Sierusvirus:


A woman will cheat even if the husband doesn't. so don't put it as ' she is cheating because the husband is doing so 2. it doesn't work that way.
if she wants to cheat, nothing will stop her, it's a mind thing, she will do that but codedly.

Of course.. you are also right
Just like a man will cheat even if the wife ain't cheating.... and might even have a child with one of those women he is cheating with, without even knowing and another man will be training his child. Meanwhile he will be the one shouting about DNA the most...

Guys, me I don't have time for all this. Don't marry a Nigerian lady and you'd be better for it.
This people are assho.les just imagine the first comment on this post. Just imagine.
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How can you juxtapose the consequences of man cheating and a woman cheating.
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lemme call one of em women supremacist
cc:Raine80

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Just my thought!!! Noh take am personal oooo
Biko did ur mum allow you to be trained by someone else..... Cox it seems your brain needs reset ooo

This one my gal dey use pregnancy play with me for the past two weeks now.

Berbierklaus:

You are blessed.

Until y'all accept that cheating is not for only men,una go continue to train children wey no be una own.
All these call for DNA will affect not less than 50% of Nigerian families, all those calling for it too will be affected and the fathers at 60-70 discover they are childless,oya start looking for young blood to impregnate and have their own child

PS: don't quote me if you are a frustrated bastard,you will be ignored.

The world has changed and ladies of this age aren't as old fashioned as our mothers, which why we should let go of this wide societal attack against a woman caught cheating because they as vulnerable as men are, so the ACT of cheating isn't an issue-no, but where you deceitfully allow a man to unknowingly bear the consequence he had no part in is so unfair. As for me, I go quietly go run DINA on top those children until they confirm say na me get ham, na the same HIV and medical test we run before marriage nah.

Neatboy:



THE BEST COMMENT OF THIS POST. GOD BLESS YOU

Bless you too

Gangster1ms:

Someone here says it's around 30k

ok thanks for the info

Berbierklaus:

You are blessed.

Until y'all accept that cheating is not for only men,una go continue to train children wey no be una own.
All these call for DNA will affect not less than 50% of Nigerian families, all those calling for it too will be affected and the fathers at 60-70 discover they are childless,oya start looking for young blood to impregnate and have their own child

PS: don't quote me if you are a frustrated bastard,you will be ignored.

I no blame u na.. just try am. thank God for technology unless u wan marry village daft man when e go shele i will love to be around to see him kick u out while u wail like d bitch u are seeking for forgiveness

NubiLove:
It costs less than N30k... it is usually not up to N50k. Search on google, there are over 3 test centres I know of in Lagos alone.

thanks for the info.

NubiLove:


DNA test is affordable. It is less than N30k.... please do a google search for DNA testing service in Lagos, there are more than 3 I know of in Lagos alone.

100k for father & a child, and
50k for additional child.

This is why I so much like Esan my tribe. If our wife we legally married cheat on us and we are not awared, she will has an incurable terrible sickness till she dies. Except she confesses on time and come back to my village to do some traditional rites to d elders before she can be healed. They will even naked her to dance round the village. My future wife will not venture to cheating on me because of my tradition. This gives me confidence

I wish I can marry a virgin & stay away from these public toilets...

Ego will not let a lot of men realize women are simply better at the cheating game.
A street wise man will conduct that test within the first six months of his kid's birth.
Better safe than sorry.

Berbierklaus:

You are blessed.

Until y'all accept that cheating is not for only men,una go continue to train children wey no be una own.
All these call for DNA will affect not less than 50% of Nigerian families, all those calling for it too will be affected and the fathers at 60-70 discover they are childless,oya start looking for young blood to impregnate and have their own child

PS: don't quote me if you are a frustrated bastard,you will be ignored.

She's here again



Not less than 50% of Nigeria families?



Oh God

Only soft boys fall for such....

Men will forever be the superior as long as they are the bread winner.. i cheat i get caught we settle(98%) but u cheat u get caught we settle (5%)

Gangster1ms:

Shatap dia and stop giving flimsy excuses... when the guy cheated did he bring a responsibility for u to take care of? If u wan cheat cheat but don't bring in something else. Condom dey, pregnancy prevention pills dey.. women condom dey too.. yet u go carry belle and tie it to the man. Are u not evil for that? Forget ur long story i can already see u are cheater and a potential cheater ready to do this evil

I don't care what you think of me because it is really inconsequential. Having said that, back to the topic, haven't you considered that as you're cheating... you could also get the so called woman pregnant which of course she'll have to pin on another man... and someone else will have to take of your child.

nothing justifies cheating and in the long run it causes more harm than good. Simple.

100k is still affordable. There are some test centres that are less than 100K. There is one in Festac, that one should be less than 100K.

cosade:



100k for father & a child, and
50k for additional child.

tosyne2much:
But we are meant to trust our wives against all odds but it's so disheartening that promiscuity has ruined the lives of ladies of this generation. You will marry a lady yet she won't stop lusting/sleeping with other men. Nothing kills a man's ego than seeing another man sleeping with your wife/gf.

