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Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Crownadex(m): 7:17pm On May 25, 2017
please house I need a seriously advise

I met my girlfriend 3 year's ago , and I really loves everything about her since then till now because she always abide my decisions and very cool person like the type of future's partner I'm praying for .

When I introduced her to my mum last year . She was so excited and prayed for the two of us , but she called me after a week later and told me that I can't marry that girl at all and when I asked her the reason why , she said she was told by her pastor and I must follow what she said without any question again because I'm just alone from her , but I disagree with her and continue my life with that bae thinking that I may get chance to convince my mum but not

The problem now is I'm in love with this bae seriously but my mum insisted that if I must marry that girl , is either for me to forget her as a mother OR after her death


I'm planning to marry next year but I don't really know what to do now

pls serious advice
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 25, 2017
hmmmmm
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by viceldo(m): 7:24pm On May 25, 2017
oga their is nothing in life more than mum's blessing..... so put your family first blood is thicker than water
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Larryfest(m): 7:28pm On May 25, 2017
I think you should sit your mum down and ask her the reason she is opposing the relationship maybe then you too can see clearly with your eyes cos i don't think your mum would want you to take the wrong steps.... An adage says "what the elders see while sittingthe young wouldn't see it even if he climbs on top of a coconut tree..
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by dingbang(m): 7:29pm On May 25, 2017
even God gives us reasons for his actions.. so tell your mum you will agree to not marrying her unless she gives you her reasons..
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 7:32pm On May 25, 2017
Have a talk with your mum. Tell her you've heard what she said her pastor told her about your girlfriend but promise her you'll do what she said if she agrees to go with you to another pastor of your choice you think is genuine. If the two pastors give same vision then you won't marry the girl. Her pastor may be right or wrong and if two people give same vision then something is wrong.

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Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by ammyluv2002(f): 7:34pm On May 25, 2017
viceldo:
oga their is nothing in life more than mum's blessing..... so put your family first blood is thicker than water
What? Seriously? Even without any solid reasons? Why would she tell him not to marry the babe and that he shouldn't ask any questions? Who does that? So because the pastor says so, that makes it okay? C'mon! We've gone pass this stage now!

Op, biko ask your mum to tell you the reason(s) behind this. You are a full grown man and she should be able to give you good reasons not to marry her.

I'm not saying she's wrong or something, but at least you have the right to know why you shouldn't marry a lady that you ve given 3 good years of your life.
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Jman06(m): 7:42pm On May 25, 2017
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Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by smardray(m): 8:00pm On May 25, 2017
Juz leave d gel... lipsrsealed
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:05pm On May 25, 2017
Larryfest:
I think you should sit your mum down and ask her the reason she is opposing the relationship maybe then you too can see clearly with your eyes cos i don't think your mum would want you to take the wrong steps.... An adage says "what the elders see while sittingthe young wouldn't see it even if he climbs on top of a coconut tree..

To slap u dey hungry me
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:14pm On May 25, 2017
I remember when my brother wanted to marry, the only thing my moma asked him was if he was sure about things, not going to one businessman called pastor for some stupid vision, some parents are just too selfish that they always want things their own way and not considerate of what their children want
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:17pm On May 25, 2017
Guys without beards.... Please where do U scratch when u re thinking about Life ?
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:21pm On May 25, 2017
sekxy:
Guys without beards....
Please where do U scratch when u re thinking about Life ?

my eyebrows grin

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Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:26pm On May 25, 2017
AggressiveFucker:

my eyebrows grin
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Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 25, 2017
Tajbol4splend:


To slap u dey hungry me
baba see am

Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:41pm On May 25, 2017
smithsydny:
baba see am

You go last reach 200yrs of lifetime
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:42pm On May 25, 2017
Tajbol4splend:


You go last reach 200yrs of lifetime
in active service sir
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:44pm On May 25, 2017
sekxy:
Guys without beards....
Please where do U scratch when u re thinking about Life ?


