lovelygurl:


She's single and searching that's why

khalhokage:


Stop being ignorant would be the right word.

She's incredibly ignorant.

her ignorance is dumbfounding.

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

You really have a problem. "Gender equality" is a farce. Men and women were never and will never be equal. Don't say you are an advocate of something because your female friends or cute girls believe in it and you want impress them.

If you do, you will end up living in a fool's paradise.

eh ehn Wetyn I no go hear.

so Ya a tranny. how e be

Rukkydelta:

How can one be submissive to someone she don't love?
It's totally impossible unless the submission will comes from fear or cos of money
And it is stated in the Bible that women should love their husbands although it isn't much emphasis is not place on it unlike men should love their wives cos it's mainly the men's duty to show care and God knows that woman desires naturally to be pampered(not spoilt)and men desires respect

Titus 2:4-5
And so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

NOW MY QUESTION TO U IS, Y WILL U GO N MARRY SOMEONE UR NOT ATTRACTED TO.

sarrki:



Thanks boss can see that

u make mistake ansa am

Let me give u a scenario and I want all couples to experiment.
Why don't u ladies who brag about equal rights for once try to work, then spend the money on running the house and kids expenses while the man also works and tries to spend his money on getting a new car for himself, or buy new clothes. Or just spend his money only on making himself look good ,Just as u women spend ur money on hair and clothes only.
I bet u the statement to the outcome of the experiment from the woman wud be ' don't u knw you are the man?'
Women all want equal rights yeah? let us men give them the chance.. it seems they need to learn the hard way...

Am not against anything or whatever but women claiming equal rights with men is like calling a spade a cutass which is a pure black and white lie... Cuz even though a cutlass can dig, it still canot dig as deep as a spade... experiment and get back to me... I challenge u women!

Victornezzar:

u make mistake ansa am

Great mistake baba

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

which injustice if I may ask?

A man can't impregnate another man, neither can a woman impregnate another woman. A woman gets the blame if she gets pregnant because she (as a woman) is suppose to know what to do to avoid getting pregnant. Especially if she's not ready to settle down, likewise the man.

I dont believe in gender equality...men are meant to take care of us. He will work, I will work...but my money is mine and his money is ours

MISSCONGENIALITY:
her ignorance is dumbfounding.

You who's not ignorant, kindly throw more light into this issue.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
her ignorance is dumbfounding.

sarrki:



Great mistake baba

Lol na wetin we dey face dere oo

sarahade:


Don't mind that ass licker. Just ignore her she will soon write story about her husband.

Lol. This one really got you.
Well the truth is that there is already gender equality in Nigeria. Women enjoy more incentives than men. We all know that there is nothing we stopped women from doing.

Sorry she made some mistakes but she was right in the message she was trying to pass

princessayesha:
I dont believe in gender equality...men are meant to take care of us. He will work, I will work...but my money is mine and his money is ours

How many of you,madam?

princessayesha:
I dont believe in gender equality...men are meant to take care of us. He will work, I will work...but my money is mine and his money is ours

Women and delusion. Please wake up except if you live in the moon.

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

You are young and naive so I'll forgive your ignorance.
I pray you learn that yes, men and women are very different.
However no gender is less than the other!
God is not a misogynist.
He created everything with a fine balance. Can two men impregnate themselves?
The only superior male to me is my husband.
I AM EQUAL WITH EVERY OTHER MAN!

Tahrah:
How many of you,madam?

Abeg help me ask her. She is a fellow lady, you guys need to educate yourselves

AHCB:
which injustice if I may ask?

A man can't impregnate another man, neither can a woman impregnate another woman. A woman gets the blame if she gets pregnant because she (as a woman) is suppose to know what to do to avoid getting pregnant. Especially if she's not ready to settle down, likewise the man.

She even feels sold out.. that only further proves that women campaigning for equal rights is a struggLe rather than a 'right ' itself... lol

buchilino:


NOW MY QUESTION TO U IS, Y WILL U GO N MARRY SOMEONE UR NOT ATTRACTED TO.

I can't marry someone I am not attracted to, but the poster I quote state that a woman shouldn't love her husband but be submissive

Tahrah:
How many of you,madam?

A number of us that are lucky enough to find responsible, cute, God fearing men

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

this entire post reeks of ignorance, I am tempted to ask how old you are, you obviously need orientation about what gender equality means, you obviously think it's more like struggle for control and power, geeze!, what a full display of ignorance

YelloweWest:

You are young and naive so I'll forgive your ignorance.
I pray you learn that yes, men and women are not very different.
However no gender is less than the other!
God is not a misogynist.
He created everything with a fine balance. Can two men impregnate themselves?
The only superior male to me is my husband.
I AM EQUAL WITH EVERY OTHER MAN!.

