id911:


hahahaha...occupation kini? Bros u bad o

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

daben1:
oga! You're not experiencing anything, stop deceiving yourself

id911:


I don't think it's an offense for one to ask for advice on what has been happening to him. Sometimes Some people may have almost similar experiences in life. I never wanted to say this out because some people like lies but abhor the truth. The reason I kept it to myself for some time now is because of comment like this and and how i can make people believe me but it so unfortunate this still came up

greggng:
For ur peace of mind give her what she is looking for. Give her condition that u can only do it when she must ve deposited an amount that will enable u secure two bedroom. Tell her once you ve done it u will prefer u continue in an environment different from the husbands place. Be romantic with ur voice while telling her this so that she won't suspect u ve a motive. Once the fund hits ur acct pick race. . However if she insist u do it before giving u money tell her is cash and carry

Dadsonval:

continu

id911:


Everyone was not brought up to be morally bankrupt like you to the extent of having sex with a legally married woman. This is the second time I've experienced such thing. The first one was very easy for me to deal with because I was managing in a school so when the same issue came up I left. This one is someone everyone in my family knows and we have had excellent relationship over many years.

I just don't want to hurt her feelings, cause a problem with our family relationships and also don't want to compromise in that aspect. It's not compulsory for you to believe or comment if you can't give meaningful advice

Ekuru:
From the counsel I've been reading here right from page 1, it's not doubt majority of nairaland users are not above 25 years.

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

desquad:
fake story

IgweBUIKE1:
rat and cat no dey attend the same school..even if na free education..she a woman with feelings,, it's you that needs to change location bro.beta to squat with a fellow guy than stay with a woman who is not a blood relation

greggng:
For ur peace of mind give her what she is looking for. Give her condition that u can only do it when she must ve deposited an amount that will enable u secure two bedroom. Tell her once you ve done it u will prefer u continue in an environment different from the husbands place. Be romantic with ur voice while telling her this so that she won't suspect u ve a motive. Once the fund hits ur acct pick race. . However if she insist u do it before giving u money tell her is cash and carry

id911:


I never wanted to write all these things but I only need people u may have had similar experience to tell me how they got themselves out without compromising. But u said is a fake story and someone else said is a lie and all that. That's quite unfair because you don't really know for sure what is going on around me

desquad:
fake story

Laird:



I don't agree with getting Intimate or Ble**ping a Married woman Ooooo

jgbemson1:
bro,,,next move ..its beta u don't do it ,since it not coming from ur mind ...

I have a neighbor like that ,each she will tell me to come her see her in her room ..on getting she will pull down her bra..


I will just look and smiles...and work out ...


so stay put and look for a male to stay with ..where in lagos do u stay ?

cos I have b of help for the accommodation bro

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

id911:


I don't think it's an offense for one to ask for advice on what has been happening to him. Sometimes Some people may have almost similar experiences in life. I never wanted to say this out because some people like lies but abhor the truth. The reason I kept it to myself for some time now is because of comment like this and and how i can make people believe me but it so unfortunate this still came up

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew