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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Adebayo4all: 9:35am On Jun 10, 2017

mumu boy

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Young03(m): 9:35am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:
ma problem is dah i respect womans feeling TOO MUCH

Fee wetin, I go stay 1month I never call my Gf
she's a cheat, na only fück I de do at her
no direction

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Viking007(m): 9:36am On Jun 10, 2017

You need to go for deliverance. Attempting suicide because of a girl?

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by dadasupremacy(m): 9:36am On Jun 10, 2017

mumu have u ever heard of a Yoruba that commit succide before.we are not sucker for love.y are we called Yoruba demons

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by festusbarry(m): 9:37am On Jun 10, 2017

Frankicent:
If this story is real you a big fool..... Hmnn no wonder ladies would always have a man to make them bow down to Herr and take stupid order. This gal you plead with and even went as far committing suicide cause, of one gal.. List she had would be fine face, and...shit ass....

Lol I think I want the link too
Anywy you need help me....i go guys who can move your beta male nonchalant attitude to a bold alpha men.

In time this useless gal who almost made you committ suicide would come beg you..trust me. If you have the patience you become an alpha soon... Pm me.. make I share the group link with you.

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by 2bam: 9:37am On Jun 10, 2017

You should have commjted suicide because of one street good at nothing girl,you are a disgrace to nairalanders.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by remiopash: 9:37am On Jun 10, 2017

Dont worry yourself over her, man.Work hard and pray hard to God to take you to enviable height .Believe me,I was in your shoe before.I toasted this girl for around 3years. She told to me all through that she has someone she's dating.I waited in the sideline for around 2.5years .To cut the story short,I graduated and I got married to someone far better than her.I always burst to laughter each time i remember those days.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by pagorino(m): 9:37am On Jun 10, 2017

guy cwioxly u 4kup... gal dey treat u dz way n still dey do lyk mumu, she don give u red button say u b side guy n u still dey force yaself on her.. na polyandry relationship u wan dey run.. try put urself together n move on with ya life.. she z not worth it. but to b sincere her love make u daft o.

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by SouLPoison(m): 9:38am On Jun 10, 2017

OP, if you ever for once insulted ex president Jonathan, pls take it back embarassed

what nonsense, anybody you have insulted since your child birth, OP take it back. If it's not jazz she is using, you should be floged, you should be whipped, your case is not any worst, your making it look so, mumu. I repeat if it's not jazz you should be stoned, haba am happy we are not related. I will personally disown u . grin

rawbinsh

The sucide part annoy me, if am your mum, I go publicly embarrass you.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 9:38am On Jun 10, 2017

Guy u have the answers that u seek.walk away and be a man

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Daboomb: 9:39am On Jun 10, 2017

Greenbullet:
This op village people sabi work, how can you be so stupid enough to let a girl downgrade you to a slave, you have no principles, ode .

When is he going to commit the suicide naah? angry

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by mamakay533(m): 9:40am On Jun 10, 2017

so many people has been in your situation even I myself only that my own is not as stupid as yours.
my own love is not blind I could even see more than when I was not in love. After beating her she came back begging me.
just chill, you will get over it

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ibietela2(m): 9:40am On Jun 10, 2017

A very BIG FOOOL

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by emeraldgold1(f): 9:40am On Jun 10, 2017

i had ur type of problem too back then. loved the guy like there was no tomorrow bt he dnt even love me due to some issues in his past relationship bt i had to make him understand dat witout him i can live.make her feel she had made a terrible mistake.forget evrytin abt her n move on wit ur life.she dont worth u.raise up the rent in ur head n kick out d unnecessary people

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by TheMortician: 9:41am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?

Bro, you're not in love. You are only having the advance symptoms of Chronic low self-esteem and irrefutable inferiority complex.

You saw she was still dating her ex yet you pleaded to be a side guy. She started giving you the cold shoulders after that and you still didn't get the message, you were still begging and pleading because you're in love? Nope, you're in dire need of personal evaluation.

You attempted suicide, survived it and still resumed the begging when the mom urged you.....

Man, if Nollywood acted this, I will accuse the producers of lazy fabrication. But you lived it.

Phew !!!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by chronique(m): 9:42am On Jun 10, 2017

If you must date a girl who has a boyfriend, it should be with the intent of overthrowing the current occupant, not to be Mr anonymous. Except you just wanna shag her and have fun. It's a different ball game if you are being played but you don't know, or aren't totally sure, but still want to give the benefit of doubt. But to know, be very sure and still want to accept being the side guy, is a total no. That's a sign of weakness and inferiority complex on your part.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Afamed: 9:43am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:

am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering

No wonder. Lad you need to grow up.

