This is a tough decision you have to make, but please be mature. Only an immature person thinks of herself alone.

This article was written by neither a militant, pro-life male, nor a 50- year-old grandmother who has never been faced with a problem pregnancy.
It was written by a woman who was eighteen and pregnant once. A woman who was scared, like you are, and chose abortion. After nine years I know what the right choice was, and is, and I just want you to know .

1. Abortion is not safe:
Contrary to the belief that abortion is as simple as removing a wart, it is actually a very serious procedure that can have very serious results.
The clinic personnel will lead you to believe that complications rarely arise, but that is not the case. Many women have been damaged for life as a result of their legal abortion.

Your cervical muscle may be damaged in an abortion because the cervix is forcefully dilated. This means that your future pregnancies have a greater chance of resulting in miscarriage or premature delivery.

Damage to the uterine wall is another concern Perforation (puncturing) of the uterus, infection hemorrhage, and blood clots are only a few of the complications that you could end up with.
I you do have a successful” abortion, scar tissue may still form which can cause sterilization, miscarriages and tubal pregnancies.

Approximately two out of 10 women who abort their first pregnancy will never be able to have children again. Do you want to take that kind of risk?

2. Abortion leaves emotional scars:

Most often a woman will feel the consequences of her decision within days of her abortion. If they don’t appear immediately, they will appear as she gets older.

Emotional scars include unexplained depression, a loss of the ability to get close to others, repressed emotions, a hardening of the spirit, thwarted maternal instincts (which may lead to child abuse or neglect later in life), intense feelings of guilt and thoughts of suicide. Don’t be fooled —every abortion leaves emotional scars.

3. There are alternatives to abortion:
There are many organizations that can offer you practical support such as maternity and baby clothes, a place to live, pre-natal care, and financial aid.

Counseling is also available to help you through this traumatic time. Please think carefully about your future.

The decision you make in the next few weeks will affect you for the rest of your life. If you’re unsure about having an abortion, take just one more day to think about it — don’t let anyone pressure you into a decision you’re not ready to make yet.


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no 1 is false
we have definitions for safe nd unsafe abortions. Wikipedia is dere fr u if u need info about abortion

Nothing is safe in this world! Whoever listens to Drfash does so at her own risk

Propaganda

Whether you like it or not, safe or unsafe, first time or second time, you may not be lucky in your next attempt(s).

Drfash:
no 1 is false
we have definitions for safe nd unsafe abortions. Wikipedia is dere fr u if u need info about abortion

Are you trying to encourage abortion?

abortion is a Sin. stay pure

We all know abortion is an egregious sin and morally wrong. No one should take a life he/she cannot give. That said, what i don't understand is why people see abortion as the gravest of sins.

Cuddlebugie:
We all know abortion is an egregious sin and morally wrong. No one should take a life he/she cannot give. That said, what i don't understand is why people see abortion as the gravest of sins.

hypocrisy thats why!! especially in Africa. .our girls are condemned for the atrocities perpetrated by randy males..wtout abortion, how many ladies will have an opportunity at education and career and even marriage??!!victims of rape,and abuse have to "keep"their "baby"cos society frowns at abortion. .i shudder to imagine the horrors that lie ahead for the chibok babies and for Nigeria in the near future. A woman should have the freedom to decide if she wants to carry a child to term or not!

Actually, before abortion is performed, doctors have to inform the person about possible risks like before any other medical procedure.

Women are asked to do counseling before they make the final decision and are informed about possible psychological problems and also alternatives.

The bottom line is that women are responsible for their sexuality so it's better for women to KNOW WHO EVER THEY ARE OPENING THEIR THIGHS FOR 101% BECAUSE EVERY CONSEQUENCES OR INCONSEQUENCES OF SEX WILL FALL ON THEM 101% AND THEIR PARTNER WILL NOT SHARE IN THE RESPONSIBILITY so if they have to have sex they should also bear in mind that there are chances for conception to take place whether they used condoms or not except they're on pills.hence your sexual responsibility is solely in your hand to avoid abortion as much as you can.therefore any man that says if you abort I will marry you,I can assure you that there's no guarantee he will fulfill his promise and if you're lucky he fulfills his promise and complications of child birth or conception arises I.e you're having problems giving birth,I can assure you that him and his family will not hesitate to call you a male dog before pushing you out and if you remind them that he said you should abort the next thing you will hear is WERE YOU FORCED?

so the summary is make sure you know the motives of your partner whether before or after marriage.NOBODY WILL BEAR THE BRUNT OF YOUR REPRODUCTIVE LIFE,DONT LET ANY MAN DESTROY YOUR LIFE WITH HIS OWN SELFISHNESS AND LIES and you too use your senses

