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| Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by freddymanny49: 2:06pm On May 26, 2017 |
Hello NL, I don fumble men. Some lady came over to my place to sleep over. As usual things went down that i couldn't help but release my sperm in this young lady. I bought her contraceptive pills to use but it turns out that she didn't use them. Now she called me to tell me that she hasn't seen her period for days now and i banged this chick first Friday of this month. I am so confused because I have a girl I want to marry and i am truly in love with this girl i want to. My world is crashing because of a stupid choice i just made by sleeping with an ex without a condom. Now she wants to keep the baby which I am cool with. My concern is that her people will force me to marry her. I cant marry a woman that i am not in love with. What do i do? What do i do? I don't want to be forced into marriage because of circumstance. This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened. Now I am rambling and rambling because I don't genuinely love this girl. She is someone i am not even proud to show the world. The girl i want to marry comes from an affluent background just like i do. How do i handle this? 17 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by KvnqPrezo(m): 2:06pm On May 26, 2017 |
You making a decision isn't a problem, but the main problem is if your girlfriend will want to stick with you after impregnating another lady, if she will, then I will advise you wait for the other lady to conceive to your child before knowing if you will marry your girlfriend or her. . Who knows, you might someday develop feelings for her and leave your girlfriend and it can also be otherwise. . Cases like this, you need to consider the child's welfare as you might not marry the mother, so crucial arrangement need to be made in order to give the child a proper up bringing. Like you said, she isn't a type you're proud to show to the world and I believe you won't want her to raise your child, which she probably isn't gonna adhere to. . If there's any atom of love you feel for this lady or there's possibilities that you can help to change some of her flaws then consider growing a feeling of love for her, in order to raise the child in a good way as it is difficult for a child to cope with one parent or rather parents married to different spouse. If you can keep the child under your control (maybe after 5yrs) then it will be perfect as long as anyone you're going to marry will accept the child whole heartedly. . In addition, if you don't love her, never marry her; NEVER! . Marriage isn't something to rush into and isn't a 'try-your-lock-game', if you ain't compatible then let her go even if she and her parent or your own parent persist, of course you can't be force to go against your wish as it is unlawful. Go for your true love and also be sure you're being love in return as people can be so pretentious at infant stage. . I would love to chat with you and help you overcome this nightmare, everything can't be said on NL, WhatsApp me 07082341077. . I remain the CEO of Romanticpie - Discover Real Happiness] . Enjoy! 68 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by ijustdey: 2:11pm On May 26, 2017 |
OP, what should we do  143 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by greatnaija01: 2:11pm On May 26, 2017 |
Never let your erection determine your direction. It is sad what happened but WHY DA HELL DID U ALLOW YOUR EX COME FOR A SLEEP-OVER..... which led to Over-sleeping with each other. You knew what was going to happen JOOORRRR..... you are not proud to show her to the world but you were proud to allow her come over. SHE MAY BE LYING.... and may be trying to PUNISH u for DUMPING HER. SHe wants you to break up with your new girl. YOU ARE GOING TO COME OUT OF IT.... she is not saying the truth. If she is, then she is a bad girl.... so you have to really open up to your real wiffe-to-be... she will trust you but she will be hurt.... this is terrible but relax man... what does not kill you only makes you stronger. freddymanny49: 72 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:12pm On May 26, 2017 |
congrats...U gonna be a dad soon 200 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by marltech: 2:12pm On May 26, 2017 |
You have two options. You either face your Karma, and marry the girl wey you go give belle or RUN!!! I repeat RUN!!!! Do you copy?  93 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by chiefolododo(m): 2:12pm On May 26, 2017 |
Eyah... 28 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by dingbang(m): 2:14pm On May 26, 2017 |
Hahahahhaha..... 8 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by freddymanny49: 2:14pm On May 26, 2017 |
At this point i am totally weak... marltech: 2 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:16pm On May 26, 2017 |
Face the rhythm of the beat. You slept with her under the influence of alcohol and hard drugs and still under the same influence you bought contraceptives for her to use. What were you doing in the company of an ex you claim not to love? Enjoy your new status and train your child well. 236 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:17pm On May 26, 2017 |
freddymanny49:You don't love her, but you love the thing beneath her skirt right, and you were to drunk not to use condom. Guy carry your cross abeg. Nobody would help you here , or didn't you enjoy it? 92 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by marltech: 2:18pm On May 26, 2017 |
