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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by mazizitonene(m): 10:22pm On May 31, 2017 |
EMIOMOADEOYE:there's a caveat.... sexy half unclad...sexy being the key word...she must be sexy/appealing to him (the guy in question) in my scenario |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 10:22pm On May 31, 2017 |
Who's this hood rat again Have you washed your boyfriend's stinky toilet today? Ezionye: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 10:22pm On May 31, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: Wait, why isn't dressing half naked the mode dressing for visiting a fiance's parents? Cause its decent? Are the girls below wearing hijab? What can you say about their dressing? 2 Likes
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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:24pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196: what do you have to say about wearing bikinis at the beach or swimming pools..LOL..would that be indecent too as well?we all know some people want their own private pools for women only and they want to cover their heads as well |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by evexx1(f): 10:25pm On May 31, 2017 |
Ezionye: Oh! You're one judgemental thing, aren't you? Going about and pointing out the flaws of others is a hobby for you? Because others seem bold and eloquent enough to succinctly express themselves- is something you cannot stand because you're caged in your life. Your signature doesn't represent you. Please change it. 1 Like |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by pocohantas(f): 10:26pm On May 31, 2017 |
In a bid to sound or look modern, I think we should still maintain some level decency. I don't think it's ideal for a lady to be disrespected for her dressing, that would look like we're making excuses for perverts. In all, decency is key, you can look decent and appealing. Decency isn't outdated, your dressing goes a long way in determining how you'll be addressed. Most of you girls attacking the OP, have a picture of how you love your man to be dressed. It doesn't apply to females alone. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by evexx1(f): 10:27pm On May 31, 2017 |
Fabulocity: Haha nice response. Don't mind her, her work is to go about hating on those who share a different view from hers. 3 Likes |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:30pm On May 31, 2017 |
pocohantas: i agree with this your statement below the rest maybe not..we have seen videos online were men stone and harass ladies for wearing mini skirts,in a good country that man will go to jail I don't think it's ideal for a lady to be disrespected for her dressing, that would look like we're making excuses for perverts. 1 Like |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by pocohantas(f): 10:34pm On May 31, 2017 |
cristianisraeli:It's wrong to attack anyone for dressing in a way that doesn't appeal to you. I would never support violence. Let's not forget that even 'decently' dressed girls are attacked too, though not physically. We all know the insults deeper life ladies receive... That's to show that both sides don't have it easy. Strike a balance. |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 10:35pm On May 31, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: You didn't answer my question abouaboutthose girls who you can't use hijab to judge. Are they decent or not? About swimming and co. At least they have a good reason for being in bikinis or swimming trunks. We are talking about who roam nowhere near water but are still half naked, what's their excuse? Heat? |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 10:35pm On May 31, 2017 |
You have a good point and if this was how the silly OP presented her points in the first place, she wouldn't have received this kind of backlash. Yes decency is key and I must add, very subjective. We all have different ideas of what "modest" dressing is. She shouldn't have come out to outrightly condemn and judge all those that she feels do not dress well. And why on earth would she blame them for being disrespected by perverts? She shouldn't shame anyone while trying to pass across her points. pocohantas: |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:39pm On May 31, 2017 |
pocohantas: yes..if a woman like let her walk around covering her self with duvet,blanket and all..it would stop pervs from been pervs..i said something about rape..if a woman open her legs wide ..does that give a man the right to go in because shes naked and her legs are wide open..she can open her legs if she want..but she must give a man the permission first and if a man says because her legs are wide open and then i can just go in then it becomes what is called. RAPE 1 Like |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:43pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196: you are still not getting my point...and that is..its their life and everyone have the right to do whatever they please to do..well,we know saudi women cant go to the beach can they?or even wear bikinis..for me i think your word decency is not the way a woman decide to dress..its her character that makes her decent and not her dress,OK.thats my point 2 Likes |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196:now you seem to miss the point,you cant go to a club and expect to see this kind of dressing there,I believe I have listed what you muslims usually tag indecent dressing, like I said, you dont go to a club wearing that ,that's why its called dressing for the occasion which is the freedom you folks lack,even this type of dressing especially the one on white gown is still considered indecent according to Muslims ,so shut it and face front my friend, we all can't be ninjas ,simple 1 Like |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by dacoza007(m): 10:46pm On May 31, 2017 |
rebirthforgoody:yeah....even if she goes to a public pool....she should wear iro n buba to avoid indecency |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:46pm On May 31, 2017 |
