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Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
So I have this question that caused controversy today while I was hanging out with some female friends from church. About 8 of us. 2 Guys, 6 ladies. So I said jokingly that I would never marry a lady that has never cooked for me OR that I have never eating her food. If a lady says she can cook and I have never eaten her food, How do I then believe that she can actually do what she says ? O boy, come and see how these ladies reacted angrily. Saying stuff like Oh, So you want marry a servant that would just be cooking for you, Women are not your servants oh, blah blah blah. Their main point was: If a lady says she can cook, A man should take her for her word. She can decide to cook out of her own will, she can also decide she will never cook while courting I had to just calm the ladies down with jokes & pet them, make dem no come break my head. And I'm wondering, Does this even make any sense ? 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by NwaAmaikpe: 6:04pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Not at all.... It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner. That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard. 219 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by thesicilian: 6:06pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
I'd never buy a car without test-driving it. 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: But No sex relationship is actually okay. Not like No cooking relationship 106 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by subtlemee(f): 6:16pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
What if she buys food and package it like she cooked it since you are so bent on food testing,how will you now ascertain her cooking prowess before deciding to marry her? Na God dey bless person for this marriage thing OP,no be by our might,if e good you thank am,e no good still thank am 133 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Caustics: 6:18pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
why would you do it? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Caustics: 6:22pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish 165 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by dominique(f): 6:24pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
There are a handful of meals I couldn't cook properly before I married and now I'm an expert at cooking them. Never use something like food as a yardstick for choosing a life partner. If she cooks fantastic meals and has a rotten attitude, will you still go ahead and marry such girl? 153 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Evablizin(f): 6:24pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:HOLY PROPHET 25 Likes
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Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Epositive(m): 6:25pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
thesicilian:even if it's tokunbo NwaAmaikpe: your own lie enh @op, seeing is believing , Moreover, a good cook(lady) is half-way to my heart,,,, i'm not a very good fan of eateries and restaurants #positivevibes 9 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Evablizin(f): 6:30pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Guys wether directly or indirectly try make she cook food for you,so that you will know what you are venturing into if not nearby seller will be your second home after marriage. period 63 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by carzola(m): 6:39pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
There are two types of food Which one are you talking about @op... Well its good to eat the two Before marriage so you can Be sure of what your paying for.. I have a friend that his mum is a Terrible cook.. They hv to eat outside Everyday.. 8 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
If she says she can cook and he doesn't trust her words, then marriage probably shouldn't be their next venture. Why marry someone you don't trust? The lack of trust is the bigger issue here. 29 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by flexxyworld(m): 6:57pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
dominique: don't forget the wise say that says ' a way too a man's heart his is stomach (literally food)', so food is a biggie in the Marriage and family, moreover you only perfected your cooking skills cus you wished and wanted too but does not apply too others. my general advise is; if you are comfortable with what she is right now, gladly walk her down the altar or else 'flee'. 7 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Ishilove: 7:37pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: 31 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Ishilove: 7:43pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
My neighbour's wife is a terrible cook but their marriage is waxing strong (I think) so food shouldn't be a yardstick. However, If a lady says she can cook please don't take her word for it. Find a way to lure her into cooking for you at least once. Feign illness or something but just get her to cook, otherwise you will spend the rest of your married life eating tasteless and flavourless meals like my poor neighbour. The taste of the porridge is in the eating. Cooking for your man once in a while doesn't make you a slave to him. 85 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by sisisioge: 8:12pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
If I were a guy, I won't even marry a lady I haven't emmm let alone eaten her food. I'm a Christian! Let no body quote me. 8 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by bukatyne(f): 8:18pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
@OP: On one hand, you should be able to bank on the words of your would be wife... On another hand, Trust but verify. Except you have a very religious courtship, there will be opportunities to 'test' her cooking skills. If you are doing religious courtship, both of you go to the market/ branch market when going to her family house and 'cook together'. 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
dominique: But what i'm curiosity about is , did you atleast cook for your husband while courting? Whether you were perfect then or not. No matter how good a girl's attitude is, if her food is bad, how will the marriage work? 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NotOfThis: OK great contribution . I guess it would be save to say. I don't have a job as a guy but then i tell you not to worry, that I have potentials and that you should just trust me and let's get married and live happily ever after. what will be your response? 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by TheeDetective: 9:35pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
It’s very easy for a woman to say she can cook; but when you eat the food she cooked, that’s when you will know if she can cook or not. Why would she not want to cook for her man? It’s not as if she will cook all the time during the courtship but at least you DEFINITELY need to know if the lady you want to marry can cook or not. If she no fit cook, then make she go cooking class or learn via YouTube videos. NOBODY should say they can’t cook in this 21st century be it male or female as there are so many avenues to learn how to cook including YouTube videos. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Khonifer: 9:40pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
cruchenuti: Concerning your last sentence. You do know she can simply learn to cook after the marriage right? Its not rocket science 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Khonifer: So why hasn't she tried to learn on her own? why wait after you start having issues with your husband concerning little things like food 13 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by hezy4real01(m): 9:59pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Haha how is that possible naw, u must have tested her food while dating now, abi na online dating ? 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by pmc01(m): 9:59pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Na your type dey marry wife wey go dey carry manual cook last last. |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Caustics: 9:59pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:Hahaaaaaaaaaaa |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by LexngtonSteele: 10:01pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
BUYER BEWARE... Promise you that you would regret buying a car without a full test-drive |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
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Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by tintingz(m): 10:01pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Are you marrying her because you love her or because of food? If you want her to be your cook, you can employ her to start cooking for you. Don't be deceived, many girls can deceive you to be professional in cooking but they are simply buying food in nearest mama put, Iya basira, Mr Biggs. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Agree To Marry A Lady Without Ever Eating Her Food ? by softbwoy01(m): 10:01pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
2 boiz nd six qalz,hmmmmm,wickedess,so wen d pastor was preachin,u wer busy tinkin abawt women cookin fr dem husband or not,oohhh God,it is well 1 Like |
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