Fourwinds:
d girl is very foolish and stupid....there were indication pointing to d fact dat what she is about to emback on was unpleasant....1...d juju swearing.
2,, d amount to be paid back...

glowryhaa:
she was only desperate

HungerBAD:
I believe her story.

It is only those that have not encountered these girls especially in Italy,France and Spain that will doubt her story.

They work(prostitute) for years to pay off their debts,because of the fear of the juju oath they took.

Sometimes i want to blame these girls. As they are aware of what they are going to do in Europe,especially those living in Edo State since it is an open secret there anyway.

Their parents are also very culpable in this. They usually goad their daughters into this modern day slavery,so they too can boast of having a child in Italy.

In Benin City,every household has somebody in Europe and they see nothing bad in it. The Oba of Benin, and every Governmental agencies have tried to stop them,but they still venture into this modern day slavery.

HungerBAD:
I believe her story.

It is only those that have not encountered these girls especially in Italy,France and Spain that will doubt her story.

They work(prostitute) for years to pay off their debts,because of the fear of the juju oath they took.

Sometimes i want to blame these girls. As they are aware of what they are going to do in Europe,especially those living in Edo State since it is an open secret there anyway.

Their parents are also very culpable in this. They usually goad their daughters into this modern day slavery,so they too can boast of having a child in Italy.

In Benin City,every household has somebody in Europe and they see nothing bad in it. The Oba of Benin, and every Governmental agencies have tried to stop them,but they still venture into this modern day slavery.

ChinonsoDike2:
When you citizens have to resort to human trafficking to survive, but you have the 21st highest GDP.

Blacks are subhuman. They can't run countries.
Nigeria is a perfect example of this.

izzou:


The more I try to feel pity for her,the more I feel she deserves what she got.

You concluded that you had no future in Nigeria at 17?

According to her foolish story,she was not even maltreated by the woman but she had become frustrated. Rubbish

And she didn't have anyone to rely on in Nigeria, but was willing to travel as far as Italy. Who she go rely on for there?


Sorry dear. Next time you hear Italy or Dubai, you go run.

grandstar:


She was only 17years when venturing out for crying out loud. Its so easy to be self righteous when well educated and exposed.

Poverty, ignorance, hopelessness, poor education are destructive.

The mosf important is not trusting in Gods law. (Psalms 19:7-11)

HungerBAD:
I believe her story.

It is only those that have not encountered these girls especially in Italy,France and Spain that will doubt her story.

They work(prostitute) for years to pay off their debts,because of the fear of the juju oath they took.

Sometimes i want to blame these girls. As they are aware of what they are going to do in Europe,especially those living in Edo State since it is an open secret there anyway.

Their parents are also very culpable in this. They usually goad their daughters into this modern day slavery,so they too can boast of having a child in Italy.

In Benin City,every household has somebody in Europe and they see nothing bad in it. The Oba of Benin, and every Governmental agencies have tried to stop them,but they still venture into this modern day slavery.

bencarson007:
. Let's not condemn this girl in all totality... I agree that she made a childish and stupid call but trust me in this part of Naija, (I live in Benin city for the last 2 years now by the way), some fathers are just disasters waiting to happen... Lazy and abusive... So don't blame the kid... I woke up a month ago and discovered my neighbour - an 18 year old boy was missing and upon enquiry, I was told '... E don enter malay (Malaysia) and upon more questioning on how he generated the money to travel, I was told '...na God o...somebody wey see am and just like am naim carry am go (PITY)... Now the question is what did he go to do there ? Peer pressure and lack of proper fatherly guidiance were the main culprit... And like I told his brother, the little boy followed the internet fraud gang to go there - but when next he calls, tell him I wish him well but he should steal and try not to get caught... Another case is my landlady's sister. - a very young woman who just lost her husband in November... She is planning to sell her husband's cars so she can enter 'that way' (ITALY) leaving her kids here so she can go HUSTLE and the entire family sanctioned it as there is nothing left for her here in Nigeria... WELCOME TO EDO STATE...Many families here in Edo have long lost their sense of value for love of money

MetaPhysical:
This is a very painful and sad story to read.

Foreign countries benefit greatly in our misfortune. If it appears we are getting ourselves right and correcting the ills in our society, it upsets them because our progress will do two things, 1, greatly reduce the pressure to escape from Nigeria, which diminish cheap labour pool; 2, Nigerians in their countries will also start returning home and abandon the cheap and undignified labour they are forced to take as foreigners. The effect of these two impacts will definitely affect lifestyle and status of living in their country. So to promote and sustain their own status and social upward movement, they destroy ours using different political and treaty tactics called trade agreements and endorsements.

paulsir:

you are very right, i could remember that igbinedion on his second term bid promises those foolish parents that there will be easy passage for their daughters to Italy before he was voted. It's a black truth that many household supported the Mordern day slavery just because of fame and pride.

IamaNigerianGuy:


Mandela did not run South Africa well ? Rwanda and Botswana are not well run ? Awolowo if given the chance would not have run Nigeria well ?
Ojukwu did not run Biafra well ?
In 1960 China had the same GNP as Malawi and was grossly under developed; if you had been alive then no doubt you would have called the chinese sub-human too.
Read the literature and understand the causes of African underdevelopment. Stop insulting a whole race.
Your Father is black and a Nigerian - do the maths.
Engage your brain before your mouth (or keyboard )

Godfidence:
This is very true! I served there and some of my students then also travelled to italy. Their guys travel to Libya.

davidif:


Don't mind people like this guy jare. I have noticed that people who don't understand the complexities of the socio-economics of countries usually resort to simplisitic conclusions like "blacks are not smart enough" and all that nonsense. I doubt if guys like this have even bothered to read books like Why Nations Fail, Poor Economics or the Bottom Billion. The answer is usually no they have not even bothered to read but yet you would see them open there big mouths to insult an entire race.

IamaNigerianGuy:


The books you mention are very far removed from the experiences of the average Nigerian!
I haven't read The Bottom Billion but I intend to. Is it a good read?

IamaNigerianGuy:


The books you mention are very far removed from the experiences of the average Nigerian!
I haven't read The Bottom Billion but I intend to. Is it a good read?

davidif:


Have you read The White Man's burden? The Elusive Quest for Growth? The End of Poverty? The Tyranny of Experts?

dre11:



We were there for months, and that place is so very bad and dangerous. I was begging for them to feed us. All these Arabs, the Libyan men, they come and if they see a boy, they make him work for them. If they see a girl, they rape her."






https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/news/home-front/-he-said-to-me-if-i-didn-t-sleep-with-him-he-would-not-bring-me-to-europe-he-raped-me--mary-17/199076.html

davidif:


For realz??

Fourwinds:
what nonsense compassion are u talking about....I bet u., Edo is a very good place for farming....d soil is very fertile...let me ask u....is it everybody dat. must be a teacter or lawyer or doctor or nurse or farmer etc...? now any one dat will keep ur dignity do it and stop giving excuses to have compassion....

kjhova:


I am an atheist, and liberal and feel compassion for the lady despite her obvious mistakes and wrong choices in life. What are you?