All I know is that a lady who derives pleasure in cheating in a relationship will equally cheat in marriage because marriage is not a magician that changes people completely.

Who do we now trust when we start having mixed feeling if we are truly the biological father of our own children

May God help us

Can I disagree with the bold because maturity comes from experience and not with age.

Most times when you experience someone cheating on you it's to teach you the importance of loyalty but most times instead of learning the lesson we keep trying to hurt each other.

The truth is cheating is a freedom a person gives themselves and a total disregard for any union but it doesn't mean when the right person comes around you can't go all the way.

It really depends on their spiritual life

vargasvictory:
How about not putting your prick in anything that moves Or Goddammit



USE a Fuxkin protection!!


You think DNA tests comes Cheap? That cash for it would get you sth else

There are cheap home paternity test kits nowadays mate.

Saving money on a DNA test for a woman i call my wife I would gladly remain unmarried for life than marry a woman i cant trust by by at least 90%.. Our fathers were very lucky chaps, only God would save men from evil women of this new era..

So cheating has now turned to competition between men and women?

This is just disgusting​. No sense of principle and moral uprightness anymore. Humans now mating with each other like animals​ in the jungle. Just look at comments. I'm sick to my stomach.

(Spits on thread)

lovethchioma:
The First to comment poster isn't far from the truth.
Some men now think it is natural for a man to cheat.. Someone will even tell you to prepare your mind because all men cheat. I refuse to believe that trash.... Do you think it's only the men that get tired of sleeping with one woman for the rest of their lives? Don't you know even the women get bored fu**ing one dick for the rest of their lives too? should that now be used as an excuse to cheat on your spouse? that's why I always say it all boils down to self control and commitment to making your relationship work which a lot of persons lack now adays. They prefer to take the easier way out, which is to cheat.
If men will continue sleeping around with other women, what makes you think your woman won't do the same? And if anything happens along the line.. you sure would have to train up another's man child.
How are you sure that as a man all those women you are sleeping with, you have not mistakenly put your seed in one of them and another innocent man is busy training your child too ?
Or doesn't your conscience tells you that those women you've been sleeping with outside your relationship are either somebody's girlfriend, fiancee or wife too?
The level of moral decadence is increasing by the day. Why won't there be chaos in marriages?

It's even the unfaithful once that are busy shouting go for DNA as if it's that easy sef.

The unfaithful men will be blessed with unfaithful women... and if care is not taken you will train up another's man child . Yes... una deserve each other.

If you are a good man don't worry... relax your mind, pray hard, watch carefully, and God will bless you with the right woman who won't give you heart attack.

Tah keep KWAYET!!!.. U GULLIBLE 1

Gangster1ms:
Men will forever be the superior as long as they are the bread winner.. i cheat i get caught we settle(98%) but u cheat u get caught we settle (5%)

You now see why you will raise another man's children

Urukpe:


unfortunately is the good men that get affected most.

It sometimes happens too and I really feel sorry for them. It is an unpleasant situation for a good man or woman to be in..

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

If u spoke ur heart, With that mindset, i can only pity the man dating u or bout to marry a woman whose concience is actually dead...
You are not virteous in the least..

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

ur d type that makes trusting difficult in a relationship, you should permanently hooked up to a lie detector.

lovethchioma:
I don't care what you think of me because it is really inconsequential. Having said that, back to the topic, haven't you considered that as you're cheating... you could also get the so called woman pregnant which of course she'll have to pin on another man... and someone else will have to take of your child.

nothing justifies cheating and in the long run it causes more harm than good. Simple.

U keep on mentioning men as if its them that will dance to the tune when kasala burst. since it will affect the woman more let her use her sense and ensure she prevents these cases simple! My own is that whether u cheat or not don't bring in something that's not mine to train cos what she will face will be way bigger than what she will face if she only cheated.

Gangster1ms:
Men will forever be the superior as long as they are the bread winner.. i cheat i get caught we settle(98%) but u cheat u get caught we settle (5%)

Ojoro movement but trust me wait till you find that one you won't even think of cheating on

@topic

Men I think you always know the kind of woman your with and if you can trust her but you get blinded by the material like hips and waist and forget the important qualities like empathy , Unselfishness and Forgiveness in sustaining a home. It's unfortunate but to be honest a lot of men are being deceived by some opportunistic women and it's sad and wrong.

Giving a man another mans child to raise is very selfish

Own up to your wrongs make things right even if it's not your child you must love the ones you love like they are yours

Lord God what is this world turning into? From the comments I read here it appears that women are increasingly pinning children gotten from outside on their husbands and Boyfriends. If a woman wants to cheat can't she use protection?

Gangster1ms:

I no blame u na.. just try am. thank God for technology unless u wan marry village daft man when e go shele i will love to be around to see him kick u out while u wail like d bitch u are seeking for forgiveness

What is this one saying,did you not see the ps I put there for people like you?

Please don't quote me,if you choose to continue your headache you will be ignored