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Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by miqos02(m): 7:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911:you really have time to respond to all comments? 1 Like |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by megama: 7:10pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911:I have lots of advice. But on the clause "somebody who is like an aunt ". Am more confused. Please be bold to tell the house what you want and what you are up to QED |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by crunchyg: 7:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by fof1: 7:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
technicallyrich: U ARE TALKING AND TYPING NONSENSE. SOMEBODY IS IN DEAR NEED OF PSYCHOLOGICAL SUPPORT,/ADVISE, U ARE HERE SHOWING UR STUPIDITY. WHAT AN ERRANT NONSENSE IS THIS. SHAME MY FRIEND. PLS MY DEAR, SEEK GOD'S FACE IN PRAYERS AT MIDNIGHTS FOR D SOLUTIONS U NEED IMMEDIATELY. U MUST SEEK TO BE FREE FROM THIS SOLE TEMPTATION. PLS. 1 Like |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Oyindidi(f): 7:16pm On May 25, 2017 |
crunchyg:I'm not an f |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by bigfrancis21: 7:17pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911: I must really commend you on not giving into something that is clearly not right. Sleeping with somebody who is married to someone else is just thoughtless. I mean put yourself in the woman's husband shoes and the destructive feelings he would have when he finds out he was being cheated on. Sex is so cheap nowadays that you see people crossing certain lines/boundaries that were un-thought of before. Just because others do it doesn't make it ok to join the bandwagon and do it also. Karma is natural judge, it repays everyone in their own coin. You have a good conscience and keep diplomatically avoiding the married lady until you get her off your radar completely. At the end of the day, your conscience will be glad that you did. |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Eberex(m): 7:18pm On May 25, 2017 |
Sigh! This is about to happen at my end. One of my ex who is married confided in me that she married as a virgin (true because she was wen we dated). Bad thing is the husband is a one minute man with a small dick. They both practiced no sex before marriage but shit was the wrong move. They have a child. She has been surviving all these while and I don't know why suddenly she wants to experience real sex. Chatted me up and said she is telling me because we share a past. Its really crazy out there. Would tell her we meet at an eatery if she really need to talk to me. Bro, you know wat to do. 2 Likes |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 7:20pm On May 25, 2017 |
technicallyrich: Could this be how you technically got wealthy? Judging by your moniker? |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 7:22pm On May 25, 2017 |
it can happen. id911: |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by AirFireEarthH20: 7:26pm On May 25, 2017 |
[quote author=id911 post=56860100]I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters. I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend. She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school. She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means. I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o . Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by crunchyg: 7:28pm On May 25, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Then what are you? |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Oyindidi(f): 7:29pm On May 25, 2017 |
crunchyg:A f ( female) |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Fabrepass77: 7:32pm On May 25, 2017 |
Brillantman: hey bro. I sent you PM |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 25, 2017 |
It wasn't a nice move going in the first place, the hubby trusts you, you have to leave soon,even if na under bridge u go dey. Very soon you will likely yield. |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by technicallyrich(m): 7:35pm On May 25, 2017 |
Bobugee: Richness is more than money.i can be rich in other ways in life.but generally I am doing fine. ![]() |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Blessedasurance: 7:38pm On May 25, 2017 |
Please Mr man kindly move out of that house very very fast, never do what she is asking from you God will not forgive you |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by fof1: 7:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
sammydirectly: VERY BAD ADVICE,IMMORAL SATANIC AND VERY DEVILISH INDEED. U BETTER CHANGE UR LIFESTYLE OR HELL FIRE GO FIRE U WELL. |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Gerrard59(m): 7:43pm On May 25, 2017 |
Billyonaire: I had to comment. This is just so thoughtful. Billyonaire!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Chrixtopha(m): 7:49pm On May 25, 2017 |