It's not true. So you are superior to other people's husband?

There are lines of superiority in everywhere. A lady can be superior to me by virtue of age, leadership position, and societal preference.

We must understand that we are not the same. You do not have the gene of a man. We are completely different, yet we need to be equal, not by virtue of what we are made of, but by how society treats us.

Rukkydelta:


And it is stated in the Bible that women should love their husbands although it isn't much emphasis is not place on it unlike men ...

Madam where is it written?

mrphysics:

Women and delusion. Please wake up except if you live in the moon.

The fact that you don't take care of your wife does not mean responsible men don't

sexybbstar:


I can't close it down o... I just enjoy seeing dramas caused by my thread... The feeling is just cool. I'm cooling off my head by creating some controversial threads and some are have hot brains by ready those threads... Isn't that cool?

I agree, even most of them have not only sagging breasts but sagging brains too. I am just observing quietly.

Reference:


You are partly wrong. They do not universally have an inferiority mentality. The facts are often clear in black and white. What I think they desire amongst many things is to be treated equally at work, in the home, etc. In terms of opportunity, equal pay for equal work, discrimination based on gender and on and on. There are real empirical stats to back up claims that women are not given a fair deal in many instances globally. This is absolutely true and absolutely wrong. Returning to my example. If for instance you feel women are complimentary and necessary tools to getting the 'tasks' of life done will you as a carpenter treat your hammer differently from your saw. I mean will you spend more on one than the other, will you treat one with respect and ignore the other. After the day's work will you clean, polish and carefully store one and leave the other lying in the mud... will you accomplish your task that way. I think the attitude we have to the roles and responsibilities of both sexes will go alomg way in determining our future accomplishments and prosperity. No wonder Africa remains behind.

While other countries maximise the potentials God has given both sexes we are like a 4 cylinder engine having two blown plugs. How can you possibly keep up in the race of life.

First and foremost, l must Thank you for your explanations on the subject matter.
There is nothing l appreciate, more than someone who "engages another, to explain a difference of opinion".

Now, back to business: I will be addressing specific statements you made, so it could lengthy but l am sure it will be most educative to everyone of us.

Reference:


You are partly wrong. They do not universally have an inferiority mentality. The facts are often clear in black and white. What I think they desire amongst many things is to be treated equally at work, in the home, etc. In terms of opportunity, equal pay for equal work, discrimination based on gender and on and on. There are real empirical stats to back up claims that women are not given a fair deal in many instances globally. This is absolutely true and absolutely wrong

This again, brings us to the basic question of whether the GENDER are "The SAME and EQUAL"?
If something is "the same", then it is easy to "assume it is equal" and therefore, it is also easy to assume that what we will get from such "same thing", in terms of performance, will the same and thus, attract "equal remnumeration/pay".

Before l go into details, l watched a Video of the opening of a Shopping Plaza in Dubai recently.
As an "opening bonanza", the owner declared a "freebie" for everyone on the first day of opening, for just one hour! Just one hour, all you can eat shopping.

In the Video,
*Women stormed the Dresses and Jewellery sections, carted away the garments, Wristwatches, Necklaces, shoes and other body adornments. Mostly things that are "consumables" in nature.

*The Men on the other hand, stormed the Electronics and Household items section, carting away the Computers, TV's, Drones, Tools, and the likes. Mostly things that are productive in nature.

At the review of the bonanza, the owner worried why there was such a discrepancy in the choices of each GENDER?
Specialists then were invited to analyse the "choices" of each gender, based on what they chose.

Summary was that each gender is radically different in the way they "think and make choices".
This re-enforces the medical research that shows that the Female gender uses a different part of the brain (more) while the Male uses a different part more.
Ofcourse. we know that the brain is our Central Processing Unit and takes care of our real life choices.

Bottom line: Male and Female Gender DONT THINK OR ACT ALIKE!
Thus, as expected, their "productivity", which is governed by every-minute choices they make, is NEVER THE SAME.

The next obvious question will then be: Who makes "better choices that are more "productive"?... and should therefore earn a higher remnumeration?

The honest answer lies in the hand of the Employer, who by virtue of his position, "sees and appreciates who does what and do it more", in his organisation. He pays for it, mind you.
And let me remind you, that the "employers" are both Male and Female....and in most, if not all cases, such employer will tend to pay a Male more, than the female! (So, you cant shout "favouritism" here!).

The employer thinks the "Male gender" is "OVERALL, MORE PRODUCTIVE" in his/her organisation, than his Female Gender counterpart......and therefore, is willing to PAY MORE, for his services.
This is a "fact of life" that needs to beating down.