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by luminouz(m): 9:43am On Jun 10, 2017

For making me read this yeye + mumu story this early morning without breakfast, u go bomb ni
Ode oshi!!! Beggi beggi boyfriend!!!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by lenghtinny(m): 9:44am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:

ma problem is dah i respect womans feeling TOO MUCH

Respect is reciprocal angry

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ibietela2(m): 9:44am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:

am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering

No wonder

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Jflex07(m): 9:44am On Jun 10, 2017

woman wrapper

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by stnkembu(m): 9:45am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:

am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering

Bros, what u're feeling right now is not love. She has given u and u don chop so teh her mum de try arrange the situation for u.

Abeg concentrate and make money... All other things (she inclusvie) will be granted unto u.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 9:45am On Jun 10, 2017

Most women don't know what they want bro, they are oftentimes controlled by feelings at a particular time.
Don't waste your time dwelling on this issue, as she has done you a favor by quitting the relationship.

Move on bro, m-o-v-e on!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by teelaw4life(m): 9:46am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?

Hello mostsimpliest, is it possible for you to chat me up? I believe i might have some helpful tips for you as you get over this girl.
You know what? Scratch the above. I'm just going to tell you whatever it is here.

I won't blame you or criticize you for having feelings. I've been involved in a lot of unrequited love type of relationships in the past. Mostly when i was in school even up till my final year. But here's the truth, having or being in a relationship is not a necessity neither is it a requirement. You're being pressured subconsciously by your environment to like a girl and have a relationship with her.
Frankly, your sole focus at this time should be making money any other thing that comes with it is a bonus. If a girl comes along and you like her, tell her straight up, if she can't give you a direct answer, move on bro (there's no time). If she says yes, all good but just know that you're in for another wahala. You have to inflate your own value cause no one will bro.
It's not easy, but you just have to set aside all things related to girls, enjoy your life, take yourself out on a date and treat yourself to a fancy meal at a fancy restaurant. Or if you're like me, carry 5k minimum enter market buy ugu, pepper, egusi, full chicken, dried fish and make yourself some delicious vegetable soup (i can give you directions on how to cook it) down the soup with some nice eba, amala, semo or any swallow you prefer. But i go off-point, never let your happiness and emotional state be determined by your attachment to another person most especially a girl.
You can still contact me bro so i offer you step-by-step and on-the-go advice. You're great man. All the best.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by LieDetector(m): 9:46am On Jun 10, 2017

Frankicent:
If this story is real you a big fool..... Hmnn no wonder ladies would always have a man to make them bow down to Herr and take stupid order. This gal you plead with and even went as far committing suicide cause, of one gal.. List she had would be fine face, and...shit ass....

Anywy you need help me....i go guys who can move your beta male nonchalant attitude to a bold alpha men.

In time this useless gal who almost made you committ suicide would come beg you..trust me. If you have the patience you become an alpha soon... Pm me.. make I share the group link with you.

Emetichinyere@gmail.com

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ibietela2(m): 9:48am On Jun 10, 2017

Aderola15:

Don't call her, leave things be just the way they are. If you guys cross paths again, just do the normal pleasantries and move along.

If you call that girl, I wee find you and use you for money rituals...

Aahh aunty take it easy

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Sterope(f): 9:49am On Jun 10, 2017

cc mostsimpliest

Ignore people joor.

You are not the first sucker for love and you won't be the last. Shit happens. It is an experience you should learn from. Don't let it change you do the worst however you should probably try to be less clingy, be more assertive and more often than not put your emotional health first-I am not asking you to be selfish but you should learn to balance your interest with your partner's.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by DanseMacabre(m): 9:49am On Jun 10, 2017

7footre:
Really Jesus don't you have male friends or an elder brother or even elderly cousins? How can you be such a woss as a guy? You need lessons from them so that You can man up and start acting like a goddam man

It is such effeminate men that made okonkwo commit suicide in things fall apart

The bolded got me in stitches. You made my day man.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 9:49am On Jun 10, 2017

mostsimpliest:

ma problem is dah i respect womans feeling TOO MUCH

1st you should start by changing your monicker, then learn to differentiate love from infatuation, which is hurtful and which is helpful...love is a 2way thing, anything outside that is your hormones playing with your head as it is now. 3rdly, learn to love yourself above everything else, it sounds selfish, but thats how life is supposed to be...do your best to be the best for you always, not the best for others till you meet someone who understands you and these principles...

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by mixter(m): 9:49am On Jun 10, 2017

We humans always try to exploit people who are honest ad term them weak. Just move on. Do not call her again, I repeat do not call her again,preferably, delete her number. You just need to stop acting weak and give yourself time to heal. Its just a phase one of us needs to experience and go through. Wish you well in your endeavor.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by hillsiderfak(m): 9:49am On Jun 10, 2017

You better face ur education , you be doing rubbish and be asking nairalander for advice. Get a life young man

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by yoruBADboi(m): 9:51am On Jun 10, 2017

Better craze dey your head

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