Use the money in buying something for your mum and she will bless you and remember you in her prayers all night. Stay away from a lady that insulted you when you were nobody. Always remember that WHEN YOU HELP A WOMAN IN NEED, SHE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU WHEN SHE'S IN NEED AGAIN.

u re wicked .....on top wetin

Ifakiland:

I'll pour u acid if u help her....I swear

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

ur money ur money na her own o

[quote author=Kayus4real post=56964161]there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice.. [Go ahead and help her, by doing that U'll teach her an unforgettable lesson in life ]

If this your story is true, be very careful. Is she really in need or trying to get into your life? if she is in need and you can help, if financial pray over the money very well before giving. She is not a nice person

To be on the safe side I will say have nothing to do with her. I am a lady and if one does not want a relationship you can be polite, firm and assertive in refusing. She sounds like an arrogant gold digger who will come with a lot of baggage which you do not need. I know it is possible to look back at what might have been or to still hanker after her but ask yourself ' what if you lose your money tomorrow, will she be faithful? You can never be really sure of her. Move on now you had a narrow escape before.

adajoe555:



smiling.. thanks ( such still exist ok)..just few are out there

I'll need help locating those few.. Broke guys still deserve some loving

adajoe555:



I would say you should help her...don't pay back evil with evil..she never know how tomorrow would be.. now she is asking for your assistance ...but make sure you don't go into any relationship with her




Advice to ladies ..never look down on guys because they are broke ..because you don't know what tomorrow will bring ....# God bless my broke boyfriend #

. if I hear say you are dating a broke guy.

She doesn't need only the assistance but also wants your attention,most likely she would accept this time around. She doesn't deserve your assistance. She belongs to the past.

firstking01:
If you think you are bigger than the money she's asking i 'll advice you just help her for humanity sake and pls be strict while giving her the money...don't stand there and be smiling and drooling sheepishly after she tells you thank you in an alluring way cos i know she must give you this inviting look after you give her the money....giving her the money shows you are way out of her league and class....secondly, it'd speak maturity of you giving her the money and wanting nothing in return…we 've all been there....that's a typical attitude of a nigerian girl, after turning you down she 'll still come around to ask you for favour....most of them have no shame....just assist her and walk away and go and look for a berra girl…

I had similar experience sometime ago
a lady who turned me down...happens to call and start asking for money few weeks after..
I gave her though... and I moved on...
I did that...to let her..know that her refusal never changed me

If u r asking 4 an opinion b sure u av not made up ur mind. That said. My opinion is help anyway without condition. That's ur emotional weapon

bors please dnt help her O dash ur mum d money or buy sometin for ur mum. d girl na oloshi na

Please do..that will give her the reason to cry the more for what she lost and a lesson unto others

adajoe555:



I would say you should help her...don't pay back evil with evil..she never know how tomorrow would be.. now she is asking for your assistance ...but make sure you don't go into any relationship with her




Advice to ladies ..never look down on guys because they are broke ..because you don't know what tomorrow will bring ....# God bless my broke boyfriend #

if only lady's can think like you... Don't worry his already blessed for having you. His gan make it big time

You do not need anyone to tell you what to do. Do what your heart says. But since you are asking, you sounded like you are in a good position to assist her, so just do it without expecting any validation. Be the bigger person by helping her but let her know you do not expect anything from her because you have moved on.

Angel1696:
. if I hear say you are dating a broke guy.

what will happen

I know you'll still want to go and help because of some mumu advice here.... But if you do, I'll find you and beat you to death, then steal all the cash in your house.

Since she needs it now,then give it to her.

[quote author=murphine22 post=56987711][/quote] ...and what is her fathers responsibility again

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

If I were you I will help her. You loved her. You can even help people you never loved. However, do not, I repeat DO NOT think of dating her for whatever reason even if her kpomo is made in England.

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

Baba mi,make i no lie you ba,e dey your body to help her...Help me with no strings attached,she will get even more mad at herself that you helped her without attaching nuffin...Have a great day

Help her

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

follow ur heart bro, buh I will advice you to ignore her

Use your discretion....lobatan

That is life for you, it is filled with ups and downs but always follow your heart

What a very fake story!

I think you shouldn't waste your talent, I think your storyline would be perfect for nollywood

fake story

Just ef.f her and dumb her. She is an ef.fing gold digger.

Help her bro... If she's asking for too much send her half of the money

my brother
U can advice her if U re capable of but make sure U resist any move to date U


help her always if U re capable
thanks

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Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

She is a manipulative lady. Helping her will be the right thing to do that is if she truly needs what she asked of you. Be the bigger person and let her conscience be the judge.

i could have say u shouldn't help her but, who knows tomorrow?? she might turn to be that ladder u need to step on to a greater height****

do help, but sound warning to her to never UNDERRATE