke and bread and sleep rather than cooking wit the am tired shit but she can chat online for 4hours...

Ppl shud live to responsibility esp. The ladies.am not saying u shud abuse ur wife.,but ppl tk dis domestic violence shit 2 d extreme

STUPID GENERATION...

FelixFelicis:
*sighs*

After so many trolling and attrocities, he put up a women-friendly post.

I hope y'all female romancelanders can forgive him now.

Cc Kim.bra and the rest..

kimbra:
LMAO. He didn't say anything new.

Oyindidi:
Daddy freeze wife beat am. Many men are going through same but won't open up due to shame

FelixFelicis:
Damn you know what I think? I think this is a copied but well modified assignment

kimbra:
It doesn't matter whether he copied it or it came out of his **** brain. The subject for discussion here has been over-flogged.

FelixFelicis:
Jude's watery eyes now After all he went through modifying the sh*t

Headlesschicken:
If she mess up,just kill her n hide her body....

itsJude:
Wrote everything myself

Not even one sentence was copied


Lol haters