If we "dig into the mind" of the employer, just like the owner of the Dubai shopping Plaza, we would realise that once gain, it all boils down to the GENDER DIFFERENCE/INEQUALITY of how each gender "thinks and act".
What each gender counts as priority and thus focuses on!
Overtime, repetition in certain jobs, by particular Gender, has led to specialisation and efficiency, as we all learn from Economics 101.

We can also agree that the FEMALE gender is also better (then the male) at certain 'jobs/chores' due to how they think and act, as controlled by the part of their brain which they engage!
There are jobs where everyone would prefer a woman to do, and thus pay her better for it, than a male counterpart. For example, most HR heads are Women and they get paid for it.

Men have become more "specialised and efficient" in certain jobs (than women) and thus, are entitled to more pay than women (who are less specialised and efficient in that area), while Women have also become more specialised and efficient than Men, in certain jobs and are entitled to higher pay than Men in such Jobs.

So, basically, Women want to "FORCE, BY LEGISLATION or FIAT", to be paid that which they are "not entitled to or qualified for"!
They want to force even fellow Women, to pay them more, for PERFORMANCE which another fellow Female Employer understands that, they are less productive on, compared to their MALE counterpart!
So, when you say "fair deal", l say we live in a democracy, Business owners and the work place is democratic enough to the point of appreciating that PROFIT needs to be MAXIMISED in a Capitalist System and as such, the Employer would pay highest, to anyone who he/she thinks would give them the HIGHEST RETURNS IN TERMS OF PERFORMANCE...... and up till now, the MALE GENDER have proved to provide the highest Return on Investment, for the employer, hence paying them higher than their female gender is just "basic and normal".

If women want more money, they would have to Up their game, to the point where the employer will appreciate their "performance" and reward them accordingly for it.
Trying to do ti by "fiat of legislation" is an act of weakness, cheating and inferiority complex.
Its like using "performance enhancing drugs', as an athlete, you wont ever command the required respect, among your peers.

Reference:
If for instance you feel women are complimentary and necessary tools to getting the 'tasks' of life done will you as a carpenter treat your hammer differently from your saw. I mean will you spend more on one than the other, will you treat one with respect and ignore the other. After the day's work will you clean, polish and carefully store one and leave the other lying in the mud... will you accomplish your task that way.

I think No MALE will say what you have just said!
Simply because they use TOOLS and know the difference between various TOOLS!

Okay, let me use your analogy:
Different Tools, offer and contribute different "capacity" to the work at hand.
That is the simple reason WHY they cost different prices!

The PRICE of an item, has always been an indication of HOW MUCH VALUE the BUYER attaches to it.
So, YES, l don treat all my tools the same way. They cost more than each other! They produce "more value" than one another in the achievement of the "ultimate objective".
The same way, an employer values one employee, more than another!
But in the end, l still take care of all the Tools, because they "work together" to produce that chair l want achieved.
That is, they are complimentary to each other.

The same way, a Husband and a Wife, are complimentary to each other in a marriage.
But even in that "marriage", the "Tools are still different (GENDER), the Tools are still not EQUAL (GENDER) but the Tools work together in a complimentary manner, based on certain "rule and guidelines" (Submission, Respect, Love) to achieve the desired objective of a well-made chair (Marital Bliss) , for example.

The "Sexes or GENDER" are created to be different (UNEQUAL), that was the "intention and the purpose", so that they can complement each other.
Any deviation from that, is trying to make a reality of the absurd.

Thank you once again.

MY TAKE

Wrong title, not what i expected but you tried... that's just your own piece

Shikena

kayo80:
OP, God bless you for this post. Females need to read this, especially that part you compared the effects of a male being wayward and female being wayward.

You dey see y'or life?

TheUmbra:



No one will deny you your right to education and the opportunity to succeed but maybe men will start taking you women seriously on gender equality thing when you start dominating fields like the army, fighting terror in the thick of sambisa forest, dominate the police force, heeding a distress call in the middle of the night with your bullet proof vest on because you're sure some daredevil criminals are Ak47-armed and are waiting to ambush you; dominating the fire service where you brave yourself up with your fake brazilian wig and embrace a burning building, or the construction industry that requires heavy manual lifting of tools and equipment.

But you all never complain when the female numbers are next to non-existent in these fields, but you raise dust on executive positions and start screening your gender equality trash.

Fact is you all are greedy vultures trying to reap where you didn't sow.

Even the boundary in your village was carved out by the blood of your forefathers. The identity you have was sustained and preserved by fearless men of old who hid your great grandmothers in a safe cave while they charged to war to preserve their seeds. And you're here hiding in your little hut typing gender equality.

tamuno!!!

whada fawk!