Laird:



OK Op....I don't have a job but I will ask around....
Mr Billy please ask around too


Op You can also ask her questions like why She wants to sleep with You and phone record her answers without her knowing... And tell her some days later that You have recorded her sexual confession statements on Audio voice record and that She should leave You alone and allow You to stay in the house in peace and that You have copied it on two CDs and given one Cd of the Recording to a lawyer and the second CD of the recording to a police friend to give Her husband if maybe You loose your life or she pushes You out of the House, the Lawyer and police are to give her husband the C.D if the lawyer or police notices something has happened to You

I believe this would solve the problem


Readers please if anyone has or knows off any skilled or unskilled job available, please contact the OP

Noted, thanks for your concern. I realy appreciate

id911:


Noted, thanks for your concern. I realy appreciate

We are all here to help each other.....Fellow Nairalanders Op here needs a skilled or unskilled or physical job. Please ask Your friends, family and Contacts and If a job is available, please contact the Op or ask the Op to contact You. Thank You

crisisexpert321:
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what is this one saying

Billyonaire:


There is something called Law of Non-Interference. Do not go against the tides, swim with it. There is less resistance in going with the current, the waves of nature. It is not good to sleep with someone's wife, but the someone's wife has put him a very hopeless situation and only his volition can help him now. My advise was for a worse case scenario, if not for now, but certainly for later, cos these issues with married women are a lifetime occurrences. A married woman has disturbed me for 4 yrs in the past, yet another disturbed for a year. There is always a lesson, when you get to that point, when you have learnt the vital lessons that comes with such presentment, they will go away. You call it manipulation, I call is a stop gap measure. The woman may certainly not give him the money, which is my intention, but she will not bother him again and she will know for sure that he wont report to the husband. Earth is not a religious camp. It is more than that. So, I have outgrown religions.

Please Billy, don't hesitate to give me the required lecture when you're less busy cos knowledge they say is power. I have this inner feelings that there are principles controlling the physical earth that man has failed to unravel or uninterested in unravelling but the few that have this knowledge are the ones making giant strides in all spheres of human endeavors

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

She told her husband you are her Nephew!!! she had her plans carved in stone from the onset.she had always been wanting..maybe u look hot to her or pack some arsenals she wouldn't mind having a fleece of

If you sleep with her, you are in trouble. If you don't, you are in trouble. The decision is yours. Yes or no, regret is the key word. I'm sorry to tell you this, please do it.

biggie73:
If you sleep with her, you are in trouble. If you don't, you are in trouble. The decision is yours. Yes or no, regret is the key word. I'm sorry to tell you this, please do it.

hmmmm... I'm trying to see what i can do to move out which for me is the best option. It just that i don't have another place to stay yet

Dude , you need leverage like yesterday, meaning , record your conversations with her for proof that she is coming on to you before she frames you

IgweBUIKE1:
rat and cat no dey attend the same school..even if na free education..she a woman with feelings,, it's you that needs to change location bro.beta to squat with a fellow guy than stay with a woman who is not a blood relation

. come to uae: both rat and cat living together in the same apartment, that was african mentality, when you move arround, you will see a lot

Then bleep her na . Just make sure u come within 20 seconds . Trust me she would steer clear .

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

bros the way you narrated this story, if the key players comes across this story,they will definitely knows you are writing about them,what am.saying in essence is that,it may cause a problem between your uncle and aunt, peradventure your uncles sees this report

PRAY FOR THE HOLY SPIRIT IMMEDIATE INTERVENTION AS IN "HOLY SPIRIT, MY HELPER, PLEASE HELP ME OUT OF THIS SITUATION BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO OFFEND YOU THROUGH SIN IN JESUS NAME. AMEN."
NEXT STEP
PACK OUT OF THAT HOUSE WITH IMMEDIATE EFFECT
GO TO YOUR CHURCH
AND APPLY TO SLEEP
IN YOUR CHURCH UNTIL
YOU GET ASSISTANCE EVEN IF IT IS SQUATTING WITH A MALE.
JUST HANG IN THERE BY CALLING ON THE HOLY SPIRIT TO MANIFEST HIS HELP CONSISTENTLY THEN WATCH OUT FOR HIS TIMELY INTERVENTION.
I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY TO HIS QUICK RESPONSE!!!

