Prettiepearlz:

As usual, I was expecting you to come with insult. Pls school me, What sarcasm means and also on the recommendation were you asking for, just accept the fact that your point support wife beaters, your point make it looks like a man has no choice than to panel beat a woman because she is not respectful. And it's only an abused child that is always quick to abuse others. Learn to make your points without throwing hurtful words at the person you want to refer to. Mtchewww

AHCB:
First of, was I talking to you? My post was directed at someone who responded to my post. Now, you come at me with the tides of a depraved and battered child churning out her frustration at something that doesn't concern her.

If you want to know what sarcasm is, I suggest you ask Google since it was the same lame ass sarcasm you threw in my direction. But atlas, I'm not like you so I'll point you in the right direction...

https://literarydevices.net/sarcasm/

Acidosis:



https://www.nairaland.com/3832344/soldiers-punish-residents-mistook-ghanaian

lepasharon:


Cos wives are little kids who deserve to be spanked each time they get rude. You lot are fools

Prettiepearlz:

As usual just as expected, I was expecting your insults. I don't who abused you this way and made you this abusive. Sorry to burst your bubble mister, you're the one who needs to go understand the meaning of word sarcasm, just face it, you're a potential wife beater and that's if you are not one self. Coming here to spill bitter words like an abused and deranged fellow. It's only an abused fellow that would support domestic violence and from your post you are one. It's obvious you have no respect for women and people like you doesn't deserve to be respected. Wife beater, always coming online to show the masculinity but won't be able to talk back at their bosses who insults them at will or throw a punch at a man who fights them but they can come online to bully women and also beat their wives at home. Cowards! Mtchewww

PaulKillerman:

This ugly girl, u are on on my case again abi U better take your time and behave I'm warning you I don't interact with ugly wench

AHCB:
I'm sure you know there are ways you tell a person he/shhe is stupid_ without the person getting offended.

subtlemee:


Silence or leaving the house for her till everything cools off then you reprimand her

freshinko:
lolss what if it's raining heavily?

subtlemee:


Use keke

freshinko:
dear, in a humble way, pls how do you suggest an abusive wife should be treated.

Prettiepearlz:

If you have tried to correct her with love and she still doesn't change. Then I suggest you divorce her rather than panel beating her. I will not tolerate abuse irrespective of the gender. How do you suggest an abusive husband should be treated?

eyinjuege:

I guess he'll also tell the men too not to disrespect their wives otherwise they will be bathed with hot water/oil or even started on fire and burnt to death.

The same people justifying domestic violence don't know the evil they are breeding, till things turn around .
Instead of you to speak against it and not mince words on the punishment that should be meted out to such. Instead of you to preach self control and restraint.

If we all endorse violence now, I wonder who will save the men when the women start their own well packaged round of madness.

N101:


Normally I ignore threads like this but today I'll play devil's advocate.

What is striking a woman the response to insults? Coc ocandy was right to call it rubbish (and I'm being polite) and right to be emotional - if someone said it was right to slap you for whatever, wouldn't you be emotional? On what grounds can you justify striking an adult you're supposed to care about because they've insulted you or said something you don't like? What if you are in the wrong?

Some of the rubbish I read here makes me realise that some of you guys have a lot of growing up to do. If you want to live a life with no one saying anything to you, correcting you or even getting upset when you do something wrong, please, don't marry or just be a baby daddy and/or live the baby boy life. All of the justifications I'm seeing here are from such a myopic skewed perspective one would think all men are saints who can do no wrong and all women do is nag. I've heard men complain about their wives, when you dig deeper you realise they spend too much time away from home, or drink too much, or spend too much money, or womanise or are just inconsiderate. Those are examples, I wouldn't say that all men do this because not all men cheat, drink or spend lots of time away from home, but at some point they're doing something that annoys their wife, try to justify it and then complain when she starts to nag about that thing! When the outsider points out the obvious - usually another man - it's like their eye has suddenly cleared. All I can say is that a lot of parents are failing to raise their sons right, leaving the success or failure of a relationship fully on a woman's shoulder. That is wrong - there are two people in a relationship and it takes two to make it work. You can't hear if you're not actively listening.

And women usually nag because men usually have a hard time listening. That is despite whether she's been trying to tell you something directly or indirectly. And when you don't listen it starts to grate on the other person and then it gets to nagging. Let me ignore the girlfriend thing because any woman silly enough to let some boyfriend hit her isn't grown up yet. When you get to the point where hitting your wife is an option, what does that say about you as a person? Why is hitting the thing you would resort to?