Also note that if you abort because he said he's not ready and you too you aborted the society will blame you for it,the church and mosque will judge you for it,even the person that asked you to abort will mock you behind your back ,if he remarries his wife and family will use you as a gossip and mockery topic so be wise.why do you think men hate their baby mamas after they remarry yet they don't hate their child that they said should be aborted? Have you asked yourself that before?

dangotesmummy:
The bottom line is that women are responsible for their sexuality so it's better for women to KNOW WHO EVER THEY ARE OPENING THEIR THIGHS FOR 101% BECAUSE EVERY CONSEQUENCES OR INCONSEQUENCES OF SEX WILL FALL ON THEM 101% AND THEIR PARTNER WILL NOT SHARE IN THE RESPONSIBILITY so if they have to have sex they should also bear in mind that there are chances for conception to take place whether they used condoms or not except they're on pills.hence your sexual responsibility is solely in your hand to avoid abortion as much as you can.therefore any man that says if you abort I will marry you,I can assure you that there's no guarantee he will fulfill his promise and if you're lucky he fulfills his promise and complications of child birth or conception arises I.e you're having problems giving birth,I can assure you that him and his family will not hesitate to call you a male dog before pushing you out and if you remind them that he said you should abort the next thing you will hear is WERE YOU FORCED?

so the summary is make sure you know the motives of your partner whether before or after marriage.NOBODY WILL BEAR THE BRUNT OF YOUR REPRODUCTIVE LIFE,DONT LET ANY MAN DESTROY YOUR LIFE WITH HIS OWN SELFISHNESS AND LIES and you too use your senses

In other words, do not sleep with men who have no honor.

Mindfulness:


In other words, do not sleep with men who have no honor.

have you ever wondered the reason why men hate or don't want to see their baby mamas around them 500000 miles from them yet they love the child that they wanted to be aborted?

Any woman that falls into a mans deceptive trap is strictly on her own.

How come when the chips are down they want the child but they don't want the mother they lied to? yet still want to be married to another person? Who doesn't want to eat his cake and have it?

Men's reasoning doesn't work like women's own.men can have sex and enjoy it with a woman they do not love or do not even have any intentions of marrying yet NORMAL WOMEN excluding prostitutes cannot sleep with men they don't love

How come davido doesn't love his baby mamas yet loves the children that came out of her v@gin@.do you think davido himself wouldn't have suggested abortion to them and they vehemently refused.why do you think guys see baby mamas as a parasite ,a pain in the neck and an embarrassment? Because it reminds them of their lies every time they see the baby mama

Abortion is a very convenient and easy way for a man to get away with his lies and responsibilities unfortunately the woman is the major victim and he will not care even if you die from the complications

dangotesmummy:
have you ever wondered the reason why men hate or don't want to see their baby mamas around them 500000 miles from them yet they love the child that they wanted to be aborted?

Any woman that falls into a mans deceptive trap is strictly on her own.

How come when the chips are down they want the child but they don't want the mother they lied to? yet still want to be married to another person? Who doesn't want to eat his cake and have it?

Men's reasoning doesn't work like women's own.men can have sex and enjoy it with a woman they do not love or do not even have any intentions of marrying yet NORMAL WOMEN excluding prostitutes cannot sleep with men they don't love

How come davido doesn't love his baby mamas yet loves the children that came out of her v@gin@.do you think davido himself wouldn't have suggested abortion to them and they vehemently refused.why do you think guys see baby mamas as a parasite ,a pain in the neck and an embarrassment? Because it reminds them of their lies every time they see the baby mama

Abortion is a very convenient and easy way for a man to get away with his lies and responsibilities unfortunately the woman is the major victim and he will not care even if you die from the complications

What is your point?

A man must love a woman because she has a child for him?

Mindfulness:


What is your point?

A man must love a woman because she has a child for him?

learn to comprehend.my point is there,crystal clear.read to understand ,don't read to respond.

I will have told you the point but I want you to fish it out yourself. Telling you means I'm encouraging mental laziness and I won't do that

dangotesmummy:
learn to comprehend.my point is there,crystal clear.read to understand ,don't read to respond.

I will have told you the point but I want you to fish it out yourself. Telling you means I'm encouraging mental laziness and I won't do that

dangotesmummy:
have you ever wondered the reason why men hate or don't want to see their baby mamas around them 500000 miles from them yet they love the child that they wanted to be aborted?

No, I haven't. It is perfectly understandable that a man will resent a woman who he thinks tried to trap him with a pregnancy. And it is perfectly understandable that he will not reject his own child even though many men do even reject the child.

Any woman that falls into a mans deceptive trap is strictly on her own.

Any man who falls into a woman's trap is on his own too.

