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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by crackhouse(m): 9:51am On Jun 10, 2017
Op u deserve a full blown and dirty slap. It's like u find it difficult to woo ladies and u manage to get this one and it's becoming difficult to let go.
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Mekzy02(m): 9:51am On Jun 10, 2017
TheMortician:
Bro, you're not in love. You are only having the advance symptoms of Chronic low self-esteem and irrefutable inferiority complex.

You saw she was still dating her ex yet you pleaded to be a side guy. She started giving you the cold shoulders after that and you still didn't get the message, you were still begging and pleading because you're in love? Nope, you're in dire need of personal evaluation.

You attempted suicide, survived it and still resumed the begging when the mom urged you.....

Man, if Nollywood acted this, I will insult the producers of lazy fabrication. But you lived it.

Phew !!!
LMAO! Savage!
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ibietela2(m): 9:52am On Jun 10, 2017
Snitch41:
not in Nigeria. Nigerian chicks are stubborn if u are a broke guy. Don't listen or give u d proper attention. Dey clING to the loaded or player types. Bad boys sha. . Build ur principles, if yo lucky u meet a gud girl, else marry a foreigner. Even tho its a Ghanaian.

Where you wan see foreigners for this country?
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by wadetaw202: 9:52am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:

thanks dear...have moved on just dah i find it hard believing in love again

Stop thus story about not believing in love. Not as if you were the main person. You were a side guy and she tipd you so from the start. So, why all these stories? What were you expecting before when u were told you were just an option?
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by AkupeMBANO(f): 9:53am On Jun 10, 2017
Abumtestimony1:
Guy you're highly immature and too infantile. It's obvious that the girl don't really love you but you are just forcing yourself on her, that's y she is treating you that way. your are just a spare tire for her. You're probably in year final and still behaving like this...
that guy na certified fvck boy
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 10, 2017
You are a fool in love. Move on there is nothing you can do to get that girl.

mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by tegafej(m): 9:53am On Jun 10, 2017
I feel angry reading the story...
some girls though

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by no1madman(m): 9:55am On Jun 10, 2017
Most foolish!
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by opedaydydx9(m): 9:56am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?
oloribooo okunrin reo
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by chykes5000(m): 9:56am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?
Guy don't act like a mugu, let her out of your life and stay busy chasing your dreams. Be successful that's your only revenge
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Kobicove(m): 9:56am On Jun 10, 2017
You're very immature... undecided

By the way how old are you?
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by 7footre(m): 9:58am On Jun 10, 2017
DanseMacabre:



grin grin grin grin grin

The bolded got me in stitches. You made my day man.

Lol bro, the pained my soul I swear down. My elder bro will beat the living Jesus out of this one gan begging a girl who cheated severally!! Haba

Happy to have relieved some stress... do have a good day
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ogbiwa: 9:58am On Jun 10, 2017
umuazi angry
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Afamed: 9:59am On Jun 10, 2017
Hope no be say na so u dey form Mumu among your colleagues in the school.

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Transcends: 9:59am On Jun 10, 2017
Nina4u:
LOVE DONT COST A THING AND LOVE SURE AS HELL DONT HURT..
TRUE!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ogbiwa: 10:00am On Jun 10, 2017
7footre:
Really Jesus don't you have male friends or an elder brother or even elderly cousins? How can you be such a woss as a guy? You need lessons from them so that You can man up and start acting like a goddam man

It is such effeminate men that made okonkwo commit suicide in things fall apart
grin
7footre:
Really Jesus don't you have male friends or an elder brother or even elderly cousins? How can you be such a woss as a guy? You need lessons from them so that You can man up and start acting like a goddam man

It is such effeminate men that made okonkwo commit suicide in things fall apart
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Cmyname(m): 10:01am On Jun 10, 2017
Bro, looks like you took advantage of their situation to get what you want? Relationships are full of ups and downs atimes, and in some cases people solve their indifferences and get back together even stronger. Sucide is not an option here. You need help really, you are still young with great life ahead. You idolized her and she took advantage to lord over you. Move on Bro.

Side Note: It is not always good to take advantage of people's failures atleast in cases like this.

Read and Laugh: You can take advantage of defenders failures and score in a football match bla bla etc.

