I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

Keep holding out and exploring every avenue that can get you your own accommodation as soon as possible. Nobody likes rejection, She could also end up framing you or claiming you slept with her even if you didn't.

Some will tell you to just give in and start sleeping with her, you can do that too but soon enough, Karma for those escapades will catch up with you. Good luck.

Next2Bezee:


Keep holding out and exploring every avenue that can get you your own accommodation as soon as possible. Nobody likes rejection, She could also end up framing you or claiming you slept with her even if you didn't.

Some will tell you to just give in and start sleeping with her, you can do that too but soon enough, Karma for those escapades will catch up with you. Good luck.

ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

Many things that happen these days catch a lot of people off guard, don't ever tell yourself "It can't happen to me". Just be cautious.

rat and cat no dey attend the same school..even if na free education..she a woman with feelings,, it's you that needs to change location bro.beta to squat with a fellow guy than stay with a woman who is not a blood relation

SPACE BOOKED

Everybody want make him story reach front page... Bros, the part 2 of this your yeye story go reach front page, you hear?

My advice,

Flee ooo,
She seems bent on having the "hankie pankie" with u. Biko run B4 she frames u like how potiphar's wife framed Joseph.

Is there no family or close friends u can stay with??.

God is very strength.

Be careful o

Next2Bezee:


Many things that happens these days catch a lot of people off guard, don't ever tell yourself "It can't happen to me". Just be cautious.

thanks bro i understand. anyone u don dey for my shoes and was able to pull thru shld let me know how he did it

Cool story bruv...

GOD wil see u tru sir

Be careful..that woman is satan's second in command!

I have noticed that all of you come online to act all good.if truly humans are like what I'm seeing online the world would have been a better place.anyway what I can deduce from your write up is.
You are looking for a job and since you know nigeria is a religious nation with preachin of heaven and he'll you want people here to give you a job so that lack of job won't lead you to sin.

2 you have high morals so anyone that employs you in his or her organization is save.

3 you are a good man with a good heart who considers people felling.
In summary you are stylisgly marketing yourself.but I will leave you with these quote.
You can deceive some of the people sometime but you can't deceive all the people all the time.

desquad:
fake story

please and please and please... I'm always in politics section and got no time for romance section. Check when I join this forum and also check all my posts to see if i dey comment for romance topics

k

technicallyrich:
I have noticed that all of you come online to act all good.if truly humans are like what I'm seeing online the world would have been a better place.anyway what I can deduce from your write up is.
You are looking for a job and since you know nigeria is a religious nation with preachin of heaven and he'll you want people here to give you a job so that lack of job won't lead you to sin.

2 you have high morals so anyone that employs you in his or her organization is save.

3 you are a good man with a good heart who considers people felling.
In summary you are stylisgly marketing yourself.but I will leave you with these quote.
You can deceive some of the people sometime but you can't deceive all the people all the time.

if what i'm saying is the truth or not weti concern u

if this story is true.... then just be a man and move out.... don't tell me you don't have male friends.
also, let's stop playing the victim tag, it is lame. take hold of your life and make the most of it.... flee all APPEARANCE of evil....

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon.I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

You think this your lie can get you accommodation here? Bros, try elsewhere

Elmojiid:
GOD wil see u tru sir

Amen. God bless bro

Bro, if u finish writing this story, people will think u pirated yemi my lover's film....think of another storyline..

id911:


if what i'm saying is the truth may u be judged, that's what i can say to u

see this one, na swear be this one?

daben1:
You think this your lie can get you accommodation here? Bros, try elsewhere

I'm only narrating what I'm experiencing never said you should accommodate me bro. Pray u don't have an encounter in this life where ur so confused and need advice but someone comes up to say ur lieing

smardray:
Bro, if u finish writing this story, people will think u pirated yemi my lover's film....think of another storyline..

hahahahahahah.... Leave that guy joor

daben1:
see this one, na swear be this one?

id911:


I'm only narrating what I'm experiencing never said you should accommodate me bro. Pray u don't have an encounter in this life where ur so confused and need advice but someone comes up to say ur lieing

oga! You're not experiencing anything, stop deceiving yourself

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

move out of the house. I no fit blow grammar for this simple problem

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

Don't you have family members like sisters, brothers, cousins and etc??

daben1:
see this one, na swear be this one?

I never wanted to write all these things but I only need people u may have had similar experience to tell me how they got themselves out without compromising. But u said is a fake story and someone else said is a lie and all that. That's quite unfair because you don't really know for sure what is going on around me

smardray:
Bro, if u finish writing this story, people will think u pirated yemi my lover's film....think of another storyline..

I don't think it's an offense for one to ask for advice on what has been happening to him. Sometimes Some people may have almost similar experiences in life. I never wanted to say this out because some people like lies but abhor the truth. The reason I kept it to myself for some time now is because of comment like this and and how i can make people believe me but it so unfortunate this still came up

id911:


I never wanted to write all these things but I only need people u may have had similar experience to tell me how they got themselves out without compromising. But u said is a fake story and someone else said is a lie and all that. That's quite unfair because you don't really know for sure what is going on around me

ahn ahn, bros, you wan cry?

Oyindidi:
move out of the house. I no fit blow grammar for this simple problem

Thank you ma. Working on that