I think you should have gotten used to it by now


But if its as bad sd you claim. Remove all fear in you and Just talk to him in a very polite manner. You should have been dropping hints since.


Or ask your mother or a respected elder to help you if the first option fails

Dont stop until you reach a concensus

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much" and by saying too much I did not mean he's crazy or something, I mean he talks sensible thing for an absurd long period of time.

Let me use 5 out of million of scenario to define my case.

1. Anytime the family is complete inside the house, and everyone is quiet; busy with something, I browsing on my phone, my little brother playing video game, my sister using beads, mum watching TV and my dad? Talking. When it is very obvious that no one cares to listen, he continue talking.

2. If any of my friends came to visit me, they will become my dad's guest. From the very first moment they say "Good morning" to him, he started talking, asking them questions, essp about their work, school, and talking about his own life too. Like what is happening now, I can see awkward smile on their face as they listen but just don't want to walk away leaving him embarrassed.

3. One day, I was chatting with girlfriend till late in the night, he woke up and say a light in the male children's room, he came in and started accusing me of internet fraud. We talked and talked till we settle it at dawn. From 2 to 4.30. In the morning, my dad started the topic with my mum again.

4. He talks every seconds when he is in the house or when anyone is with him.

5. He make anyone he saw with me (or any of my siblings) to introduce themselves. Indoor or outdoor.

I don't usually talk about my family affair with people but nobody knows me here or my dad.

I just want to know how to handle situation like this because I've started thinking of leaving the house. Maybe I'll learn to accept him when I don't see him everyday.

See? He is starting already... continues to talk when I'm not even looking at him.

Evablizin:
Sorry dear you can't do anything about it one day you will have your own house and leave the house for him but make sure you are not carrying his gene of talking too much which will manifest later lols

Bless u

My experience in life has shown be that those who complain most about their parents most time end up like them. Be careful, you might have developed you daddy's traits. What you cant change,you pray for strength to endure. You sure don't think you can change your dad now.

It must be his personality. You should know that by now. I'm sure your mom does and loves him just the way he is.

Embrace and accept him. Appreciate your parents while they're still here. Just smile everytime he's being talkative.

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much" and by saying too much I did not mean he's crazy or something, I mean he talks sensible thing for an absurd long period of time.

Let me use 5 out of million of scenario to define my case.

1. Anytime the family is complete inside the house, and everyone is quiet; busy with something, I browsing on my phone, my little brother playing video game, my sister using beads, mum watching TV and my dad? Talking. When it is very obvious that no one cares to listen, he continue talking.

2. If any of my friends came to visit me, they will become my dad's guest. From the very first moment they say "Good morning" to him, he started talking, asking them questions, essp about their work, school, and talking about his own life too. Like what is happening now, I can see awkward smile on their face as they listen but just don't want to walk away leaving him embarrassed.

3. One day, I was chatting with girlfriend till late in the night, he woke up and say a light in the male children's room, he came in and started accusing me of internet fraud. We talked and talked till we settle it at dawn. From 2 to 4.30. In the morning, my dad started the topic with my mum again.

4. He talks every seconds when he is in the house or when anyone is with him.

5. He make anyone he saw with me (or any of my siblings) to introduce themselves. Indoor or outdoor.

I don't usually talk about my family affair with people but nobody knows me here or my dad.

I just want to know how to handle situation like this because I've started thinking of leaving the house. Maybe I'll learn to accept him when I don't see him everyday.

See? He is starting already... continues to talk when I'm not even looking at him.

Life is a cycle
Your kids will tell you the same

Ishilove:
I don't see what the problem is... He's your father. If you are not used to him by now then when will you be used to him? Is it when he has gone to a place where you can't reach him?

If you feel embarrassed about how he relates with your friends then keep them away from your home. Simple.

Some have shoes, but have no legs, some have legs, but have no shoes. Meanwhile those that have legs and shoes are complaining about the shoes.

Enjoy him while you can because there are many out there who will give almost anything to have a father.

He's still a kid. A time will come when he'll understand that a dad is like a roof over any young man's head even when he's bedridden.

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much" and by saying too much I did not mean he's crazy or something, I mean he talks sensible thing for an absurd long period of time.

Let me use 5 out of million of scenario to define my case.

1. Anytime the family is complete inside the house, and everyone is quiet; busy with something, I browsing on my phone, my little brother playing video game, my sister using beads, mum watching TV and my dad? Talking. When it is very obvious that no one cares to listen, he continue talking.

2. If any of my friends came to visit me, they will become my dad's guest. From the very first moment they say "Good morning" to him, he started talking, asking them questions, essp about their work, school, and talking about his own life too. Like what is happening now, I can see awkward smile on their face as they listen but just don't want to walk away leaving him embarrassed.

3. One day, I was chatting with girlfriend till late in the night, he woke up and say a light in the male children's room, he came in and started accusing me of internet fraud. We talked and talked till we settle it at dawn. From 2 to 4.30. In the morning, my dad started the topic with my mum again.