Fabulocity: Yes its the muslim way of reasoning..in germany and sweden..muslim men say they rape women because of the way they dress..they rape in swimming pools and do you know the funniest part..they actually release them because they say they are allowed to rape.if a woman walks around naked you have no right to disrespect or even touch her..the thing is..MEN DONT THINK WOMEN IN HIJABS ARE DECENT..WE ARE SCARED OF WHAT YOUR MEN WOULD DO TO US IF WE TALK TO THEM..TRUST ME |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 31, 2017 |
Don't mind the guys quoting u and objecting. The truth is they all know the truth but they love the way those ladies dress n behave + some of dem are drooling in those 2 pics already, hence u wan block dem from girls to dey be like dis? In order to satisfy their own lust? ... thats why they're attacking you. They know the truth Angel196: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 10:52pm On May 31, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: You can try to ignore it but dressing is a very big part of decency. Again about the Saudi and religion, I never made specifics about religion? You did not me. I never said only Muslims dress decently neither did I say people from other religions aren't. You might think it's only her character that matters but before people know her character, it's her dressing they'll see and judge her by. Most people don't even get to know your character. So what's stopping them from showcasing themselves as modest and responsible through their dressing? |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 10:52pm On May 31, 2017 |
Aderola15: 10/10 response. 1 Like
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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by pocohantas(f): 10:54pm On May 31, 2017 |
Fabulocity:While some people will tell you, stop smoking...it's not good for your body, your lungs...another will just jump out from nowhere and say "smokers are liable to die young". Scare tactics, na her own pattern be that. Forgive 2 Likes |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 10:57pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196: well lets say your talking from the nigerian side..because of our culture and all that.but dressing does not mean a woman is decent.theres something called disguise,ok..decency is a womans character and not the way shes dressed,ok.i told you some men love their women hot and sexy,[/b]ok..[b]you know what they say about dont judge a book by its cover?..so dont judge a woman by the way shes dressed,ok..it might just be a disguise..in other countries people dress the way they want.i asked you about nudist...what will you say about them?i made mention of religion so you can stop been robin hood and come out straight..we all know why you are sounding this way even if you try to again..disguise..LOL |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 11:01pm On May 31, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: People and their thirst to turn something wrong to something right. Stop dragging religion into this, it's making you seem desperate and pathetic especially since the photos I posted has nothing to do with Islam. What do guys who go to club go there to do? Pick up a responsible laday? Huh, I never knew. Sorry for my ignorance. You can't fault someone for thinking you're a hooker when you're dressed like one. Bitter truth. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 11:03pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196: wait ooo...are you saying responsible ladies dont go to clubs?you see what i have been trying to tell you and its called dressing hot and sexy and not dressed like a hooker..hookers in iran and saudi arabia wear hijabs,ok..they dont wear mini skirts and dont tell me there are no hookers in saudi and iran,ok |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 11:05pm On May 31, 2017 |
And vice versa |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 11:05pm On May 31, 2017 |
evexx1:...choi!
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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 11:06pm On May 31, 2017 |
evexx1: Slay mama + drama queen Cheers |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by shinarlaura(f): 11:06pm On May 31, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: Hahahaha. |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by scarletkinq(m): 11:06pm On May 31, 2017 |
bpee:have have not seen one |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 11:07pm On May 31, 2017 |
cristianisraeli: Don't judge a book by its cover... A book can never stop being judge by its cover mister even by those who preach otherwise. Discussing with you isn't going anywhere especially since you see nothing wrong in going around half naked. Have a nice night. |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 11:09pm On May 31, 2017 |
Dimples182: the OP is not female, i know the handle, it was changed to female by him. the internalized misogyny is laughable but then i remember there are girls who dont have the means to live above it and deal with it everyday so i wont trivialize it. a woman should wear what she wants and live free without dumb ppl talking trash but ppl like OP love to rant about other ppl's bodies as if it's theirs to decide what goes where. 1 Like |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 11:12pm On May 31, 2017 |
Angel196: yes i see nothing wrong in walking around naked because its their right to do so and i see nothing wrong with a woman covering her face with niqab...we have the right to do whatever we please and i think its time you stop judging a book by its cover,ok.nite nite |
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 11:13pm On May 31, 2017 |
selflessmaya: yes freedom is what we want..even women in saudi/iran are running to the USA because they want to be free |
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