The solution by and large is simple - listen. Don't be thinking of what you're going to say next, or be defensive or not take responsibility, or apologise hoping that she'll shut up, just listen. What is she saying that you're refusing to hear? Is it true? If it is, what do you do about it? If it isn't, how do you go about reassuring her? If you're not prepared to be open and honest with your spouse and communicate - both listening and speaking - and treating that person's opinion as valid (even if you don't agree), and you don't want anyone to say anything to you, marriage isn't for you.

Mindfulness:

You mean euphemisms.

Prettiepearlz:

Nothing infuriates me more than seeing guys type that shit. Like she is a kid that should be bundled home. If they don't want her in their house anymore, simply tell her and she would leave their miserable house and go wherever she wants to go to. It's her life and I feel she should decide where she wants to head to.

TheArchangel:
Imagine sending an adult back to her parents. Are you guys married to kids or what
I mean, as old as I am with well establish job in a major city..if I had an agreement with my husband he will bundle me to my parents, funny..aswear

HarveySpecter1:


He will bundle you back to your parents so that they can train you well.stop making mouth here. Tontolet too was making mouth until she saw Armageddon.

cococandy:
This is such a belittling statement and I'm disappointed in him and those who support him.
Who tells men to respect their wives in order not to get beaten.
I swear the rampant sexism most Nigerian men are raised with, has all but robbed them of their common sense.
Do you know how many victims of domestic violence walk on egg shells in order not to set the man off yet they still get beaten and sometimes murdered?
Do you how many victims dare not even look in the eyes of the men they married so that they don't appear disrespectful yet their abusers find reason in the way they walk, sit or eat to beat them up?

All of you dummies should fvck out of here with your victim blaming retardedd bullshyt posts.

If you haven't been a victim of oppression don't try to mansplain to those who are going through it what to do to avoid it.
You guys often think you know best. It's a very disgusting attitude.

TheArchangel:
kids. And she is with her parents now, right

banmee:


I am an irreparable idiot. I've lost my sense and I'm on my way to lunacy. I got stupidity from my parents, hence my show of senselessness. I blame my immbecile father for not using condom while ffucking my cursed mother. This would have saved the world from my unfortunate birth.

banmee:


I begin to wonder why I always act and comment like an immbecile. I wonder if it runs in my family.

Berbierklaus:
See this thing is simple and straight forward,women should run at any sign of a abuse,don't even wait to find out,even if you are 9 months pregnant,run for dear life.....

You won't have to hear sermons like this because you will be at peace with yourself.
Btw
The most respectful and meek women suffer more domestic violence.....
Quote me anywhere.

Berbierklaus:
See this thing is simple and straight forward,women should run at any sign of a abuse,don't even wait to find out,even if you are 9 months pregnant,run for dear life.....

You won't have to hear sermons like this because you will be at peace with yourself.
Btw
The most respectful and meek women suffer more domestic violence.....
Quote me anywhere.

cococandy:
This is such a belittling statement and I'm disappointed in him and those who support him.
Who tells men to respect their wives in order not to get beaten.
I swear the rampant sexism most Nigerian men are raised with, has all but robbed them of their common sense.
Do you know how many victims of domestic violence walk on egg shells in order not to set the man off yet they still get beaten and sometimes murdered?
Do you how many victims dare not even look in the eyes of the men they married so that they don't appear disrespectful yet their abusers find reason in the way they walk, sit or eat to beat them up?

All of you dummies should fvck out of here with your victim blaming retardedd bullshyt posts.

If you haven't been a victim of oppression don't try to mansplain to those who are going through it what to do to avoid it.
You guys often think you know best. It's a very disgusting attitude.

Afam4eva:

Stop being emotional about this issue. Nobody is saying that it's right for a man to beat his wife and the actor is not saying that either. The point is that it's the woman who gets the physical injury at the end of the day and as such for her to prevent it, she should respect her husband even when there's no need for it. Some men are crazy. Some would even beat a woman for no just reason. If you have a solution, bring it on.

jakandeola:
if u cant respect me as a man why wont I beat u

jakandeola:
is the truth d fact he beat u dont mean he dont love u like I put in my blog u women act like baby and dont respect a man. his beat is a love beat to correct u

jakandeola:
is the truth d fact he beat u dont mean he dont love u like I put in my blog u women act like baby and dont respect a man. his beat is a love beat to correct u