How come when the chips are down they want the child but they don't want the mother they lied to? yet still want to be married to another person? Who doesn't want to eat his cake and have it?

The love for a child is separate from the love for the mother / father.

Men's reasoning doesn't work like women's own.men can have sex and enjoy it with a woman they do not love or do not even have any intentions of marrying yet NORMAL WOMEN excluding prostitutes cannot sleep with men they don't love

Not true. Many women have friends with benefits relationships.

How come davido doesn't love his baby mamas yet loves the children that came out of her v@gin@.do you think davido himself wouldn't have suggested abortion to them and they vehemently refused.why do you think guys see baby mamas as a parasite ,a pain in the neck and an embarrassment? Because it reminds them of their lies every time they see the baby mama

Because that's what most of them are. the child is innocent.

Abortion is a very convenient and easy way for a man to get away with his lies and responsibilities unfortunately the woman is the major victim and he will not care even if you die from the complications

The woman is not a victim unless she was forced to have s.ex with the man. Close your legs or use contraceptives. Simples!

Mindfulness:




No, I haven't. It is perfectly understandable that a man will resent a woman who he thinks tried to trap him with a pregnancy. And it is perfectly understandable that he will not reject his own child even though many men do even reject the child.



Any man who falls into a woman's trap is on his own too.



The love for a child is separate from the love for the mother / father.



Not true. Many women have friends with benefits relationships.



Because that's what most of them are. the child is innocent.



The woman is not a victim unless she was forced to have s.ex with the man. Close your legs or use contraceptives. Simples!

lmao did you say trap?

Is it news that sex leads to pregnancy? Is that news? If you eat and you go to toilet to eject what you ate is that news?

So when the result of what you both did comes out why suggest abortion when you know THE WOMAN WILL BE ON THE RECEIVING END and of course with the usual line SHE WASN'T FORCED.
Secondly if you know she will be an embarrassment to you later or a parasite why sleep with her when you know conception might take place
Then you suddenly love the child that you wanted aborted. Which kain fake love is that? If the mother told the child that you see this man looking at you,he gave me 20k to abort you some something years ago.you think that child will believe any love you're showing?

If you're the one nko? If you knew that a man wanted you to be aborted and tomorrow he's buying you gifts to win your love because you're his child, will you buy it?

How come a person loves the food when its ready but hates the pot the food was used to Cook?lmao

dangotesmummy:
lmao did you say trap?

Is it news that sex leads to pregnancy? Is that news? If you eat and you go to toilet to eject what you ate is that news?

Correction. Unprotected s.ex leads to pregnancy.

So when the result of what you both did comes out why suggest abortion when you know THE WOMAN WILL BE ON THE RECEIVING END and of course with the usual line SHE WASN'T FORCED.
Secondly if you know she will be an embarrassment to you later or a parasite why sleep with her when you know conception might take place
Then you suddenly love the child that you wanted aborted. Which kain fake love is that? If the mother told the child that you see this man looking at you,he gave me 20k to abort you some something years ago.you think that child will believe any love you're showing?

He can suggest whatever he wants. The decision is for the woman to make. But if she decided not to protect herself while having pre-material se.x, she (as you said) will be the one to carry the pregnancy and the man can marry or not marry her but she has herself to blame for the consequences that will follow.

If you're the one nko? If you knew that a man wanted you to be aborted and tomorrow he's buying you gifts to win your love because you're his child, will you buy it?

Of course, I would. Why not? He did not want a child but now that I am here, he takes responsibility. That's the right thing to do.

How come a person loves the food when its ready but hates the pot the food was used to Cook?lmao

So because some people hate cooking, they shouldn't eat?

Mindfulness:


Correction. Unprotected s.ex leads to pregnancy.



He can suggest whatever he wants. The decision is for the woman to make. But if she decided not to protect herself while having pre-material se.x, she (as you said) will be the one to carry the pregnancy and the man can marry or not marry her but she has herself to blame for the consequences that will follow.




Of course, I would. Why not? He did not want a child but now that I am here, he takes responsibility. That's the right thing to do.



So because some people hate cooking, they shouldn't eat?

you haven't answered the question yet.maybe I should rephrase it in another way.
IF YOU KNOW YOU WILL NOT LIKE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH HER OR YOU WILL FEEL EMARASSED OR NOT WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW THAT THIS IS THE WOMAN YOU SLEPT WITH BUT NOW SHE HAS A CHILD WITH YOU, WHY SLEEP WITH HER?