freddymanny49: Your thread from september 2016 says your manhood isn't working. https://www.nairaland.com/2631289/manhood-stopped-workingWe finally helped you solve the problem of your manhood... You still had the effrontery to goan bleep your ex? Actually... I'm not sorry for you. Ntoor  MEANWHILE IMAGINE WHAT THIS FEMALE CELEBRITY IS CAUGHT DOING 255 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by ikp120(m): 2:18pm On May 26, 2017 |
hehehehehe Bro no matter what you do, DO NOT MARRY HER! There is no law in Nigeria that says that you must marry anyone you impregnate. Tell your babe about it. Don't let her find out by herself. That ex likely seriously wants you to marry her, if wetin you type na wetin really happen. As you see me so eh, no matter wetin I dey do with any girl (even if na my babe), my dick MUST NOT penetrate her pussy. Not even by mistake. 26 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Splinz(m): 2:20pm On May 26, 2017 |
freddymanny49: Alas, here's the usual excuse. I'm sure it's also the work of the devil. 102 Likes 6 Shares
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| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Patented: 2:29pm On May 26, 2017 |
did she appear in your room in the middle of the night? forced herself on u indeed. what happened was premeditated skin diving wit alcohol and drugs probably to aid performance. Sorry Bro, jes await ur fate 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by kullozone(m): 2:32pm On May 26, 2017 |
Na suicide sure pass for now oh! Easiest way out.... I've tried it before. 20 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:34pm On May 26, 2017 |
freddymanny49: 17 Likes
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| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by freddymanny49: 2:34pm On May 26, 2017 |
Patented: I blame myself for all this facking up. I might as well just run away from the country and start over again. |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:35pm On May 26, 2017 |
Same story different players....and this will still not serve as a cautionary tale for some men. Come clean to your girlfriend; let her decide if she still wants to be with you after this. You don't have to marry anyone you do not love. It will only make a bad situation much worse. If your prospective baby mama wants to keep the baby, let her; and muscle up to pay child support. 13 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Headlesschicken(m): 2:36pm On May 26, 2017 |
| you are so used to phucking women wivout condom,dat was wat made u phuck her wivout even though she x now yuh ex,its very obvious dat d gal has plans 4u,she simply wants to trap u,tell her dt u recently found out dt madness runs in yuh family,wen next u meet her in public,try 2provoke her,n if she utters any silly word,beat her up in public n go stark n@ked while doing it,wen yuh done i promise she wld go n abort dat baby n nva disturb yuh life agn....tnk me lerra 20 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Rukkydelta(f): 2:39pm On May 26, 2017 |
freddymanny49:It's so unfortunate that in Nigeria people don't believe a male can be rape Op why don't you sue her for rape. PM me to get a credible lawyer at a fair price 20 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:41pm On May 26, 2017 |
You can't marry a woman you're not in love with but you can sleep with her and get her pregnant, ehn? Idiot. Your gf/fiancee should dump your behind. 33 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by kullozone(m): 2:43pm On May 26, 2017 |
marltech: No na! The bobo was just testing his preek whether it's now working well. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by ShawttySoFyne(f): 2:46pm On May 26, 2017 |
Headlesschicken:Who is your english teacher? 10 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:47pm On May 26, 2017 |
Sounds like you have to own up to what is done. Is there a way you can get the baby tested to see if it's yours when she has it or before at a hospital? Just because you may have knocked her up does not mean you have to marry her. I bet you won't be foolish again. Take it as a lesson learned 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 2:53pm On May 26, 2017 |
Thunder fire u there.. Fork fork...force on you bawo 1 Like |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by jashar(f): 2:58pm On May 26, 2017 |
This chick forced herself on me to sleep with her and i was drunk and under influence of hard drugs when this happened. Of course, of course.....  Iranu... 7 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by jashar(f): 3:00pm On May 26, 2017 |
marltech: e wo ooo..... you have made me laugh hard today....  17 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Nobody: 3:01pm On May 26, 2017 |
Rukkydelta:Who raped him?, if you get a lawyer for him in this case, that's if we're looking at the possibilities of rape here, it'll be his lose. Who invites an ex for a sleep over and not expect sex?. The day some people will realize that the thing called sex they overhype ends the second they cum, but damages may have been caused, they'll have sense. He even has a serious date, that's how they share infections. 24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by aloobright17: 3:11pm On May 26, 2017 |
Op which one be say she force herself on you? She was forcing herself and your dickk were rising like bread. better allow her force love on you too ooooo. 17 Likes |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by Oyindidi(f): 3:25pm On May 26, 2017 |
Na by force baby una go born be that 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! A Lady Is Pregnant For Me But I Don't Love Her by marltech: 3:27pm On May 26, 2017 |
LALASTICLALA COME O 1 Like |
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