my humble advice, this is Lagos and once u don't have a very close relative to accommodate you its very tough....you mentioned of her husband being an agent, my broda, if she feels unsecured,she may accuse of rape and tell d husband the truth that u are not her relative, that she was only trying to help u out and believe u me, u are gone, give in to the temptation and pray for a better job so that you can leave the house because I can't advice you to move out of d house if u have no oda place to go...on d street is d worst... |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by emmaitive(m): 7:51pm On May 25, 2017 |
bro pls take a clue from joseph in d bible shikina |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by fof1: 8:02pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911: PLS IF SHE STILL INSIST, THERE IS D TENDENCY D WOMAN IS NOT CLEAN. THIS MEANS THAT,SHE HAD BEEN PLAYING MATCHES OUTSIDE SINCE EVEN BEFORE UR ARRIVAL BUT WANT IT MORE FREQUENT AND SOLID AT HOME. PLS BE VERY CAREFUL TO AVOID HER CONTINUALLY. WHATS UR HIV STATUS OR HER OWN. BE CAREFUL TO BE FREE. ONE THING LEAFS TP ANOTHER.SO FLEE YOUTHFUL LUST AND STAY AEAY FROM THIS CONFUSION. U ARE DOOMED IF U PERSIST.THERE IS NOTHING HIDDEN OR SECRET THAT WILL NOT BE REVEALED. |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Langbasa: 8:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
daben1:So u are there to know he's lying ![]() |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by teevodaprinz(m): 8:16pm On May 25, 2017 |
Please do not give in... Karma doesn't miss its target... And don't think she can't frame things up. She could even go as far as "rape" So be careful, don't stay indoor often... Get yourself busy with something out there. id911: |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Alabaintprice(m): 8:19pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911:RUN |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by id911(m): 8:21pm On May 25, 2017 |
megama: i didn't say she's an aunt but rather she's like an aunt, that's the way we take her to be in our family. We are not related at all, only that her mom was my late mom's closest friend. *Mods thanks for unbanning me from the antispam bot stuff* |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Vicolan: 8:28pm On May 25, 2017 |
id911: Bro u better run for ur life...Must u see anyone in ur shoe b4 u kwn dt what is bad is bad? Na real wa 4 u oooo |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by crunchyg: 8:30pm On May 25, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Why are you answering two names Onyinye and ndidi?? |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by pweetiedee(m): 8:33pm On May 25, 2017 |
Remember the story of Joseph. Your own fit no get happy ending |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Vicolan: 8:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01: I tire 4 d guy ooo....Looking for those in his shoe to tell him how they sorted it out when they encountered similar problem.... The guy no fit think self!!! |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Oyindidi(f): 8:35pm On May 25, 2017 |
crunchyg:Christ in me! ![]() |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by andyanders: 8:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
Op, people should stop doubting you over this type of temptation. A friend of mine had similar situation some time 2004. He relocated from PH to Lagos, to stay with a very good friend of his, who had a wife he was legally married to. They were too close as they went to same high school and college and have built a strong relationship for a long time. As the wife saw this friend of her husband, she started asking him to sleep with her whenever the husband is not around. He narrated to me what his friend's wife wanted him to do of which he never wanted to be part of that mess. A day came when he said he was taking his bath, the lady opened the bathroom door while he was just naked and she came in naked too and told him straight that he must sleep with her. He was shocked as he had to pull his towel and left the toilet for her. He dressed up and left the house. Later when he came back and his friend was home, he noticed this his friend started keeping malice with him and they started locking the fridge and other things in the house in order to frustrate him out. One early morning, he came to me to tell me what happened. I was shocked and told him straight that I was proud of him for not sleeping with the woman. I had to take him straight to the bank to give him money to go get a a two bedroom flat. That was how he ran away from the Jezebel. Op, just note that this lady can frame you up or kill you in order to get back to you for refusing her request. The best thing for you to do should be to get out of the house b4 it will turn to be something else. 1 Like |
Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by honourablelumis: 8:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
Alaye, go ahead nd Bleep d hell out of d bitch |
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