THERE'S AN ADDAGE IN MY VILLAGE THAT SAYS THE THING THAT YOU WILL DO AND BITE YOUR FINGER IN REGRET TOMORROW OR THE THING THAT YOU WILL DO AND IT WILL BECOME A LIFETIME BURDEN OR EMBARRASSMENT FOR YOU, WHY DO IT

I'm not against you having premarital sex,na you own your phenese,you can slot it to any available v@gin@ you see but my point is SLEEP WITH ONLY THE WOMAN YOU WILL NOT BE ASHAMED TO BE IDENTIFIED WITH THAT THAT IS THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD OR THE WOMAN THAT YOU CAN MARRY.if you know you have no intentions of marrying her THEN DONT SLEEP WITH HER TO AVOID ANYBODY USING HER CHILD TO BECOME A PARASITE OR EMBARRASSMENT FOR YOU. do you get it? DONT USE DECEPTION TO SLEEP WITH any WOMAN. becausethey say the food you won't eat,don't smell it.THE THING YOU WILL DO AND STAND BY IT SAY YRS NA ME DO AM is what you should do,not the one that will be bringing everyday burden and embarrassment for you that people self will begin to wonder as you reach,see the kain person wey dey get belle for you

dangotesmummy:
you haven't answered the question yet.maybe I should rephrase it in another way.
IF YOU KNOW YOU WILL NOT LIKE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH HER OR YOU WILL FEEL EMARASSED OR NOT WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW THAT THIS IS THE WOMAN YOU SLEPT WITH BUT NOW SHE HAS A CHILD WITH YOU, WHY SLEEP WITH HER?

THERE'S AN ADDAGE IN MY VILLAGE THAT SAYS THE THING THAT YOU WILL DO AND BITE YOUR FINGER IN REGRET TOMORROW OR THE THING THAT YOU WILL DO AND IT WILL BECOME A LIFETIME BURDEN OR EMBARRASSMENT FOR YOU, WHY DO IT

I'm not against you having premarital sex,na you own your phenese,you can slot it to any available v@gin@ you see but my point is SLEEP WITH ONLY THE WOMAN YOU WILL NOT BE ASHAMED TO BE IDENTIFIED WITH THAT THAT IS THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD OR THE WOMAN THAT YOU CAN MARRY.if you know you have no intentions of marrying her THEN DONT SLEEP WITH HER TO AVOID ANYBODY USING HER CHILD TO BECOME A PARASITE OR EMBARRASSMENT FOR YOU. do you get it.they say the food you won't eat,don't smell it.THE THING YOU WILL DO AND STAND BY IT SAY YRS NA ME DO AM is what you should do,not the one that will be bringing everyday burden and embarrassment for you that people self will begin to wonder as you reach,see the kain person wey dey get belle for you

I don't know what you are talking about. I am female. And as a female, I can tell you this much, you have no control over men and who they sleep with. All you can control is yourself so instead of playing the victim card, make sure you do not get pregnant before you and the potential father both want it or else deal with the consequences, which may be quite unpleasant.

And I will add that a woman who does not want to be pregnant will not get pregnant. It is really easy to avoid unwanted pregnancies. We live in the 21st century.

Mindfulness:


I don't know what you are talking about. I am female. And as a female, I can tell you this much, you have no control over men and who they sleep with. All you can control is yourself so instead of playing the victim card, make sure you do not get pregnant before you and the potential father both want it or else deal with the consequences, which may be quite unpleasant.

And I will add that a woman who does not want to be pregnant will not get pregnant. It is really easy to avoid unwanted pregnancies. We live in the 21st century.

so if you don't know what I'm talking about why quote me?

Secondly I didn't say anybody has control of whoever a man sleeps with, I said a man can sleep with anyone he wants to sleep with but he should make sure it's not with DECEPTION and it's someone HE CAN MARRY.

Stop quoting me if you don't understand my point by misconstruing my point and abusing the word "victim", please. Thank you

dangotesmummy:
so if you don't know what I'm talking about why quote me?

Secondly I didn't say anybody has control of whoever a man sleeps with, I said a man can sleep with anyone he wants to sleep with but he should make sure it's not with DECEPTION and it's someone HE CAN MARRY.

Stop quoting me if you don't understand my point by misconstruing my point and abusing the word "victim", please. Thank you

The day men will only sleep with women they can marry is the day Jesus returns. Keep waiting.

Mindfulness:


The day men will only sleep with women they can marry is the day Jesus returns. Keep waiting.

the day you will be wise is the day Jesus returns,keep getting more foolish

dangotesmummy:
the day you will be wise is the day Jesus returns,keep getting more foolish

It is foolish to believe that a man will love you because you have a child for him and it is foolish not to know how to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Enough said.

Mindfulness:


It is foolish to believe that a man will love you because you have a child for him and it is foolish not to know how to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Enough said.

it's also foolishness not to have the capacity to comprehend,understand before responding
Responding before thinking and understanding is the definition of foolishness