Safiaa:
Why are you bringing self dependence into this now? Independent women still do not want men who will not compliment their finances. Women like to be taken care of, regardless of if she has her own or not. Thats facts! Maybe in the beginning she'll compromise, but in the long run, Absolutely not!

Like I said most men derive their self esteem from their money. When they're broke, they look for a woman who their self esteem can get. Once the money comes in, they fish out to all their available options. Its very common. so some women don't want to be in that situation of building and helping a man, and being slapped in the face at the end. Women have the option to say no to broke men. It's not your place to call them leeches. You're so closed minded its shocking, especially at your age.

I believe you know men marry broke girls more than women who marry broke guys.

Cinderella5:
cheating and respect is a other topic altogether, how did you bring all that in?

My dear, learn to read between the lines.

Safiaa:
You're not saying anything. What is your argument?

My argument is, women who are self sufficient, women who have money are not termed leeches or gold digger.

Safiaa:
Why can't you accept the truth, and stop insulting. Your self esteem derives from your finances 80% of the time. When you don't have money, you feel less than a man. Our self esteem normally comez from our physically appearance and appreciation. It's the truth, just accept that. We're not equal in that aspect, but i still believe a woman should have her own finances.

Stop building excuses, try to depend on yourself and don't be a parasite.
The guy graduated from Uni to get a job, work and raise money, the girls was also sent to Uni, so get a work.
Who fine and physical appearance help in nigeria condition 2day with all the make - up, Be natural and be shocked that most guys are even better good looking physically than most girls.

Learn how to give and not to receive, it will rescue your mentality from all the trash.

AHCB:
My dear, learn to read between the lines.

Cinderella5:
whats the fun in a relationship where the guy cannot meet some financial demands of a girl? Cannot take her out to fancy places cos no money, we are just being realistic, call it leeching, doesnt matter.

look at this one I have seen a girl who doesn't want his Bf to take her out Rather she advice him to buy something the two will share and for him to save the rest cash. Dating broke guys is not a bad things at all. Cus one day he will blow....!

Cinderella5:

Never mind. I'm not surprise anyway.

Tell me, what do you do for a living?

Cinderella5:
so a relationship is about being serious all the time?

When did men become so selfish?

I don't do senseless relationship. If the purpose isn't MARRIAGE, then we aren't in a relationship... just se x buddies.

How do you know the girls you claim that are broke are really broke?

AHCB:
Yea I know. Same with broke girls. But believe it or not, Nigeria has more broke girls than guys. Even here in Nairaland, the number of broke girls outweigh the number of broke guys.

Sierusvirus:

Stop building excuses, try to depend on yourself and don't be a parasite.
The guy graduated from Uni to get a job, work and raise money, the girls was also sent to Uni, so get a work.
Learn how to give and not to receive, it will rescue your mentality from all the trash.

You deserve a medal.

Cinderella5:
money makes ladies look good too, with the right clothes, hair, cream, make up, she will become beautiful.

beautiful but fake

Acidosis:


I don't do senseless relationship. If the purpose isn't MARRIAGE, then we aren't in a relationship... just se x buddies.

even if you are getting married, you should spice it up with surprise gifts and items, vacations, outings, that's the fun I am talking about, marrying a guy like you will be as boring as hell, can even make a woman cheat.

Quinn22:
How do you know the girls you claim that are broke are really broke?

simple. A girl who demand for money from her boify or guys to do basic things is broke.

One doesn't need to be an astronomer to easily identify a broke girl. Especially after having meet with her often times.

AHCB:
Never mind. I'm not surprise anyway.

Tell me, what do you do for a living?

I am a cosmetologist, why did you ask?

If it was all about the money chase amante wouldn't have written 'HOW TO MAKE A GIRL CHASE'

Cinderella5:
I am a cosmetologist, why did you ask?

What's your clientele?

AHCB:
What's your clientele?

whats your point, cut the chase.

Chai! There's God oh!

AHCB:
simple. A girl who demand for money from her boify or guys to do basic things is broke.

One doesn't need to be an astronomer to easily identify a broke girl. Especially after having meet with her often times.

Cinderella5:
whats your point, cut the chase.

Simple, you sound like a broke girl. Any girl who is able, makes her own money, won't be saying the things you've been saying so far.