The part where you can somehow touch ur premolar and molar teeth
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:46pm On May 25, 2017
smithsydny:
in active service sir


Oya go and take that origin on my table take am do good night
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 25, 2017
Tajbol4splend:


The part where you can somehow touch ur premolar and molar teeth
funny
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 25, 2017
Tajbol4splend:



Oya go and take that origin on my table take am do good night

Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Headlesschicken(m): 8:51pm On May 25, 2017
undecided Have u contacted yuh own God to know what he has to say,some visions can be very ridiculous buh @d end wld end up coming true, maybe she don't wanna tel u cos of yuh attitude towards such advices...Thread carefully bro....
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by tosyne2much(m): 8:52pm On May 25, 2017
Tajbol4splend:
I remember when my brother wanted to marry, the only thing my moma asked him was if he was sure about things, not going to one businessman called pastor for some stupid vision, some parents are just too selfish that they always want things their own way and not considerate of what their children want
You're just too on point bro.. Many parents have led their children astray in their quest in deciding whom they should or not.

I'm a man that makes decision on how to live my life.. The highest my parents can do is to offer me their advice and perhaps, counsel me based on their experience. Anything other than that means they're threading beyond their jurisdiction as parents.

I just wonder why some people are in their thirties yet they still give their parents the chance to use their autonomous power to reverse any decision they make
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Nobody: 8:56pm On May 25, 2017
guy if u really love d girl u should go ahead.dont listen to any pastor.
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by viceldo(m): 8:58pm On May 25, 2017
ammyluv2002:
What? Seriously? Even without any solid reasons? Why would she tell him not to marry the babe and that he shouldn't ask any questions? Who does that? So because the pastor says so, that makes it okay? C'mon! We've gone pass this stage now!

Op, biko ask your mum to tell you the reason(s) behind this. You are a full grown man and she should be able to give you good reasons not to marry her.

I'm not saying she's wrong or something, but at least you have the right to know why you shouldn't marry a lady that you ve given 3 good years of your life.



do you know you can still have a say on this without quoting me ?
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by ikp120(m): 9:00pm On May 25, 2017
This one dey listen to spirikoko people? By the time they ruin your life eh, suicide go be a better option because you'll live to regret it.

Once a pastor is involved, count me out! Man up bro and take charge of your life.

Some people are even screaming parental blessing up and down. Abeg leave trash for Lawma. sad sad sad

Look your mum in the eye and talk sense into her bro. Tell her that you're going ahead with the wedding whether she gives a fvck or not.
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:01pm On May 25, 2017
sekxy:

funny

lol
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:04pm On May 25, 2017
tosyne2much:
You're just to on point bro.. Many parents may have lead their children astray in their quest in deciding whom they should or not.

I'm a man that makes decision on how to live my life.. The highest my parents can do is to offer me their advice and perhaps, counsel. Anything other than that means they're threading beyond their jurisdiction as parents.

I just wonder why some people are in their thirties yet they still give their parents the chance to use their autonomous power to reverse any decision they make

I think those kind of people don't know what they want and not sure about it so it is easy for them to be bullied by their parents
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Oyindidi(f): 9:08pm On May 25, 2017
Crownadex:
please house I need a seriously advise

I met my girlfriend 3 year's ago , and I really loves everything about her since then till now because she always abide my decisions and very cool person like the type of future's partner I'm praying for .

When I introduced her to my mum last year . She was so excited and prayed for the two of us , but she called me after a week later and told me that I can't marry that girl at all and when I asked her the reason why , she said she was told by her pastor and I must follow what she said without any question again because I'm just alone from her , but I disagree with her and continue my life with that bae thinking that I may get chance to convince my mum but not

The problem now is I'm in love with this bae seriously but my mum insisted that if I must marry that girl , is either for me to forget her as a mother OR after her death


I'm planning to marry next year but I don't really know what to do now

pls serious advice
Why always una mama Pastor? Make una change format abeg...


Fake sorry. Next!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:10pm On May 25, 2017
[quote author=smithsydny post=56876503][/quote]

Abeg make am two, one yansh wan come greet me
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:10pm On May 25, 2017
What is there to be worried about?.... If you think that you are adult enough to marry your babe, then you also should be man enough to take this decision. You either A) dump your girl and continue being a mama's good boy or B) you tell your mother that her pastor and her can accept your marriage or shove it.
End of story!
Re: Nairalanders Please Your Advices Is Needed by ammyluv2002(f): 9:15pm On May 25, 2017
viceldo:


do you know you can still have a say on this without quoting me ?
Sorry, my bad! #Pele

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