4. He talks every seconds when he is in the house or when anyone is with him.

5. He make anyone he saw with me (or any of my siblings) to introduce themselves. Indoor or outdoor.

I don't usually talk about my family affair with people but nobody knows me here or my dad.

I just want to know how to handle situation like this because I've started thinking of leaving the house. Maybe I'll learn to accept him when I don't see him everyday.

See? He is starting already... continues to talk when I'm not even looking at him.

Its very easy to deal with a garrulous person , just don't argue or engage in the conversation; always ignore , pay no attention or just walk away . Or you can take the high road and be bluntly honest with the person , tell him that he talks too much . If you approach this in a calm and mild manner , you may not get the desired results . A stern confrontation works best because of the shame and mortification that accompanies it - it calls for sober reflection . He's gona resent you for acting the way you did , but keep your distance physically and emotionally till the 'wound' heals for best results . You can win back his love through gifts and hearty good morning texts .

electroilorin:
My guy there is nothing u can do about it ... just keep ur very personal affairs far away from home..... and live you life when you are in school, work or outside ... what i do at situations like that is "try get the slightest befitting excuse to walk out... and run til later....

frm the look of things,the guy is the one talking too much, why would he bring his dad matter to social media for such discussion....u have to appreciate what u have no matter what,some people wish the have a nagging father but the don't n u r here complaining of talking too much.....

electroilorin:
My guy there is nothing u can do about it ... just keep ur very personal affairs far away from home..... and live you life when you are in school, work or outside ... what i do at situations like that is "try get the slightest befitting excuse to walk out... and run til later....

frm the look of things,the guy is the one talking too much, why would he bring his dad matter to social media for such discussion....u have to appreciate what u have no matter what,some people wish the have a nagging father but the don't n u r here complaining of talking too much..

electroilorin:
My guy there is nothing u can do about it ... just keep ur very personal affairs far away from home..... and live you life when you are in school, work or outside ... what i do at situations like that is "try get the slightest befitting excuse to walk out... and run til later....

frm the look of things,the guy is the one talking too much, why would he bring his dad matter to social media for such discussion....u have to appreciate what u have no matter what,some people wish the have a nagging father but the don't n u r here complaining of talking too much.

feelgoodInc:

I'm not sure you had a father when you were growing up, that's because your mama was a joke, you're a low life B. A. S. T. A. R. D
fnnk the mods.

You accuse someone of insulting someone's father, and then go on to insult his mother . . . I dont understand this.

electroilorin:
My guy there is nothing u can do about it ... just keep ur very personal affairs far away from home..... and live you life when you are in school, work or outside ... what i do at situations like that is "try get the slightest befitting excuse to walk out... and run til later....

frm the look of things,the guy is the one talking too much, why would he bring his dad matter to social media for such discussion....u have to appreciate what u have no matter what,some people wish the have a nagging father but the don't n u r here complaining of talking too much.[color=#990000][/color]

urs is better.mine is confuse when we agree on one tin today tomorrow he get angry when u remind him about wat u discuss d other day.well DAT all in d pass now.I don't stay wit him anymore

Create a Nairaland account for your father and I'll follow.

He might be suffering from logorrhea(excessive talking). Just buy him a lot of chewing gum, to keep him mute.

I will give anything to hear my father talk again.

OP

Just imagine that one day, your father that talks too much had a stroke and he wasn't talking anymore. Days past, weeks past and months past but he still wasn't able to talk. Bro, you will be the one wishing he could start rapping like Bone thugs.

Don't wish for what you can't handle, I am talking from experience. This your father that you insult for talking too much, one day, you will need him to even say one word but he can't or he would not be there and do you know what you will do? You will cry and weep like a baby.

You have 24 hrs in a day, spend at least 2 hours in talking to father. Make your father feel special, he deserves it. Your own time will come and will wish your children could talk to you.

@OP, I have a friend whose father stopped talking because they removed his tongue as a result of cancer.

My friend would pay billions of Naira to trade places with you.

BTW: why are you still living at home? Are you a young buzu?

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much"

Have him registered with Guinness World Records see if he can win "talkative of the year."

I think your dad is very much extroverted, and his family isn't giving him enough attention. That probably is why he looks for every opportunity to get you to talk, even if it means unnecessary accusations. He needs friends. Once in a while, take the initiative and reach out to him. He is your father.

Op, see as youve made some senseless goats here made fun of your father... I hope u re happy now??
Things of d house shld remain indoors.

Me wey my papa don die nko.Op, abeg u no get issue. I wish my papa dey alive even if he talks from morning till night...

People dey miss their dads this one is complaining about his dad talking too much ... Oga wait when he eventually dies ,maybe that's when he stops annoying you

you should thank God you have a caring dad. Dad

op, please do not insult the old man. you people should also create time and discuss with him. not all the time you will be busy playing video game, browsing. etc. what happens to the health communications among the members of the family?

