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I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by uninvited: 7:33pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
My closest friend in school broke up with his girlfriend like 2 months ago because "there were more fishes in the ocean " according to him. After the breakup she was broken. I offered her comfort, was there for her and constantly checked on her as being a nice guy. One thing led to another and everything went too far between I and his ex. She asked me out and I had to play along. The problem is I don't know how long we can hide this from my friend. Though I feel she's using me to get back at my friend and the relationship might still end. I'm scared that he'll find out later on. I'm just a nice guy in a whole lot of mess because he'll see me as a backstabber and I can't just say no to his ex. I'm confused |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by PhilipGallagher(m): 7:37pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
You are a Sly Nigga and you'll lose both ways. mtscheew. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Oyindidi(f): 7:37pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Confuse people don take over nairaland ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by odiereke(m): 7:38pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
you are threading a very dangerous path. Just pray to God to see you through. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by pressplay411(m): 7:41pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
If you're 9ice guy then you must be ready for the Payne. Coz if he finds out it's would definitely be Rugged for you 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Guy learn to stay away from ur paddy girlfriends - present and past. It'll save you lots of headache and stress esp coming to nairaland to ask for advice.. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nedfed(m): 7:50pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Chaiiiiii God forbid Why I go swallow what my friend vomit Never When we av millions of gals roaming the street. 1 Like
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Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Maybe it's just something in your expression but somehow I don't believe you're as much of a "Nice guy". That said, you should tell your friend. You should have actually told him before starting anything, that way you're not in a situation where you're scared of what might happen if he finds out. You should have talked to him as soon as you saw she was into you. Then you'd know if he gave the green light or not (regardless of if he meant it) and you have that as your defence. Now you're dating a girl, who you're not even sure whether or not she's using you for revenge or rebound or if it's something real. And You're not being a bestfriend to your bestfriend because so far, you've been dishonest. And that's just basic friendship, not even Nice Guy friendship. If you actually see him as a friend/care about your friendship, you should let him know. You've already started it, He might not support it but at least it's better than getting caught red handed. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Hmmnn, nawa o...
Just kiss your friendship goodbye dat is if you valued it in d first place ![]() Anyway, tell your friend.. Expect the worst, hope for d best.. My 2 cents |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by nc201016(m): 8:08pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Bleep boy why would u roll with your BEST FRIEND x? am sure u are d course of d break up @ least 50 % reason y she left d guy 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by spencerlouis(m): 8:09pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
puxi axx niga!!! ur frnds ex ![]() ![]() itz a no! no! no!!! end it hw eva u can!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by nc201016(m): 8:11pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
uninvited:good example of a pussy ass nigga 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
pressplay411: Lyrically, ya crazie ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by uninvited: 8:22pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
WildWine:I know what I did was wrong but like I said, I didn't intend to go for her. My intentions were pure, I just saw she was hurting and I wanted to help. I didn't plan for it to get to this way. I just wanted her to be happy. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by dacovajnr: 8:23pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Another Wayne Bridge and John Terry palava in the making.but Op you're certified SLY!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by dingbang(m): 8:25pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Some kyn advice just dey annoy me.. Some people be saying he should have talked to him.. Na him be her papa? Or na him pay her bride price? Please carry on with the chic... Wtf 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
she"s just using u as a door mat for the main time until she gets the next main guy.no serious minded lady dates her ex boyfriend"s best friend. |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by pressplay411(m): 8:31pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dacovajnr:there was this Welsh guy in Man u who banged his elder brother"s wife silly.i have forgotten his name ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by dacovajnr: 8:34pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
lefulefu:That's Eleribu Ryan giggs...The idol of most Mad-U fans
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Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dacovajnr:yea! Ryan Giggs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that guy was a badt nigga ![]() i never expected he would be able to do such a thing ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by dacovajnr: 8:41pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
lefulefu:He bleeped Her back to back on his matrimonial bed...you shouldn't expect anything less from anything that has Devil's logo inscription on it ![]() ![]()
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Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
uninvited: What you did wasn't necessarily wrong. You didn't go with your friend's girl, you went with your friend's ex. As long as you believed he wasn't into her, etc. then that should be fine. Maybe your intentions were pure, especially considering you've said your friend left her for other "fish in the sea" and you were just trying to be there for her. The point is you're asking on here and haven't told your friend because whether you like it or not, you feel guilty. What has happened has happened. It's all about how you move forward now. Like I said, I'll tell him rather than him finding out, he's not just some guy you know, he's your best friend. Maybe it's just casual, maybe it's not. Maybe you're being used, maybe you're not. Maybe you're the one using her, maybe you aren't. Maybe your bestfriend wouldn't care, maybe he would. Maybe she'll even get back with him, maybe she won't. And a lot more possibilities. The longer you wait and keep it a secret, the more complicated things could get. Think of the longterm |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
dacovajnr:..
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Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by moblix: 9:13pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Guy d type of u na em dey sleep with ena relative wife wen opportune |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by OLAJADON: 9:50pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
uninvited:the brother code says your friend girl or ex is a no no |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by samyfreshsmooth(m): 9:57pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
Wetin dey sup with nairaland these days o each day person must see at least 4 post of confused people seeking for advice (70% of the posts na lie) confused people don overtake nairaland and ermm if ur guy na ......... E no suppose talk put if i date a lady and later a friend of mine dates her its no business of mine and i no go talk or do anything than to wish dem well anyways.........
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Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by AuroraB(f): 10:13pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
How could you loose control of things ![]() ![]() Swear you've not slept with her ![]() How did the erection come on if you never wanted it ![]() Being by her can happen without you wanting more ![]() Have you thought of how it would feel when she dumps you ![]() Why do you now find it difficult to tell your friend since he called it off ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating My Best Friend's Ex And I Don't Know If I Should Tell Him by sweeterman(m): 11:14pm On Jun 17, 2017 |
If I'm ur friend ur doing dis to ehn... U just booked 10 bullets for urself
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