Jacksparr0w1207:
Amarabae God bless the new seed and your fam

thank you jack.

id911:


ok, but I don't think she can go to that extend of framing me and reporting because her husband knows me as her nephew

She can do that. Remember her husband works with one of the nation's security agencies right?
She can set you up, get you locked up and only her would be able to put in words for your release (you would look for her).

bmsteady:
. come to uae: both rat and cat living together in the same apartment, that was african mentality, when you move arround, you will see a lot

smiles am an African and my theory too is Africa base and you reading also is Africa...

Run away

ezebunafo:
bros the way you narrated this story, if the key players comes across this story,they will definitely knows you are writing about them,what am.saying in essence is that,it may cause a problem between your uncle and aunt, peradventure your uncles sees this report

i know, thanks. I thought about that therefore Some certain things were changed or removed altogether

My guy move out immediately. I use God beg u

Send her picture 1st, then I can advice thereafter.....

Yamprince:
Send her picture 1st, then I can advice thereafter.....

what?! Tell me ur joking pls. U no no say na once man dey die.

From all the things that have been said so far, the best option is for me to move out of the house completely. Only that for now, i don't have where to move to just yet

sammydirectly:


Seriously? U truly don't have a job.

Brother I just weak immediately.

Bro, read about Joseph in the bible. You might go to jail and in the end a butler will help you become a governor. Resist

Sorry buddy, you have zero option.

id911:


hmmmm... I'm trying to see what i can do to move out which for me is the best option. It just that i don't have another place to stay yet

Eberex:
Sigh! This is about to happen at my end. One of my ex who is married confided in me that she married as a virgin (true because she was wen we dated). Bad thing is the husband is a one minute man with a small dick. They both practiced no sex before marriage but shit was the wrong move.
They have a child. She has been surviving all these while and I don't know why suddenly she wants to experience real sex. Chatted me up and said she is telling me because we share a past.
Its really crazy out there. Would tell her we meet at an eatery if she really need to talk to me.
Bro, you know wat to do.

hello! how can you call a lady u didn't get down with an ex.please explain further.

1234IKECHhukwu:
hello! how can you call a lady u didn't get down with an ex.please explain further.

Not every relationship is sex-related.

Eberex:


Not every relationship is sex-related.

A no sex relation is called a friendship and not a relationship, just tell us u didn't have the opportunity of getting down with her than coming here to deceive urslf.

1234IKECHhukwu:
A no sex relation is called a friendship and not a relationship, just tell us u didn't have the opportunity of getting down with her than coming here to deceive urslf.

you are wrong there. you dont call a relationship friendship when you both kiss, cuddle and carress and even give me Mouth Gig all because she was hell bent on keeping her virginity. I tried entering her but was damn difficult, i had to stop.

So don't come here and lecture me on the differences.

** good, i don't expect you to respond

Eberex:


you are wrong there. you dont call a relationship friendship when you both kiss, cuddle and carress and even give me Mouth Gig all because she was hell bent on keeping her virginity. I tried entering her but was damn difficult, i had to stop.

So don't come here and lecture me on the two.

what do u mean by damn difficult, so u mean a man like u cannot break something as simple as a woman's virginty,m really disappointed.

adewumiopeyemi:

So this boy never still change till now?
You still dey shine teeth upandan

1234IKECHhukwu:
what do u mean by damn difficult, so u mean a man like u cannot break something as simple as a woman's virginty,m really disappointed.

Well tight is different from tight., if u know what i mean. if i was adamant, i'd probably done it, not minding what she wanted. But babe too was pleading that i should respect her wish.

What was the use when i was also naive thinking we would go all the way and maybe end up marrying her.

This was more than ten years ago abeg.

Wetin concern u..

kullozone:


So this boy never still change till now?
You still dey shine teeth upandan

Billyonaire:


There is something called Law of Non-Interference. Do not go against the tides, swim with it. There is less resistance in going with the current, the waves of nature. It is not good to sleep with someone's wife, but the someone's wife has put him a very hopeless situation and only his volition can help him now. My advise was for a worse case scenario, if not for now, but certainly for later, cos these issues with married women are a lifetime occurrences. A married woman has disturbed me for 4 yrs in the past, yet another disturbed for a year. There is always a lesson, when you get to that point, when you have learnt the vital lessons that comes with such presentment, they will go away. You call it manipulation, I call is a stop gap measure. The woman may certainly not give him the money, which is my intention, but she will not bother him again and she will know for sure that he wont report to the husband. Earth is not a religious camp. It is more than that. So, I have outgrown religions.

guy!! u r a deep thinker

respect! !