Ginaz:


He wasn't just a grandfather to me, he took up the father role when my dad was no where to be found. And cos of it I never lacked a father figure in my life, he named me, raised me and he was the one who taught me how to read and write. Every Sunday he would read to me the book of Bible story, till I was out of junior secondary school he kept reading.

A week before he died he begged me to come live with him but cos of his overbearing talks I refused. The day he died all I could remember was him begging for me to come stay with him for a week. I took him for granted, I should have stayed if I knew that was the last time I would see him. The feelings of regret I went through I won't wish it on anyone....it was soul breaking.

He was the best but a talker, even worst than the o.p's father.

I wish I could bring him back to life and tell him I love him, I never told him that.

very touching
this thing I want to share I hope it's true life, make this story no be deceiving story...o

emmy4lov:
old age is telling on your dad...

just like my dad, he can advise for africa and my granny, she sleeps at any time even on phone calls.

there's nothing we can do about it but just keep on helping them not embarrassing them. .

you can talk to your dad directly or through your mum. say dad do you notice you talk a lot, jokingly and politely

then when ever he is at it again, just say "daddy! !!" , he'll code and stop.




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the best comment ever.

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much" and by saying too much I did not mean he's crazy or something, I mean he talks sensible thing for an absurd long period of time.

Let me use 5 out of million of scenario to define my case.

1. Anytime the family is complete inside the house, and everyone is quiet; busy with something, I browsing on my phone, my little brother playing video game, my sister using beads, mum watching TV and my dad? Talking. When it is very obvious that no one cares to listen, he continue talking.

2. If any of my friends came to visit me, they will become my dad's guest. From the very first moment they say "Good morning" to him, he started talking, asking them questions, essp about their work, school, and talking about his own life too. Like what is happening now, I can see awkward smile on their face as they listen but just don't want to walk away leaving him embarrassed.

3. One day, I was chatting with girlfriend till late in the night, he woke up and say a light in the male children's room, he came in and started accusing me of internet fraud. We talked and talked till we settle it at dawn. From 2 to 4.30. In the morning, my dad started the topic with my mum again.

4. He talks every seconds when he is in the house or when anyone is with him.

5. He make anyone he saw with me (or any of my siblings) to introduce themselves. Indoor or outdoor.

I don't usually talk about my family affair with people but nobody knows me here or my dad.

I just want to know how to handle situation like this because I've started thinking of leaving the house. Maybe I'll learn to accept him when I don't see him everyday.

See? He is starting already... continues to talk when I'm not even looking at him.

Leave his house nah he sent you to come and live in his house?


Let him talk!!

DY20:
Hi Nairalanders!

"My dad talks too much" and by saying too much I did not mean he's crazy or something, I mean he talks sensible thing for an absurd long period of time.

Let me use 5 out of million of scenario to define my case.

1. Anytime the family is complete inside the house, and everyone is quiet; busy with something, I browsing on my phone, my little brother playing video game, my sister using beads, mum watching TV and my dad? Talking. When it is very obvious that no one cares to listen, he continue talking.

2. If any of my friends came to visit me, they will become my dad's guest. From the very first moment they say "Good morning" to him, he started talking, asking them questions, essp about their work, school, and talking about his own life too. Like what is happening now, I can see awkward smile on their face as they listen but just don't want to walk away leaving him embarrassed.

3. One day, I was chatting with girlfriend till late in the night, he woke up and say a light in the male children's room, he came in and started accusing me of internet fraud. We talked and talked till we settle it at dawn. From 2 to 4.30. In the morning, my dad started the topic with my mum again.

4. He talks every seconds when he is in the house or when anyone is with him.

5. He make anyone he saw with me (or any of my siblings) to introduce themselves. Indoor or outdoor.

I don't usually talk about my family affair with people but nobody knows me here or my dad.

I just want to know how to handle situation like this because I've started thinking of leaving the house. Maybe I'll learn to accept him when I don't see him everyday.

See? He is starting already... continues to talk when I'm not even looking at him.

Just bear with him until you settle down

feelgoodInc:

your real dad.

You are too daft to get a joke. Stupid frustrated people everywhere

emmy4lov:
old age is telling on your dad...

just like my dad, he can advise for africa and my granny, she sleeps at any time even on phone calls.

there's nothing we can do about it but just keep on helping them not embarrassing them. .

you can talk to your dad directly or through your mum. say dad do you notice you talk a lot, jokingly and politely

then when ever he is at it again, just say "daddy! !!" , he'll code and stop.




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Good advice

NwaAmaikpe:

Put spiders in your dad's food

They will spin webs in his throat and he won't be able to talk much.

this guy is also us senseless

NPComplete:


You are too daft to get a joke. Stupid frustrated people everywhere

I'm taking this as a joke hahaha.