That's why I wanted to know what you really do for a living.

Quinn22:
Chai! There's God oh!

Indeed there is.

Cinderella5:
even if you are getting married, you should spice it up with surprise gifts and items, vacations, outings, that's the fun I am talking about, marrying a guy like you will be as boring as hell, can even make a woman cheat.

Unfortunately, nothing can tame a woman like you. Marry Adenuga, you'd still cheat on him with Dangote.

Marry Mark Zuckerberg, you will cheat on him with Bill Gates.

Your type will run after a Banker's salary, but end up wasting his hard earn money on a Gym FCK boy. When caught, you give the same excuse and the need for FUN.

I sincerely hope you aren't 18 yet... you reason like a JAMBite.

AHCB:
I believe you know men marry broke girls more than women who marry broke guys.

The problem with you men is that you want to pick and choose when you want to be equal with women. It's either one or the other, you cant be on the fence. I personally don't believe men and women are equal. Therefore, the financial power should lay more on the man. Its as simple as abc. You want to be equal with finances, but when it comes to sexuality you don't want to compete. You're being hypocritical. Pick one side.

AHCB:
Simple, you sound like a broke girl. Any girl who is able, makes her own money, won't be saying the things you've been saying so far.

That's why I wanted to know what you really do for a living.

OP has never earned a salary or wage through direct labour.

Sierusvirus:


Stop building excuses, try to depend on yourself and don't be a parasite.
The guy graduated from Uni to get a job, work and raise money, the girls was also sent to Uni, so get a work.
Who fine and physical appearance help in nigeria condition 2day with all the make - up, Be natural and be shocked that most guys are even better good looking physically than most girls.

Learn how to give and not to receive, it will rescue your mentality from all the trash.

yawns. Weak argument. Weak logic. I would respect you more if you defend yourself with substance. This was a weak attempt. Try again.

Acidosis:


Unfortunately, nothing can tame a woman like you. Marry Adenuga, you'd still cheat on him with Dangote.

Marry Mark Zuckerberg, you will cheat on him with Bill Gates.

Your type will run after a Banker's salary, but end up wasting his hard earn money on a Gym FCK boy. When caught, you give the same excuse and the need for FUN.

I sincerely hope you aren't 18 yet... you reason like a JAMBite.

you are boring, learn to spice up your relationship, bye.

Cinderella5:
you have a wrong mentlity.

You've a twisted mentality. Go and make your money and watch how rich guys run after you. It's because you're broke, that's why broke seems the only option.

AHCB:
Simple, you sound like a broke girl. Any girl who is able, makes her own money, won't be saying the things you've been saying so far.

That's why I wanted to know what you really do for a living.

you didn't prove anything. There are no broke girls. Only guys are termed broke. If in the next 10 years I don't make money no one will look down on me, provided I have a family, but if you don't, you will be termed a disappointment.

Cinderella5:
so you can date a guy that never has to give and dependent on you?

It's just obvious you are from a very poor family background with pains in your heart to make it in life by fire by force. It's doesn't work that way but try cos it's a two way thing,
1. you succeed or
2. Sends you to your early grave.

Cinderella5:
you are boring, learn to spice up your relationship, bye.

So says the 16 year old teenager




Better get out of school and get a proper job.

Sierusvirus:


It's just obvious you are from a very poor family background with pains in your heart to make it in life by fire by force. It's doesn't work that way but try cos it's a two way thing,
1. you succeed or
2. Sends you to your early grave.

you are funny.
Pls tell me why our new generation guys prefer to be tight handed and rather depend on women, our father's are not like your generation, what went wrong?

Safiaa:
The problem with you men is that you want to pick and choose when you want to be equal with women. It's either one or the other, you cant be on the fence. I personally don't believe men and women are equal. Therefore, the financial power should lay more on the man. Its as simple as abc. You want to be equal with finances, but when it comes to sexuality you don't want to compete. You're being hypocritical. Pick one side.

Must I pick a side? I don't conform to societal rules, regulations and norms. Neither do I conform to the flimsy thought that they are 2 sides to a coin.

Kindly elucidate on the bolded. I'm sure you know people say "men are scared of women who are financially independent". So I wonder what you meant by "you want to be equal with finance".

Acidosis:



So says the 16 year old teenager




Better get out of school and get a proper job.

funny.