DeGuyNxtDoor:
There's this girl whose parents are divorced and she now stays with her strict dad while her mum married immediately after the divorce. This girl who happens to be a virgin, good character and naive revealed something so bad to me yesterday (which is same day this thing happened). She trusts me, takes me as her guidian, she takes me as her brother and everything, although we got to know each other from this ponzi stuff back then and since then, she asked me to be her friend which I agreed. She discusses everything with me, she calls always to seek for advice and so on.

So yesterday, she flashed me, I called her back and asked how she was doing and she said she's fine and that she wants to tell me sormething, I asked her if its good or bad news and she said its bad almost crying, immediately, I ran outta airtime and she asked me to wait so she can get airtime to call me back.

When she called back, I asked her what it was and she said (I did it today) I asked her what did she do? And she replied ( I had sex today, I was forced "crying" I calmly asked her how it happened and she said her so-called dad asked her to deliver something to a guy who's 22years of age, And when she got there, delivered it and was about leaving, then the guy asked her to come in and say hi to his sister. Immediately she stepped in, he bolted the door and forces himself on her and after he was done he said he loves her.

I asked her if she's told her dad and she said no simply because she's scared of him, " should parents make their children feel uncomfortable around them? Shouldn't it be the other way round?" I asked her if she struggled or screamed and she said the guy overpowered her and moreover there wasn't anyone in the compound then.

Now she's been crying over this and saying she doesn't know if he came inside her or not, or if she's contracted a disease or something, and that she never dreamt of losing her virginity in such manner. She said she trusts me and that's the reason why she told me so I can help her, but as her father doesn't know about this do I have anything to do in this

DeGuyNxtDoor:
There's this girl whose parents are divorced and she now stays with her strict dad while her mum married immediately after the divorce. This girl who happens to be a virgin, good character and naive revealed something so bad to me yesterday (which is same day this thing happened). She trusts me, takes me as her guidian, she takes me as her brother and everything, although we got to know each other from this ponzi stuff back then and since then, she asked me to be her friend which I agreed. She discusses everything with me, she calls always to seek for advice and so on.

So yesterday, she flashed me, I called her back and asked how she was doing and she said she's fine and that she wants to tell me sormething, I asked her if its good or bad news and she said its bad almost crying, immediately, I ran outta airtime and she asked me to wait so she can get airtime to call me back.

When she called back, I asked her what it was and she said (I did it today) I asked her what did she do? And she replied ( I had sex today, I was forced "crying" I calmly asked her how it happened and she said her so-called dad asked her to deliver something to a guy who's 22years of age, And when she got there, delivered it and was about leaving, then the guy asked her to come in and say hi to his sister. Immediately she stepped in, he bolted the door and forces himself on her and after he was done he said he loves her.

I asked her if she's told her dad and she said no simply because she's scared of him, " should parents make their children feel uncomfortable around them? Shouldn't it be the other way round?" I asked her if she struggled or screamed and she said the guy overpowered her and moreover there wasn't anyone in the compound then.

Now she's been crying over this and saying she doesn't know if he came inside her or not, or if she's contracted a disease or something, and that she never dreamt of losing her virginity in such manner. She said she trusts me and that's the reason why she told me so I can help her, but as her father doesn't know about this do I have anything to do in this

ezteem:


If you want to know the truth, ask her to narrate the same story again, the story will change.

dacblogger:
Let her tell her father so he will arrest that Hediot...that's if your story is true p

DeGuyNxtDoor:

[b]I asked her if she's told her dad and she said no simply because she's scared of him, " should parents make their children feel uncomfortable around them? Shouldn't it be the other way round?" I asked her if she struggled or screamed and she said the guy overpowered her and moreover there wasn't anyone in the compound then.

Now she's been crying over this and saying she doesn't know if he came inside her or not, or if she's contracted a disease or something, and that she never dreamt of losing her virginity in such manner. She said she trusts me and that's the reason why she told me so I can help her, but as her father doesn't know about this do I have anything to do in this

DeGuyNxtDoor:
trust me, this girl would never lie, at least not to me.

ojun50:
The girl has alot of question to answer.
bt op wetin u won do now

Harbeyg09:
Now you have told millions of nairalanders

DeGuyNxtDoor:
honestly, I do not know.

She's scared to tell her dad who I'm sure would strangle the he-goat!

I had good plans for her

ojun50:

why nt go discuss with her dad first

DeGuyNxtDoor:
hmmm...that man won't take it easy, na me rape abi na me them rape?

What if I tell him and when he asks her then she says she wasn't raped...will u come to my rescue?

She should tell him first but honestly I'm boiling inside my soul

IamLEGEND1:
i'm sure you know what a hospital is.
she should go get herself checked.that should be her main concern for now.But do not- I repeat; DO NOT under any circumstance make the mistake of going to see the doctor together.
coz' when kasala finally burst (& it will), you'll be the one to be thrown under the bus.
no dey fool yourself with that friendship nonsense.......you'll be surprised how powerful of an incentive self-preservation is.

na naija we dey,i cannot come and go and be playing comforter for babe wey no be my sister.

In SUMMARY: Help from a distance.

ezteem:


If you want to know the truth, ask her to narrate the same story again, the story will change.

Or
Encourage her to follow you to Alagbon police station. She'll definitely tell you she has forgiven them.

What I'm trying to say is...... she enjoyed it and she started having sex few weeks before that day. Funny how she didn't come all roughed up. She showered, sprayed perfume and came to cry on your shoulder..... chai.. this life.

She's even scared to tell pops she's been raped.

Afonjashapmouth:
From your narration i can tell you have little or no experience with girls. she is ready to have sex with you and to cover up her lies about the virginity poo she has been feeding you, she has to come up with a nice pile up story. tell her to narrate the story again and figure out addition and subtractions. her father sent her to a 22 yrs old boy unknown to her or known?? and the boy lacks the regard for the father to rape her or they both planed the rape?? d story is lame as far as i am concerned. No matter how hard hearted your father is, you being raped by a person he sent you to would not be taken likely by him cos you didn't just go out on your own account. Guy forget nursing all this snakes forming miss innocent hardly is any of them innocent, its the new world.

kiddoiLL:
dis wan no get sense at all

Afonjashapmouth:
From your narration i can tell you have little or no experience with girls. she is ready to have sex with you and to cover up her lies about the virginity poo she has been feeding you, she has to come up with a nice pile up story. tell her to narrate the story again and figure out addition and subtractions. her father sent her to a 22 yrs old boy unknown to her or known?? and the boy lacks the regard for the father to rape her or they both planed the rape?? d story is lame as far as i am concerned. No matter how hard hearted your father is, you being raped by a person he sent you to would not be taken likely by him cos you didn't just go out on your own account. Guy forget nursing all this snakes forming miss innocent hardly is any of them innocent, its the new world.

omega25red:
wow your statement could be true but its opinions like this that makes rapist in Nigeria get away with it. A young woman comes up to you to say she was raped and your initial reaction is she is ready to have sex you think she made up the story to cover up the fact that she isn't a virgin? Did the OP tell you he wanted to have sex with her? or that they have something going?

Not everyone who says rape is lying to cover up the fact that they aren't virgins

DeGuyNxtDoor:
she should make the first move by telling her dad then her dad and I can take it from there..

Wanna have my fist on that guy's face