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Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by purity22(f): 11:39pm On Jun 15, 2017
PLEASE BEFORE YOU CRUCIFY ME READ THIS!

My junior cousin is staying with me. She is an orphan who lost her parents @a very tender age (10) she was rejected by her elder ones who she shared the same either same father or father.
Her mother got married to her father's elder brother when she was younger and after giving birth to 3 children the man died so she letter got married to her late husband's younger brother some how along the lines they splited after giving birth to two kids. She then move to the third born in the family and gave birth to a son who is late now. After that she moved to the fourth born and got married to him, Her children called a meeting and asked her to stop jumping around and live the fourth man alone or they will never help her or any child she will give birth to but she refused to listen to them
She eventually concieved and gave birth to this my cousin and she mysteriously fell ill and died with only this my cousin with only her. After her death, the fourth man died 5 years letter. Since then she has been running from one place to another no one to help her until she came across a man who married her @ the age of 15years. The Marriage couldn't last because he was afraid she might behave like her mother so he had to divorced her after she gave birth to a baby boy
When she left the marriage, no one was ready to accept her in his or her house until she had to come to a small town to work in a restaurant where I met her. I have been seeing her around but I never new we are related until I tried cautioning her about the life am seeing their madam was making them live. The madam makes them to sleep with men that needs girls for a night. As I was talking to her, I asked her her surname and she called my maternal grandfather's name that was when I knew she is my sister cause my mum is from their family.
That very day, I forced her to quit the job in the restaurant, and I enrolled her in learning of saloon (hair dressing) since she quit the restaurant job, she lost her accommodation too so I pleaded with my husband to let her stay before I can look for a place for her to stay. Since she came to my house she has been behaving herself (3months Now she has been staying with me).
Just last week she fell ill and I took her to the hospital and after under going surgery for apendixsiatis we were asked to take her for scanning when the result came out I was told that she is pregnant for 15weeks. Initially when she was operated non of her blood agreed to contribute for her bills so my husband got angry and asked me to tell her to leave his house. I pleaded with him to let her recover first.
Now when I told her about the pregnancy she was shocked cause she has been menstruating and have even saw how she got stained with blood. When I told her that she can no longer stay with me, she fell down to her knees and held my feet that if I send her away from my house then she have no where to go she cried and pleaded with me that if I let her go she would end her life, the most annoying part is that she doesn't even know who got her pregnant. Base on my calculations she came to my house when she was 3weeks pregnant.
Please I don't know what to do she is just 20 years now I need advice please
Mods please help me do the needful
Please Border about my English
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by MrOdyssey(m): 11:42pm On Jun 15, 2017
Follow your heart and let your conscience be your judge.
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 15, 2017
Just 20 years and she don born full ground yafuyafu?

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Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by Greenbullet(m): 11:46pm On Jun 15, 2017
Abeg dis your cousin , she be pig?

Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by MostBanned: 11:50pm On Jun 15, 2017
Abeg next time, write in your native dialect......headache Just dey worry me undecided

Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by whitebeard(m): 11:51pm On Jun 15, 2017
What nonsense is that..!! Pls I.yam not understand

Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by marsoden: 11:52pm On Jun 15, 2017
Thou shall not kill!
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by RichieDaVinci01(m): 11:59pm On Jun 15, 2017
She married her husband later she married the husbands elder brother ,the elder brother died so she married his younger brother later he died so she married the last born

What the actual fvck shocked shocked

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Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by westlius(m): 11:59pm On Jun 15, 2017
please madam don't send her packing because she is pregnant, abort the pregnancy even do it's wrong but do so bcoz she may not know the man who pregnanted her bcoz of her previous work.
she needs counseling, deliverance, Love and proper education, she will change.
she sees u as person who will change her for the better
her mom curse or mistake will not happen to her
she needs encouragement
plead with ur husband
PLEASE

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Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by Nobody: 12:05am On Jun 16, 2017
westlius:
please madam don't send her packing because she is pregnant, abort the pregnancy even do it's wrong but do so bcoz she may not know the man who pregnanted her bcoz of her previous work.
she needs counseling, deliverance, Love and proper education, she will change.
she sees u as person who will change her for the better
her mom curse or mistake will not happen to her
she needs encouragement
plead with ur husband
PLEASE
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by purity22(f): 12:13am On Jun 16, 2017
westlius:
please madam don't send her packing because she is pregnant, abort the pregnancy even do it's wrong but do so bcoz she may not know the man who pregnanted her bcoz of her previous work.
she needs counseling, deliverance, Love and proper education, she will change.
she sees u as person who will change her for the better
her mom curse or mistake will not happen to her
she needs encouragement
plead with ur husband
PLEASE

Thank you so much for your kind words. God I need strength, help me Lord I need you more than ever. Please I want to be in your prayers always
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by purity22(f): 12:19am On Jun 16, 2017
MostBanned:
Abeg next time, write in your native dialect......headache Just dey worry me undecided
Thanks

Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by purity22(f): 12:22am On Jun 16, 2017
Greenbullet:
Abeg dis your cousin , she be pig?

She is not a pig. She wouldn't have been in this condition if fate smile @ her
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by purity22(f): 12:24am On Jun 16, 2017
Greenbullet:
Abeg dis your cousin , she be pig?

She is not a pig. She wouldn't have been in this Situation if fate 'd smile on her
Re: Help Me Am So Worried And Confused! Should I Help Abort My Cousin' Pregnancy? by Greenbullet(m): 12:43am On Jun 16, 2017
purity22:


She is not a pig. She wouldn't have been in this Situation if fate 'd smile on her
correction , she would not have been in this situation if she had self control.

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