Your sideBF acceptance is joke, seriously? Anyway you remind me of one of my lecturer back then in the uni, he said it doesnt matter if a woman has numerous BF's, as long as he is counted among the list, he is ok.
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by jeromeoke(m): 10:01am On Jun 10, 2017
winkthe most stupid fool ever liveth, kill your self because of woman, and you accept to be spare part, and you even beg her, in short Waka, because after reading this story it remind me of my worst nightmare which I don't want to remember, in my case I was under the influence of tramadol, please say no to drug, in short another Waka

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by maxiuc(m): 10:01am On Jun 10, 2017
Haha haha laugh wan tear my pants

Not All things are to be posted online

Very shameful

When a baby is in love
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:01am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?




move on...

There are so many cute girls in Naija, why have you chosen to lose your self respect and dignity because of one girl?

If a girl doesn't value you, or respects you, there is no way in this world she will love you. Move on, and stop this emotional bully. This babe doesn't want you, stop pushing it.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by macaranta(m): 10:02am On Jun 10, 2017
What Kind Of Emotional Rollercoaster Is This , its Capable Of Destroying you OP
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by SeniorZato(m): 10:03am On Jun 10, 2017
Next time, post the girl pictures make we analyze. She could be a mami water who knows
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by maxiuc(m): 10:03am On Jun 10, 2017
Frankicent:
If this story is real you a big fool..... Hmnn no wonder ladies would always have a man to make them bow down to Herr and take stupid order. This gal you plead with and even went as far committing suicide cause, of one gal.. List she had would be fine face, and...shit ass....


Anywy you need help me....i go guys who can move your beta male nonchalant attitude to a bold alpha men. grin

In time this useless gal who almost made you committ suicide would come beg you..trust me. If you have the patience you become an alpha soon... Pm me.. make I share the group link with you.

Very fat fool he his

I can't stop laughing
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ivyy(f): 10:03am On Jun 10, 2017
Dumbest story ever. undecided

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by coolluk(m): 10:03am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?

This guy sounds dumb
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:04am On Jun 10, 2017

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by harbjar(m): 10:05am On Jun 10, 2017
Bibi294:
Try to get over her... Meet new people,make more female friends and forget about her... She's not worth the stress... Sle loves you but she's as confused as u r.... Guy, u b correct fine guy o... Y person go dey use una do second option
Since you have acknowledged that he is cute why don't you write application letter and try to fill the voided space in his heart... lipsrsealed

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by michelz: 10:05am On Jun 10, 2017
OP,honestly,you deserved to be flogged.
How can a girl,one girl like that make you to start considering suicide?
Is your destiny tied with hers?
Let me tell you: there are billions of girls all over the world. What makes you think that this particular girl is the one for you no matter what you've done for her or all both of you have been together?
Better wake of from your deep slumber and realize that you have a destiny distinct from that girl.
Use this opportunity to develop yourself; make yourself a better person as much as you can; become the best in your chosen field and watch everything fall on your feet.
Women are helpers; and you can definitely do without a female helping hand to achieve your destiny.
Wake up!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by BamideleOJ: 10:05am On Jun 10, 2017
Who dash this kinda story FP sef.
Woman Don finish for life ?
u knew u guys had compatibility issues, you went on
you were made side guy, u went on
she dumps you eventually, u r crying
what on earth is your age no sef.
Guy comot for road make better ppl come.
No remorse. Seriously

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by victorazy(m): 10:05am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:

just to make sure there is no grudges attached....dont wanna cont. keeping malice with her.dassall

Guy so your the guy I was maybe sharing my babe with. You school in Ekiti? What is her name.
Plz reply let's talk
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ceejayluv(m): 10:06am On Jun 10, 2017
was in such emotionally draining situation few months back. dating this girl, ended up proposing to her, arranging for intro and some ex shows up from nowhere and proposes to her as well..... Ah, the dreaded love triangle. Had to allow her make her choice, i lost out. sucked it up, the feelings almost affected my health though, but i haven't contacted her since then. She later blocks me on social media a month later. kept quiet. The yeye new fiance even called me some weeks back asking me some dumb questions of my relationship with his girl. Told him it's all bygone now.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Ayoguy(m): 10:06am On Jun 10, 2017
This is what happens when you watch too much nollywood films and Telemundos!!..Bros jst forget her and don't make such mistakes again

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